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osf -> Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 1:41:59 PM)
What is done to you or the attitude of the person doing it? I don't want to narrow the discussion too much but assumming something is being done to you , would you feel differently about it depending on his attitude v the attitude ofsomeone else you may be in a relationship with?

littlewonder -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 1:52:28 PM)
both, neither? I have no idea what the question is supposed to mean. Btw, welcome back.

KatyLied -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 1:57:25 PM)
Intent and context is important in a variety of situations. I have no experience with id.

domiguy -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 1:57:40 PM)
Didn't miss you because of stupid shit like this. However, Freud was rather big on the id. I always thought freud was full of shit.

osf -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 2:02:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: domiguy Didn't miss you because of stupid shit like this. However, Freud was rather big on the id. I always thought freud was full of shit. I'm glad you didn't miss me because I'd never want you to feel lost and abandoned

KatyLied -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 2:05:09 PM)
Freud's stuff was all about sex. I think he may be the one who was stuck in a stage of development!

AquaticSub -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 2:08:55 PM)
~Fast Reply~ As with everything else... It depends. Neither is more important than the other. It just depends on the factors in question, how much I want this done to me, what the attitude is, etc.

domiguy -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 2:24:05 PM)
Now you went back and eliminated everything about "id." How much do your drink on a day to day basis? Ever been to AA? Your post made no sense the way it was. Makes about the same now that you corrected it.

KatyLied -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 2:26:38 PM)
Yes, and he also makes me look like an idiot. I hate osf

domiguy -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 2:42:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied Yes, and he also makes me look like an idiot. I hate osf I really hate him too. Who do you think hates him more? Is it against tos to have a good ol fashioned CM hate off?

KatyLied -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 2:44:54 PM)
Well I am generally not a hater b/c I hate indulging in negative energy, b/c I am fearful of what I send out into the uni, so you can win this one. I am too tired to care about osf.

littlewonder -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 2:59:38 PM)
in that case then who I am doing things with matters completely. I don't do casual playing and I'm monogamous so yeah...it matters a lot.

Aylee -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 3:29:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf What is done to you or the attitude of the person doing it? I don't want to narrow the discussion too much but assumming something is being done to you , would you feel differently about it depending on his attitude v the attitude ofsomeone else you may be in a relationship with? Like being given candy? I do not care what your attitude is if it involves me getting candy out of it.

osf -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 3:35:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aylee quote: ORIGINAL: osf What is done to you or the attitude of the person doing it? I don't want to narrow the discussion too much but assumming something is being done to you , would you feel differently about it depending on his attitude v the attitude ofsomeone else you may be in a relationship with? Like being given candy? I do not care what your attitude is if it involves me getting candy out of it. My domme is like that about grapes, just give her the grapes

gungadin09 -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 4:08:28 PM)
To me, the intention matters more. pam

itsmeinLV -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 4:10:01 PM)
I think both is important. Kinda balance each other out.

sweetsub1957 -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 5:29:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf What is done to you or the attitude of the person doing it? The person doing it. i don't do casual anymore, so it has to be the Person i'm in a relationship with. Otherwise, it's just not gonna happen....at all. [:D] ~sweetsub~

DesFIP -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 6:37:56 PM)
It depends. His attitude matters but even if he had a positive, supportive attitude there are still some things I can't do.

sweetsub1957 -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 7:18:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP It depends. His attitude matters but even if he had a positive, supportive attitude there are still some things I can't do. Yes, this is so true. Even though i said the Person doing it/His attitude is more important than what's being done, there are some things i just can't do anyway. That's why i call them Hard Limits. ~sweetsub~

Aileen1968 -> RE: Which is more important to you (7/11/2010 7:29:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf What is done to you or the attitude of the person doing it? Neither. The most important thing to me is the person. With him he can do whatever he wants to do. He can do the same thing to me in a rough, violent way or a softer more affectionate way and I will still crave it because it's him doing it.

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