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What does your sub/slave do for you? - 4/16/2006 6:06:05 AM

ShiftedJewel

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With all the negativity that's been going on around here I thought starting something positive would be a good idea. This question has been put to the submissves/slaves so I thought I would do the same (only in reverse) here.

I'll start the ball rolling.

What does our girl do for me? She spoils me rotten. She baths me, slathers me with scented baby oil, combs out my hair and dries it and smiles the whole time. She brings me my pills and sees to it that I take them (I hate pills, even if they are all herbal... but, it's a necessity... menopause sucks). She knows when either of us need anything just before we need it and is ready to hand it to us as soon as we realize that we do. She makes us proud in private and in public. And did I mention that she smiles all the time?

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RE: What does your sub/slave do for you? - 4/16/2006 8:01:34 AM

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Here are just some of the lovely things Fox does for me off the top of my head -- most are not trained but just an outgrowth of him observing me and learning how best to serve:

Keeps my water glass full.

Reminds me to take my medicine and fetches it for me.

Does yard work before I can even realise it should be done.

Takes me shopping right after he's come back after a crappy day at work.

Takes off my shoes and socks each night them places a kiss on each foot.

Tells me he loves me often.

Tells me he thinks I'm beautiful and intelligent often.

Calls me on it when I'm beating myself up.

Helps with dinner or makes it entirely.

Answers the phone at night or during the day if he's here so I'm not disturbed.

Purrs and wiggles when I pet or scratch him.

Gets out my knives and whips and suffers for me with a smile (he is not a masochist).

Takes off his glasses when I get that "look in my eyes" that means I want to slap him.

Asks how my dissertation is coming each day.

Gives me pep talks when I'm feeling down about the semester

Watches some horror movies with me (he hates horror movies).

Gets hard whenever I hug or kiss him and looks longing at me but doesn't ask for more.

Only calls me Mistress unless something is wrong (then he uses my name).

Puts a drop of chocolate syrup in my hot chocolate as a "treat".

Kneels down whenever he brings me things.

Never asks to have an orgasm but also never comes without permission when we have sex.

Asks my permission before going out for anything that isn't work or family related; also inquires into my plans before agreeing to any family or work related optional activities.

Kisses my hand.

Wakes up at 3am to give me an orgasm just cause I'm horny.

and lots of other things I'm sure.

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RE: What does your sub/slave do for you? - 4/16/2006 12:59:40 PM

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That is some very cool stuff. Thanks for sharing.

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RE: What does your sub/slave do for you? - 4/16/2006 1:40:56 PM

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Tammyjo, Ma'am,

Fox seems to be quite someone to look up to! Does he give seminars?

And Jewel, Ma'am,

I had faith in You anyway... but wow...

Good lists to keep on hand as friendly reminders on how to be a gentleman and a sub.

Yours(not both of Yours, you'll have to flip for me),

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RE: What does your sub/slave do for you? - 4/16/2006 1:52:04 PM

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quote:

Yours(not both of Yours, you'll have to flip for me),

I'm afraid Tammyjo is a lot younger then me and would stand a better chance at doing a flip and possibly even doing so with little injury... I on the other hand... not even gonna try...

Now, if you're talking about a coin toss... that I can do.

Hmmmmm, where did I put that two headed coin....

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RE: What does your sub/slave do for you? - 4/16/2006 2:04:33 PM

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dear top diva
i met someone like that.they never swore or critisized plus she never even had to drink smoke ,or; never jelous ;never argued ;always polite;accepting people crude or ignorant as they are;never a contrary word.
only one like that was my own grandmother .it was so refreshing.she oosed class and grace and showmanship;poise all the time,but she was definately ,not a bottom or submissive...she was irreplacable;one of a kind;no competition;like no other;i expected and wished everyone including myself was like her in that way....it really does make a difference,if only the world were more like her in that small signifigant way;there might be some joy;some peace in some,of the darkest circumstances;ya rite;
if only;
to this day.... i don't know if it is ,just how they are,or ,if it is from love or wisdom;but ,i do know they were easy targets ;just like the saying goes;the good die young ,or first,
just look around you ....

