porcelaine
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ORIGINAL: Zevar
EasyE:
IMO this is not so much about you doing something that will somehow manipulate the heart of the one you claim to be “falling in love” with. Instead it is about you being a man that is sound in his integrity, thereby demonstrating to her that you are a trustworthy man that she can open to from the deepest realm of her heart without risking being harmed in some reprehensible manner. Obviously building a deepened bond of trust with her that is rooted in your unrelenting strength takes patience, wisdom, fortitude, honesty, integrity and endurance.
Who you are as a man is what needs to be primary in all of your actions. You are the leader, first and foremost. Determine to be a man that is not only able to sexually awaken her to the mystery of exchanged erotic possibilities, yet also a man that she can depend on when she is not at her best. A man that will embrace her as your own regardless where she is in her developing and opening to her service toward you.
Make yourself available to her need to be assured. Without your constancy of assurance fears can form within her heart and produce uncertainties that reduce her capacity to open herself to you. Without being a man that she admires due to not only your ability to command her body and render her helplessly begging for your touch, but also a man that is a man of integrity without reserve.
Relentlessly forge forth in a balanced manner daily determined to make yourself worthy of her continued devotion, submission and servitude. Inspire her heart by being the dominant masterful man that you are without forgetting what that means in reference to your responsibility to enforce within her heart a feeling of safety and security that inspires her heart wholly toward you. Inspire her to willingly giving you her devoted heart of submission unreservedly. Be the man she needs in order to blossom into the woman she is.
Endeavor to discover her fully by way of irresistible trustworthiness. Once she gives you more don’t forget to nurture her heart into the depth where she has opened. Dare to delve into the places she has opened to you. Acknowledge your weakness. Never fear to examine your errors. Master you above all else and at all times. Only then will you master her heart. Sharpen your weaknesses with whatever is required to continue to be the strong dominant man that you were created to be.
Finally never turn away from being this man you were created to be. A man worthy of her trust. Manhood requires much responsibility and accountability when a man determines to master the heart of a woman. Be she slave or otherwise. Never forget that she is a woman with the heart of a female above all else. Treat her accordingly.
Zevar,
I'd like to commend you on the good advice you provided the OP. You cut to the heart of the matter where the truth resides. Oftentimes people forget what lay beneath the labels we've applied. It's pleasing to see that someone really gets it. I'm impressed. I don't encounter that very often.
~porcelaine
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