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RE: What are your expectations of your first meeting wi... - 4/18/2006 9:22:02 AM

understud

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Ma'am If i may...i would be trying to determine if you had spoken the truth..no disrespect ...and if you had an open mind ...a voice on the phone or an e-mail gives me no real indication of what i might be getting into...again no disrespect... i would want to see if i believed i could put my trust in you...that's all; the rest would would be left to You...respectfully...buy you did ask

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RE: What are your expectations of your first meeting wi... - 4/18/2006 9:39:48 AM

moon69

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I would have to agree with the above, in the sense that 'Have you been truthful in the emailings or Instant messages'.
(I know the perspective of this is reciprical, applying to Dommes as well) Typically the meetings that I have encountered, the person either was not even closely resembling a picture that they had sent or they had used one so outdated as to try and make themselves look better than they feel they do. If either of these cases happen (and they do more than you know), I can tell you without a doubt that I have no interest, or a loss of interest in pursuing anything further. I mean this style of fabrication (LIE) is not acceptable to those trying to find someone. Obviously other factors begin to apply, were you just bullshitting everything else, what are your real motives, to the point of 'ok, who are you in cahoots with in this little joke?'.
What are my expectations when meeting a Domme for the first time? I expect you to be who and what you have professed form the start. And hopefully all of the discussions and feeling comfortable with each other will arise while in person, just like in print/email/IM.

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RE: What are your expectations of your first meeting wi... - 4/19/2006 6:20:00 PM

blackpearl81

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Great question

Overall, I expect a first meet to be fun...maybe have some slightly serious overtones....(start off with some laughs.. be it a funny story, a joke, etc) then maybe move on to something a little bit more serious..

Maybe go for a walk.. since everyone is different.. some maybe happy walking around and talking, some.. prefer to sit somewhere quiet like starbucks (my personal fave place... since I'm addicted to their mocha frappucinos)

Although honestly... more often than not I try to impress, or at least make some kind of lasting impression to warrant a second meet-up... sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn't.

What I'd like to find out after a first meet.. Is if I've set myself apart from others enough to arouse her curiosity, and see if that was enough to earn a second meet.

Hope this helps

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