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whiteslavebitch -> RE: Looking for advice (7/15/2010 10:34:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst Print out a form in triplicate, stating your desire and the approximate time frame for him to comply or forfeit. File one, keep one, and give him the top copy. And then ask him if this was what he wants. Yes, I am that much of a smartass when the dominant wants me to lead. Love this!!!

nashsubcurious4w -> RE: Looking for advice (8/18/2010 2:25:30 PM)
Unfortunately, for me vanilla husband haa a low libido so not much works with him and kinky dude travels. Either way, I have to take care of things myself alot of time.

phoenixmoonn13 -> RE: Looking for advice (8/19/2010 3:56:22 AM)
the only thing i can do is to say master may this girl cum for you or master may she be allowed to feel you belt or to play. anything more wil get me in trouble. i may or may not have a yes answer and in all probablility it will be no but then he knows i am getting extremly needy as i hate asking and it turns me into a nervous wreck but the knows i am getting desperate.

Focus50 -> RE: Looking for advice (8/19/2010 5:05:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: phoenixmoonn13 the only thing i can do is to say master may this girl cum for you or master may she be allowed to feel you belt or to play. anything more wil get me in trouble. i may or may not have a yes answer and in all probablility it will be no but then he knows i am getting extremly needy as i hate asking and it turns me into a nervous wreck but the knows i am getting desperate. Yep, this is pretty much the inevitable train wreck when the onus is on the sub to both initiate AND butter up his fragile ego with it.... You're actually happy and growing in this relationship? Focus.

sexyred1 -> RE: Looking for advice (8/19/2010 5:39:23 AM)
Sighs...sometimes I am glad I am not in a relationship at this moment when I see people have to go through such hoops and ask for advice to get some attention. I don't know, maybe it is just me, but whenever I wanted anything physical I just said it and I certainly never needed to beg for it. Usually just saying in a breathy voice, babe, I am sooooo horny for you, or I need your cock in all my holes....that did the trick. Being dressed in little to nothing also speaks volumes.

littleone35 -> RE: Looking for advice (8/19/2010 9:08:22 AM)
if i need iPlayi ask Master for it. He usually says yes because he knows i need it. You know it is not fair that men reach their sexial peak between 18 and 20 and women reach theirs in their 40's (or so i heard) I am at my sexual peak now. Master takes care of me in that (and all other) ways. I don't see what is wrong respectfully asking Master can we play.? Master usually initates but evey once in a blue moon i will ask. Matt's littleone

whiteslavebitch -> RE: Looking for advice (8/19/2010 3:26:40 PM)
In my relationship with MasterK, he initiates play always. It is completely on his terms, when he wants to. This is how I also prefer it. I hate to initiate play or sex, I'm sure it's a leftover behavior from my (vanilla) marriage when I was always turned down for sex when I tried to initiate it.

Daddysredhead -> RE: Looking for advice (8/19/2010 4:38:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan Set up the Bedroom. Lay out all the things you want..... and DON'T want used on you on the bed and await him naked. Just call his name until he comes to the room. Come to him with a Strap or a Flogger in your Mouth while crawling to him naked. I've actually done this a few times, only it was a crop in my mouth, and I was wearing lingerie... and kneeling, not crawling. I also had music playing, and candles lit (which got blown out in favor of a well lit play space). Sometimes, it doesn't hurt to "plant a seed" in their heads. If they say no, fine, but I haven't had that happen when I did the above.

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