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RE: What does your sub/slave do for you? - 4/16/2006 6:06:40 PM

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Our boys cook and clean for us - cleaning sometimes requires some prompting though *sigh*

The new boy bathes me, changes my clothes, holds my hand, gives me hugs and kisses ... and extras when I'm depressed, reminds me to take my medication and my vitamins, bathes and grooms my Shih Tzu, fetches me Mt Dew (even if it requires a trip to the gas station), rubs my feet and buys me little things to let me know that he loves me (like the tag that has our names on it and the rose he got me yesterday).

Rob gives backrubs that put me to sleep even during my worst insomnia, fetches blankets for both of us, does my taxes, programs the DVR to tape shows that he knows I like that I'll miss because of work, rents movies for me that he knows I want to see (or that he thinks I will like, knowing what he does about what movies I do like), and gets me icecream (even if it requires a trip to the store).

I know there are other things, but right now, we just aquired a rescue GSD and I'm a little distracted.

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RE: What does your sub/slave do for you? - 4/16/2006 7:16:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Tammyjo, Ma'am,

Fox seems to be quite someone to look up to! Does he give seminars?

He has but on other topics (fetishes, furry, bondage techniques) though he's co-hosted meetings with me for folks who practice 24/7 a few times (mostly "safe to discuss reality" scenarios).

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RE: What does your sub/slave do for you? - 4/16/2006 7:27:20 PM

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gets up and turns off the alarm clock (albeit grumpily),
answers the door when the doorbell rings, answers the phone when the telephone rings,
turns the TV to my favorite show and reminds me it's coming on,
chauffeurs me, and tries to take it easy around the turns since I get car sick, and plays my music along the ride,
refills my drink,
lights my cigarettes and makes sure I have an empty ashtray,
attempts to make conversation when I'm silent, but knows when I need peace & quiet,
turns on the light for me before I go into a room,
cooks and cleans without having to be told,
opens doors for me (although sometimes forgets to close them behind me),
rubs my shoulders, rubs my back, rubs my hands, rubs my feet,
makes something go away if it bothers me (i.e. changing the TV off a channel if I find it disturbing, takes the cat away if it's bumming for my food,
takes walks with me,
brushes my hair,
helps me look for the cat when she's gotten out of the house late at night,
sits on the porch swing with me,
makes conversation with my friends and neighbors,
helps me with computer, electronic issues,
changes lightbulbs,
gets things off the top shelf that I'm too short to reach,
brings me suprises,
calls me beautiful, cute, and pretty on my "feeling fat and ugly" days,
calls me beautiful, cute, and pretty on any other day,
listens when I speak,
treats my son and his friends respectfully,
calls me on the ride to work,
visits me at lunch hour,
takes my dishes to the kitchen sink,
helps me rearrange the furniture, and then again... and then again... until it's finally the way I like it,
supports me when I try new endeavors,
goes along with my hair-brained ideas,
saves safe-words for what they were meant for (as defined between us) and doesn't abuse them,
compliments my intelligence,
teaches me new skills,
cuddles under my wing,
changes or eliminates personal behaviors that bother me,
notices when my mood changes,
prepares my nightstand at night,
learns my routines and helps me perform them,
asks my advice,
sits at my feet,
stays on my right side,
helps me overcome my inhibitions,
wears the clothing I prefer,
fills the ice trays,
and hundreds of other things...

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RE: What does your sub/slave do for you? - 4/16/2006 7:52:45 PM

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Some very nice lists, seems you ladies have some very sweet submissives. Some of the best feelings often come from acts in which you don't have to demand a thing. Finding the someone who can 'learn' you to that extent is a very special thing.

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