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BossyShoeBitch -> RE: Flirtable. (7/18/2010 8:53:16 PM)
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
Women (at least the unattached ones) put a lot of things in their profiles about what they want in a match. However, they're almost always up to flirting with those who are not a genuine match for them. (My personal best is a lesbian Domme living in MA who stated that she will not take on someone over 30.)
Are the requirements for a flirtable partner the same as just for a friend? Or are there additional things that are needed to enjoy flirting with someone?
I think the main reason for flirting with someone who isn't a genuine match with you is because you are generally safe from the fear of rejection. If they flirt back, what fun! If they don't, oh well. It's not going to bug me much because I didn't have any type of initial attraction or emotion invested in the flirtation to begin with.
I posted in another recent flirting thread that the reason I started flirting with Michael was because he intimidated me and flirting was my way of making friends with him so he wouldn't skewer me on the boards. But it wasn't only because of that. He really intrigued me.
This was my profile picture on March 9, 2007, (the day I first wrote to him to tell him I found him fascinating.) The only picture I had up at the time. [image]http://www.collarme.com/photos/395078p11.jpg[/image]
Here is a small excerpt from Michael's reply that same day, (reprinted with SimplyMichael's full permission of course!)
...Your photo was perfect, it very much highlighted what must be two of your most amazing features, the sort of features a less discriminating man might not notice. The firm roundness of them, the perfect shape, bigger than most women and the sort you just want to bite your teeth into or run your tongue over. I am of course speaking of your very beautiful and quite kissable lips...
If he had been describing my breasts (as I was sure he was until I read the very last sentence), that e-mail would have gone over like a lead balloon and that, as they say, would have been that.
But man, he had me at hello! Michael had the ability to make me feel both like a little girl and a beautiful woman at the same time. That man is SMOOOTH. I think many man would be wise to try learn a thing or two from him.
But yes Steven, he was safe to begin flirting with because he was 3,000 miles away and not someone I saw myself matched up with... Funny how fate works sometimes...[:)]
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