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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/18/2010 5:27:45 AM

Zechriel

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Ishtarr

Physical
Non-physical punishment:
Not being allowed to have his attention in an intimate one-on-one way, and instead, only interact with him on a platonic, business-like (basically like a hired help, or maid) manner for up to a few weeks at a time.

YES! AFter my punishment of two weeks with no chips or soda...which was horrible, I felt like the realtionship had changed and it was exactly as Ishtarr says. Cold and business like until I broke down crying and scared that is would be like that permanently. I have missed my bedtimes the last two months and my punishment there is that bedtime is back on and I write down what time it is every night.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/18/2010 6:11:58 AM

katjira10

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When I disobey I am punished. Not because I am being taught a lesson or being made to pay for my crime. I am punished because it allows me to let go of my own guilty feelings. For punishment or discipline to be effective my dominant has to know how I am going to process it.

If he were to ignore me all the would do is make me angry. This is a relationship built on communication. When you ignore someone you are stopping the communication process plus you can be inflicting psychological harm. My dominant is the one person in the world I expect to be there for me. I have had enough of being abandoned in my life and would not tolerate that from him.

Yes, I said "I will not tolerate". I am part and parcel of the relationship and if something is affecting me in a negative way I will make the choice whether I am going to permit it to happen.

I believe discipline should be short and sweet so the parties concerned can move on. I have never seen the reason behind making the sub pay and pay and pay and pay for her negative behavior. After being disciplined there needs to be reassurance given to the sub that now the incident is in the past and she or he is still loved and cared for. That means the discipline will end on an upbeat note and the submissive can move ahead and leave the discipline in the past.

For me, a lecture, followed by a spanking, and time to reflect <standing in the corner>, then apologizing to my dominant since it was him I had offended, followed by the crying and cuddling until I feel like I have released my own guilt, that is a punishment that works.

Granted what will work for one may not work for another but I know what works on me.

kat

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/18/2010 7:18:40 AM

lally2

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katjira, i peeked at youre profile and im genuinely curious. when you state spanking in youre 'live for' section - how is spanking a punishment for you especially when you are also looking for a disciplinarian driven relationship.

i can fully appreciate that a spanking can feel different under certain situations and it can be taken beyond normal endurance levels, but you mention short and sweet and you are clearly very specific about how you expect youre dynamic to be.

< Message edited by lally2 -- 7/18/2010 7:20:35 AM >

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/18/2010 8:51:29 AM

katjira10

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lally2

I'm not quite sure what your question really is but this is what I think you are asking about.

How spanking affects me is dependent on context. If I know the spanking is for erotic purposes my brain can interpret it as pleasure. If I know the spanking is meant as punishment then my brain sees it as painful. Its something I call "flipping the mindset".

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/18/2010 3:14:50 PM

phoenixmoonn13

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when i hae disaponted then i cant forgive myself and a punishment resolves it often it is no orgasm for a week but could be a night on the floor. if i have snuggled to him in bed without asking first he will pull the bedclothes round him and not le tme have any touch which he knows is so hard for me i am extremly tactile. but once i ask he will let me.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/18/2010 7:06:36 PM

caelestis

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I've never been punished with anything painful, because I'm a masochist. My body responds to pain with pleasure and it can be kind of confusing. Even if I know its a punishment and what I'm being punished before.

I'd have to say the single worst punishment I've ever received was from someone I met here. I had to sit on crumpled up tinfoil while have to really finely chop up a dozen onions. By the end of it I was incredibly uncomfortable and crying real tears, not just from the onions. He did that on purpose because he knew how hard it is for me to cry, and how deeply it would impact me. I then had to write a paper on my feelings about disappointing him.

To say the least after that I never made the mistake I did again. It was a mentally excruciating punishment.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/18/2010 7:25:12 PM

Midion

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Zechriel

quote:

ORIGINAL: Ishtarr

Physical
Non-physical punishment:
Not being allowed to have his attention in an intimate one-on-one way, and instead, only interact with him on a platonic, business-like (basically like a hired help, or maid) manner for up to a few weeks at a time.

YES! AFter my punishment of two weeks with no chips or soda...which was horrible, I felt like the realtionship had changed and it was exactly as Ishtarr says. Cold and business like until I broke down crying and scared that is would be like that permanently. I have missed my bedtimes the last two months and my punishment there is that bedtime is back on and I write down what time it is every night.

