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how do i find a real dom female who desires to have lon... - 7/10/2010 3:37:15 PM

psovacool

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I want to live my life as a submissive. It's so hard to find a dominate woman who is looking for a live in servant for long term submission. If anyone can help please

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RE: how do i find a real dom female who desires to have... - 7/10/2010 3:45:21 PM

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Start here, it will tell you everything you need to know: http://www.collarchat.com/m_3057130/tm.htm

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RE: how do i find a real dom female who desires to have... - 7/10/2010 3:57:58 PM

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Another little hint. Some of us have a pet peeve about the difference between 'dominate' and 'Dominant'. Those who can't tell the difference are spotted immediately as having no experience and not educating themselves on the matter.

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RE: how do i find a real dom female who desires to have... - 7/10/2010 4:24:08 PM

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So you want to be a domina's bitch, so she can break you...

That isn't what many of us want. That does seem to be a male fantasy gone insane with the amount of men wanting a woman to cater to it.

When you see us as real women, we might see you as submissive.

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RE: how do i find a real dom female who desires to have... - 7/10/2010 4:52:03 PM

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I just looked at your profile. Nobody will take you seriously with that. It says: "I wanna be collared! Make me a slave for life! Looking for a beautiful woman to be my Domme!"

Except it's not spelled that well.

So any Domme, including the gorgeous ones, will see that and think you're too sloppy to spell properly, and that you are some eager horndog.

Try just meeting Dommes. See what they like. Is it something you can provide? Think of them as people first, women second, and Dommes third. Don't expect to go into 24/7 servitude instantly. Get to KNOW them.

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RE: how do i find a real dom female who desires to have... - 7/10/2010 4:59:28 PM

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You've got to connect with them as ordinary people, psovacool, as well as a dominants. It doesn't work otherwise.

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RE: how do i find a real dom female who desires to have... - 7/10/2010 5:09:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
Except it's not spelled that well.

But he did use two red faces shouting at each other DarkSteven.

Basically, if you want to know how to attract a Domme (or a woman for that matter), just read my post here:

http://www.collarchat.com/m_3301451/mpage_3/tm.htm.

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RE: how do i find a real dom female who desires to have... - 7/10/2010 5:45:09 PM

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Read the Ask A Mistress FAQ.

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RE: how do i find a real dom female who desires to have... - 7/10/2010 5:56:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Another little hint. Some of us have a pet peeve about the difference between 'dominate' and 'Dominant'. Those who can't tell the difference are spotted immediately as having no experience and not educating themselves on the matter.

You better listen to "that girl in leather." She has a lot of pull around here. She will tell all of the other dominates to ignore you.

You are now officially fucked!!

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RE: how do i find a real dom female who desires to have... - 7/10/2010 5:59:39 PM

Voodali

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Honestly, although I'm seeking a compatible long term boy, and have been for a very long time, I switched off at "strikingly beautiful woman" for more reasons than I can count or rant about in this post. You might want to explore that, and question why that would turn a domme off. I suggest you get to know women in general, what attracts them and what repels them, how they like to be treated, how they like to be made to feel, and then apply that to your search. Shame. I thought you were cute, too.

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