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WanderSub -> Anniversaries? (7/13/2010 1:41:32 AM)

This might be a strange question/poll to toss out there, but I was wondering what event people like to use for their anniversaries. For example, was it the first time you met? Or your first date? The first time you kissed, played, had sex? The first time you established your D/s dynamic? Creative option that never occurred to me?

I would definitely like to hear folk's thoughts here.




OsideGirl -> RE: Anniversaries? (7/13/2010 7:20:58 AM)

We go to Donovan's Steak House every year on our anniversary.




AsmodaisSin -> RE: Anniversaries? (7/13/2010 8:31:38 AM)

Right now, we celebrate our first date together.  We laugh and have little jokes about the movie we saw, the food we ate, the time we spent.  We go back to the same restaurant every year.  Star Thai.  It's owned by friends of my father.  




littleone35 -> RE: Anniversaries? (7/13/2010 8:40:43 AM)

We count it as the first time we played when i became his in all ways. That was a very special day. Feb 26th 2006.




itsmeinLV -> RE: Anniversaries? (7/13/2010 8:42:47 AM)

We celebrate our first "official" day we became a couple, when we moved up from the "just dating each other" status.  [:)]




WanderSub -> RE: Anniversaries? (7/13/2010 11:13:59 AM)

Thanks for the responses everyone!

quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

We go to Donovan's Steak House every year on our anniversary.


I'm sorry if the original post was confusing, I was asking how you determined your anniversary date, not what you did for your anniversary. But it's nice to hear you guys have established a tradition.




mushroomchicken -> RE: Anniversaries? (7/13/2010 11:51:44 AM)

In my current relationship we use the first day we said "I Love You", coming up in a week actually *grin*. In my prior M/s relationship we used the day he collared me.




littlewonder -> RE: Anniversaries? (7/13/2010 3:43:07 PM)

Neither one of us can remember the exact date we met lol.

We're both awful with dates so we just celebrate and give thanks for being in each other's lives everyday. [:)]




whiteslavebitch -> RE: Anniversaries? (7/13/2010 4:42:44 PM)

Personally, I celebrate the anniversary of the day we met, and the day he placed his collar on my neck. I get him gifts of things he likes (I keep a mental list) for those occasions. My gift is him[:D]. That is all I need.




hejira92 -> RE: Anniversaries? (7/13/2010 5:03:00 PM)

We celebrate our first face-to-face date. We had corresponded via cmail and email, spoken and even "dabbled" on the phone a bit, but it was the first time I laid eyes on Him that I knew. (Oh, yeah. Great memory. I knew it was real because when I first saw Him walking towards me, I almost fell to my knees in the restaurant bar. He radiated across the room.)

We also mark, but not officially, the first time He told me He loves me. I think He was more surprised that He fell in love than I was!




OsideGirl -> RE: Anniversaries? (7/13/2010 6:14:17 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: WanderSub

Thanks for the responses everyone!

quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

We go to Donovan's Steak House every year on our anniversary.


I'm sorry if the original post was confusing, I was asking how you determined your anniversary date, not what you did for your anniversary. But it's nice to hear you guys have established a tradition.
Our anniversary IS our anniversary. To us, that level of committment over shadows everything else.




sweetsub1957 -> RE: Anniversaries? (7/13/2010 10:53:53 PM)

~FR~
i consider it the day we actually decided to be a couple.

~sweetsub~




WanderSub -> RE: Anniversaries? (7/18/2010 2:19:04 PM)

Thanks everyone for sharing!

quote:

ORIGINAL: mushroomchicken

In my current relationship we use the first day we said "I Love You", coming up in a week actually *grin*. In my prior M/s relationship we used the day he collared me.


Happy Early Anniversary to you both!

quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

Neither one of us can remember the exact date we met lol.

We're both awful with dates so we just celebrate and give thanks for being in each other's lives everyday. [:)]


That's beautiful! That has always been my MO in prior relationships, but I find myself with someone who wants an anniversary date, but our relationship has been so fluid, it's hard to figure out what that might be.

quote:

ORIGINAL: whiteslavebitch

Personally, I celebrate the anniversary of the day we met, and the day he placed his collar on my neck. I get him gifts of things he likes (I keep a mental list) for those occasions. My gift is him[:D]. That is all I need.


I keep a mental list too! I like that you celebrate both of those very meaningful days.

quote:

ORIGINAL: hejira92

We celebrate our first face-to-face date. We had corresponded via cmail and email, spoken and even "dabbled" on the phone a bit, but it was the first time I laid eyes on Him that I knew. (Oh, yeah. Great memory. I knew it was real because when I first saw Him walking towards me, I almost fell to my knees in the restaurant bar. He radiated across the room.)

We also mark, but not officially, the first time He told me He loves me. I think He was more surprised that He fell in love than I was!



I know just what you mean! I love it. Thank you very much for sharing!

quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Our anniversary IS our anniversary. To us, that level of committment over shadows everything else.


I think there's still some confusion here. Your anniversary is the anniversary of what? The first time you met? The first time you played? When you were collared?





slaveluci -> RE: Anniversaries? (7/18/2010 6:42:34 PM)

The first time we "chatted" online we spent hours together. It was an instant connection. That is the day we use. Exactly two years later on that date we were married - His idea[:)]

luci




WanderSub -> RE: Anniversaries? (7/18/2010 6:55:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveluci

The first time we "chatted" online we spent hours together. It was an instant connection. That is the day we use. Exactly two years later on that date we were married - His idea[:)]

luci


I love that idea! Thank you so much for sharing!




Elisabella -> RE: Anniversaries? (7/19/2010 6:43:41 AM)

The date we got married :D




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