Love,
Zechriel

This is what I do with the woman. She doesn't like it but it gets the point across. Especially when her friends come over and I interact normally with them. They also know that something must have happened because i'm not usually like that. I'm not a let's argue and yell type of kind of guy. If things get past a certain point I simply walk out.

I come back and then she describes it as I have no emotions, i'm a robot, or it's like i'm not really there. I talk to her but it's extremely emotionless. After a while(she may try to hold out for a few hours) she will break down, apologize, i'll hold her(make her stop crying let her know i love her more than anything) and we will talk like we should have in the first place. To her that's the worst thing I can do to her. I don't ignore her i'm just cold towards her until think it's enough.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 7/19/2010 12:54:09 AM

Chrisincuffs

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My worst punishment as is most hated? easy, mingling food and sex grosses me out. Don't know why really but absolutely disgusted by it. Master made me go to grocery store and buy condoms, a cucumber, banana, and zucchini and only that. Then I had to masturbate with them for Master.
The most painful? a clip on the INSIDE of my pussy, instantly brought tears.
My Master is a wonderful Master and is extremely creative with his punishments

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 9/7/2010 5:35:51 PM

slavem70

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadySunn

I hand cuffed and bound a sub with chains to a tree in the back yard naked.....except for the honey on his balls

Old thread but damn that is funny.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 9/13/2010 1:12:42 AM

Silentrunner26

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The worst one I ever gave was when she totaly messed up and I got her good and hot tied her up and lft her there with several toys going with instuctions not to cum till I got back . She didn't but when she hears a toy going now she jumps .

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 10/2/2010 5:53:46 PM

submitting4U

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Worst punishment was banishment from my Pro Domina who i have a profound attachment to. i couldn't sleep, work or function until i could make amends with her ... she is very private and i invaded her boundaries ... my subsequent submission is even deeper. So here comes the worst physical punishment. To reconcile the banishment,
she had me eat her shit ... i did and i do not regret it. i thanked her and offered to anything at all to avoid banishment again!

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 10/3/2010 12:06:38 AM

Charles6682

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The worse punishment I've ever had come from my former Domme.She wanted me to show up for her but I didn't.The next day,she had my hand's tied to a tree.She then gave me the worse whipping I had ever experienced.She did it front of a bumch of people,which only made the experience that much more humilating.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 10/3/2010 2:10:32 AM

ladyseekinglord

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quote:

ORIGINAL: slavem70

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadySunn

I hand cuffed and bound a sub with chains to a tree in the back yard naked.....except for the honey on his balls

Old thread but damn that is funny.

I shouldn't admit this out loud, but I used to fantasize about doing something similar to a certain person in my past.. ya know, the whole woman scorned thing.

I'm a sub, though, I swear.

Oh, and as far as punishment goes.. the worst for me is being ignored/getting the silent treatment... almost unbearable.

lady

< Message edited by ladyseekinglord -- 10/3/2010 2:12:04 AM >

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 10/21/2010 6:40:41 PM

toungesgurl

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MASTER used a pin wheel and instead of rolling HE turned it sideways and dragged it into and along my back.
The word LIER was carved into my back.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 10/21/2010 7:27:09 PM

Twoshoes

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quote:

ORIGINAL: toungesgurl
The word LIER was carved into my back.

*thinks*
So you got punished for lying down?

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 10/21/2010 7:31:27 PM

January

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I wuz thinkin' the same thing, twoshoes. I'm glad the punishment didn't involve tats.

January

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 10/21/2010 7:32:29 PM

toungesgurl

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Twoshoes

quote:

ORIGINAL: toungesgurl
The word LIER was carved into my back.

*thinks*
So you got punished for lying down?

LOL not exactly

i believe it was a harsh punishent, But one should never lie to their MASTER.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 10/21/2010 7:40:41 PM

sexyred1

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It is always a worse punishment when the carving is misspelled.

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 10/21/2010 7:48:25 PM

BurntKitty

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

It is always a worse punishment when the carving is misspelled.

*snorts*

Where's the screen clean up towel???

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RE: Worst punisment you've given/received - 10/21/2010 7:58:44 PM

toungesgurl

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Appologies, That was my spelling mistake. Not my MASTERS.

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