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Hello..New here :) - 7/9/2010 8:09:56 AM   
scottandbeth02


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Status: offline 		WooHoo... THX to 'Jim' who introduced us to this site!

First off, I am a sub/wife...My other half is my Dom/Husband .... We are 'fairly' new to the whole BDSM lifestyle; not sure we can call it a lifestyle..We have 2 young kids, so we don't 'play' in front of the kids, it is behind closed doors. We have been together for almost 10 years now, loving it, keeps getting better.
I am your typical housewife/Mom...I do it all plus I am Valedictorian and get to give a speech for my college Graduation for Florida Technical College in a week (July16th)  :) ..... We have been into the BDSM for a while now but looking to go further, you know, making the 'Sessions' to our liking...Everyone is different!

Whoever came up with the 'SAFE , SANE & CONSENSUAL' was DILUTED..LOL. We don't use..'safe' words because, honestly, if you don't 100% trust the one who is DOMing you, you have no business getting involved. If I use the 'safe' word, the night is off ( i have never had to use it)!! That would suck! ... And admit it, you have to have a slight bit of INsanity to get involved and derive pleasure from it. It is consensual...it a certain extent. You are consenting to it , but admit it, there are things that happens that you are like WHOA, I never said you could do that..but you accept your punishment/ humiliation in order to have a true release and please.

Anyways, that is how we look at it. thanks for taking the time to read this


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RE: Hello..New here :) - 7/9/2010 9:06:27 AM   
SirsJewel


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Status: offline 		Welcome and congrats on the graduation! Safe words are there for those that need. i myself have used them in the past with a couple of play partners,but haven't the need with Master as i trust Him with my life. Doesn't make them right or wrong,makes the person on the recieving end of the pain feel comfortable to be able to have a gauge,say green yellow red zones etc. Communication is key and whatever floats your boat and is pleasurable works all the way around. Enjoy the site ~ jewels

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RE: Hello..New here :) - 7/9/2010 9:07:05 AM   
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RE: Hello..New here :) - 7/9/2010 9:14:22 AM   
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RE: Hello..New here :) - 7/9/2010 9:27:44 AM   
paddington90872


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the dark side, we have cookies... I've always prefered to shout "AMNESTY" if I temporarily need a break from one area (my back & shoulders are there too, why always choose my ass ladies?). Never had to stop it altogether, just momentarily with Amnesty. True though I've never had to shout a safeword for an over zealous lover.

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RE: Hello..New here :) - 7/9/2010 9:29:28 AM   
DaddysInkedSlut


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RE: Hello..New here :) - 7/9/2010 9:30:55 AM   
monochromaniac


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From: Brighton, UK
Status: offline 		Welcome to the forums! I'm sure you'll fit in just fine :3

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RE: Hello..New here :) - 7/9/2010 12:12:06 PM   
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RE: Hello..New here :) - 7/9/2010 3:10:48 PM   
scottandbeth02


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Status: offline 		Your photo is delicious!! You look absolutely edible!  Love the top hat....I guess Amnesty would be the last thing you would hear during a session...lol!! 

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RE: Hello..New here :) - 7/9/2010 4:23:38 PM   
paddington90872


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Status: offline 		Thank you, that was my first suspension. Course I have to tie up anyone I can get my hands on now for practise!! Guess I'll have to earn that Amnesty if ever such occasion arises. I think delicious is a kind adjective for my pic, thank you. I hope you two have a great time on CollarMe, and on Fetlife.com. I go by the same user ID on FL and it's a great way to meet more people in the community (CollarMe seems to have more dating aspects I guess?).
Stay knotty kinksters!
And for Goddess' sake look me up if you two visit the SF bay area, the scene is completely off the wall here, not just for the gay community! There are simply things you must see!!!!
To paraphrase Hamlet ;
"There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio, Than are dreamt of in your philosophy."
And you'll find some at the SFCitadel.org

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RE: Hello..New here :) - 7/10/2010 6:16:30 AM   
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