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What I'm Seeking - 7/9/2010 11:45:50 PM

dj2286

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Hi my name is Daniel. I've actually technically been on here awhile but only recently have started to try and more aggressively pursue my personal happiness. I believe I am a caring, loving, and dedicated person however I am unique and it's been hard to find that special lady that I really connect with. I'm not just speaking sexually but a real connection between two people.

I am definitely open to friends with benefits but a legit friendship with the benefits would be nice. I cannot seem to find anyone local or near local on the site. I live in Martinsburg, West Virginia which is kind of the border area with MD, PA, and VA. Anybody in say Hagerstown, MD Winchester VA Charles Town WV and the surrounding area would be great. My purpose in posting here I guess is to ask does anyone not too far away exist on the site? I have difficulty with he searches for some reason. I know Martinsburg has a large swingers community and I've heard there is even a BDSM community as well. It's something I'm working on a Documentary about which isn't my main purpose for being here but I'd love to chat with anyone in the lifestyle and hear your stories and experiences.

Thank you and I hope to hear from you.

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RE: What I'm Seeking - 7/10/2010 12:03:01 AM

AQuietSimpleMan

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Okay so first off you are aware that this is NOT a swinger site right?

I mean some people here ARE swingers but this is a BDSM Site.

All that being said, Friends with benifits is an honest thing to ask for, it says you are not looking for commitment. I get that..... It might not be received as wonderfully as you might think.....

Most of the connections in a BDSM relationship require large ammounts of trust, and sex isn't usually the foundation of that bond.

All things considered I would ask if you know what you are really looking for.... is it Sex, NSAFWB or Kink.

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RE: What I'm Seeking - 7/10/2010 6:12:24 AM

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quote:

It's something I'm working on a Documentary about which isn't my main purpose for being here but I'd love to chat with anyone in the lifestyle and hear your stories and experiences.

this is a great way to shoot yourself in the foot...

good luck.

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RE: What I'm Seeking - 7/11/2010 12:25:10 AM

dj2286

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Well actually I'm open to finding true love. I'm really a hopeless romantic I have just been on many dating sites mainstream and other and have found that's a pretty big long shot. I'm not here strictly for sex I guess I were to sum up what I'm looking for simply put it's friends and or lovers who will expand my mind and help me experience new things sexually and non sexually. I'm very sexually inexperienced which may work against me here. I've only been with a few women and have not explored my less vanilla desires. I agree about the documentary hence not mentioning it in my actual profile but that isn't why I'm here.

The theme of the documentary is amazing and unique people in smaller towns. I have found out Martinsburg has a large swingers and bdsm community. I'm not looking to make porn, it is a legit doc and I am interested in interviewing people new to the bdsm and swinger lifestyles and people that have been involved in the scene for a long time. I'm in no way implying this is a swinger site I've just noticed there are quite a few on here. Anyways hope I've clarified things a little and appreciate the feedback.

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