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For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 7:30:26 AM   
BoiJen


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Status: offline 		The Dommes, they see through it.

They already know you're married and there's no excuse in the book that justifies cheating on your wife. If you claim your wife knows, then you'll have no problem arranging the lunch between your wife and the Domme of your dreams.

I understand that you won't likely read this post but hell, I figured it couldn't hurt.

Also, they know you car is completely intact and there was no accident with your phone in the washing machine the night before. They already know you're a flake with no ability to follow through.

I thought you should know.

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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 8:17:28 AM   
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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 8:41:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		Boi, one of the things I love best about you is your limitless positivity :P :P :P

(Kidding, kidding...)

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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 8:53:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		As Lady P said on the Three Things topic, it is sad that people need to be -told- that cheating and lying is wrong and called out on their behavior.  Seems like that would have been covered in Kindergarten along with "don't litter" and "don't mark the walls with crayon".

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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 9:09:54 AM   
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Status: offline 		If they spell it "discrete" instead, does it make it through the filter?

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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 9:13:24 AM   
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If they spell it "discrete" instead, does it make it through the filter?
No, because that particular word fuck-up annoys me.

Numbers are discrete, not peoples.

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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 9:20:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		Mr. Steven! Using mathematical and scientific terms are against the TOS of collarme...shame on you! I thought you knew better ;-)

MsVC, you might enjoy this particular post, if you're on Fetlife ... http://fetlife.com/groups/6800/group_posts/498389

Otters, when someone's mother told them to share...their cock wasn't what she meant. lol

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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 9:42:28 AM   
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ORIGINAL: BoiJen

MsVC, you might enjoy this particular post, if you're on Fetlife ... http://fetlife.com/groups/6800/group_posts/498389

I read, I enjoyed, I'm now an official follower

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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 9:48:51 AM   
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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 9:58:24 AM   
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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 10:28:09 AM   
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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 10:40:45 AM   
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But but- my wife knows, but she doesn't wan't to talk about it! She just wants me to carry on behind her back, and she doesn't want to know any specifics!


Signed,

Dreamerdreaming, the married guy whose wife knows, but she doesn't want to talk about it

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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 11:45:22 AM   
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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 1:13:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim
As Lady P said on the Three Things topic, it is sad that people need to be -told- that cheating and lying is wrong and called out on their behavior.  Seems like that would have been covered in Kindergarten along with "don't litter" and "don't mark the walls with crayon".
Perhaps, but somewhere on that thread should also be, "random bashing of total strangers is unbecoming"

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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 1:21:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: leadership527

quote:

ORIGINAL: OttersSwim
As Lady P said on the Three Things topic, it is sad that people need to be -told- that cheating and lying is wrong and called out on their behavior.  Seems like that would have been covered in Kindergarten along with "don't litter" and "don't mark the walls with crayon".
Perhaps, but somewhere on that thread should also be, "random bashing of total strangers is unbecoming"


Not sure if that was just a jumping point from my post Jeff, or pointed directly at me...but I will take ownership of my part in doing some of that, yea.  We could probably all do with civility lessons some days, me included.


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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 1:31:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: leadership527

Perhaps, but somewhere on that thread should also be, "random bashing of total strangers is unbecoming"

It might be unbecoming, Jeff, but it doesn't change My position. 

I'm not here for charity work.  To date, there hasn't been a single person who has been able to convince Me of, "oh, I have wants..... I have needs" justifies going behind the back of the person they lay down and sleep next to every night being more important.  Every person in a marriage has a mouth and they have feet.  If they lack the ability to use one or both of those, they need to suck it up and drive on.

When the day comes that somebody can say they have changed My mind on the subject, I will gladly recant.


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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 1:42:56 PM   
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Boy, you added a lot to the world with that one.

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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 2:29:33 PM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		I am with LadyP on this one, there is NO excuse for running around and cheating on your significant other...no excuse whatsoever.

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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 2:42:38 PM   
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Sometimes, just for the sake of livening things up a bit, I wish this subject could get approached from the opposite direction.  Work with me - we're talking hypothetical here . . . .

Suppose a submale knows that he's a submale, at age 18.  He finds himself a Domme and gets collared by, and/or married to, her.  His fantasy is fulfilled, he's happy for many years.  Say it's that style of D/s relationship in which she really is the cool, aloof Goddess that he's always wanted. 

Then, at age 45, he meets a woman with whom he begins to relate as an equal.  She's not just pretty but friendly, affectionate - a female who isn't a Goddess, nor even a Woman with a capital 'W'. . . and she awakens in him a vanilla desire that he never thought he had.   

Does that scenario change anything about anyone's opinion? 


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RE: For the guys needing to be "discreet"... - 7/9/2010 3:08:12 PM   
OttersSwim


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Acting with honor and integrity is not affected in the slightest by this scenario.   If the relationship with the vanilla girl is something he wants to pursue, he needs his current Mistress/Wife's active consent and approval to proceed or the deal's off.  If she is unwilling to let him, and he simply must pursue this vanilla hottie, then honor and integrity says that he should end his current relationship before he begins his pursuit.

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