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ColoDaddyDom -> Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/16/2006 9:25:36 PM)






OK, let me rant some...  I am curious why so many subs are online helping their "Dom" find another girl to play with.  Especially interesting are the subbies who do this for their Dom but they themselves are straight???  It seems as though some Doms use these subs to find new play partners and nothing more.  Is this a lifestyle choice or a nuveau dating service. 

I may never have my own princess back again but I would never use her as a tool to find others girls to play with.  Surely a Dom must respect his submissive if he is to earn her respect in return. 



Arpig -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/16/2006 9:28:35 PM)

Sorry CDD. to each his own. I have no idea why or why not anybody does anything they do on here, other than it makes them happy.



shawnastone -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/16/2006 9:32:28 PM)

 A very good question indeed. 



ServiceNTucson -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/16/2006 9:36:16 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ColoDaddyDom






OK, let me rant some...  I am curious why so many subs are online helping their "Dom" find another girl to play with.  Especially interesting are the subbies who do this for their Dom but they themselves are straight???  It seems as though some Doms use these subs to find new play partners and nothing more.  Is this a lifestyle choice or a nuveau dating service. 

I may never have my own princess back again but I would never use her as a tool to find others girls to play with.  Surely a Dom must respect his submissive if he is to earn her respect in return. 


I suspect that many of the "submissive women", although certainly not all, trolling for another sub for their Dom on this site are, in fact, non-existant.  That is to say, the troller is actually the so called Dom, pretending that he already has a sub and wants another.

I also suspect that the same thing is true of "Dominant Women" here who are looking for somebody to use and/or abuse their male subs.  That is, the troller is actually the male sub and no such Domina actually exists.



BitaTruble -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/16/2006 9:37:28 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ColoDaddyDom






OK, let me rant some...  I am curious why so many subs are online helping their "Dom" find another girl to play with.  Especially interesting are the subbies who do this for their Dom but they themselves are straight???  It seems as though some Doms use these subs to find new play partners and nothing more.  Is this a lifestyle choice or a nuveau dating service. 

I may never have my own princess back again but I would never use her as a tool to find others girls to play with.  Surely a Dom must respect his submissive if he is to earn her respect in return. 


Maybe they are just obeying orders. Stranger things have happened. Drop a few of them a line and ask. Won't hurt. Worst they can do is block you for the interest.

Celeste



crouchingtigress -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/16/2006 9:43:38 PM)

[:)] lovely rant.
 
This thing we do, has a ravenous, myopic, hedonistic, gluttonous underbelly that if not kept in check, would turn us all in to blubbering whimpering orgasming freak festivals. Once a person makes the decision to step out of the box of sexual convention, human nature takes over.... 



Vancouver_cinful -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/16/2006 9:45:54 PM)

Often women are suspicious of attached men approaching them, since many claim to have their partner's okay to seek other partners and are lying through their teeth. Also many women who are seeking won't even answer the email of an attached male.

So, perhaps the reason some of these men have their female partners doing the searching is because they are more likely to respond to an email from the female of the couple.

Another thing is that by having the female do the seeking it insures that there will be some compatibility between the two women. The importance of this can not be overestimated. LOL

Cin



BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/16/2006 9:58:15 PM)

Why is what any of us do when seeking a partner/lover not trolling, but you oppose what those girls (who may be following orders as they should) do so vehemently?
What is it to you anyway what other doms do with their subs?   The competition too much?  Or are you the hero here to protect those girls from their masters?    M



MsRachelxxx -> RE: deceit on this site...... (4/16/2006 9:59:53 PM)

i think there is sooo much deceit on this site, i really wonder how many women who "post" really are women and not a man sending in a womans pic. As a female slave looking for a Master/Mistress it really makes this quite a drag, all the writing, back and forth, only to find it's some man calling himself a dominant or master who is in reality some wimpy dude looking for either titilation or bed partner. i would say i receive about three real inquiry out of fifteen, and out of that fifteen most are one liners, like "write me, slave, now!" and there is NOTHING on their profile to indicate a thing worth anything about them. Pathetic, isn't it?



MsRachelxxx -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/16/2006 10:10:18 PM)

That is soo true Vancouver-cinful. I am certainly much more interested in connecting with a woman in the house, than the man, i learned my lesson by going through all the "well, I don't actualy have another female here now, she just left, or she is taking a break, or she is joining us soon, etc etc, Now i deal with women only and make sure they have a substantial profile to back up who they are. You could say the men have really created a cesspit for themselves, can anyone trust them on this site?



perverseangelic -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/16/2006 10:22:42 PM)

I dunno, maybe they're just doing something their owners want? I figure it's another way to be useful.

If one is poly and one's owner is poly, I don't see the problem with the girl/boy taking over the frustrating, time consuming task of finding additional partners.



CERCKL -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/16/2006 10:34:24 PM)

quote:


OK, let me rant some... I am curious why so many subs are online helping their "Dom" find another girl to play with. Especially interesting are the subbies who do this for their Dom but they themselves are straight??? It seems as though some Doms use these subs to find new play partners and nothing more. Is this a lifestyle choice or a nuveau dating service.

I may never have my own princess back again but I would never use her as a tool to find others girls to play with. Surely a Dom must respect his submissive if he is to earn her respect in return.


Haven't heard any replies from any doing this and I don't know since this isn't something which I am doing...though a friend of lotus' is looking and the Dom's the one seeking...I do know in my case, where lotus has been interested in something, I have found the initial contact and then had her do all of the follow up and arrangements through email... why? Partially because it was an interest of hers and second because she is capable of doing it and can arrange it around both of our schedules...doesn't answer directly your question but does illustrate having another do the leg work for me, I'm certain that those legit are doing things similarly, perhaps also a pre-screening process...if I was to bring another in, personally I would want both comfortable with each other (just me) so why waste My time when I could be presented with potentials?

C



Lordandmaster -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/16/2006 11:08:58 PM)

I don't understand why this bothers anyone.  Seems to go into the category of "none of anyone else's business," wouldncha say?



SirCumsSlut -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/17/2006 3:43:53 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ColoDaddyDom






OK, let me rant some...  I am curious why so many subs are online helping their "Dom" find another girl to play with.  Especially interesting are the subbies who do this for their Dom but they themselves are straight???  It seems as though some Doms use these subs to find new play partners and nothing more.  Is this a lifestyle choice or a nuveau dating service. 

I may never have my own princess back again but I would never use her as a tool to find others girls to play with.  Surely a Dom must respect his submissive if he is to earn her respect in return. 


Well as a slave that is seeking a sis to join Sir and I, I take some offense to being called a "troll".  I am seeking a sis for both Sir and I because we both love women.......I am not seeking because Sir has demanded it, I am seeking because Sir has an insatiable appetite and the assistance in serving Him would not only be greatly appreciated, but greatly enjoyed.   No this is not just "play or sex for us"  but how we live each and everyday, we seek one who will be part of our family, equal with me not below me.

Now I do agree that there are some here on collarme that are trolling for their Masters, but not all.  I too have noticed the straight subs seeking for their Doms and have wondered, but then who am I to question why.  Hell we were even approached by a straight sub/slave who wanted to join our family, unfortunately after consideration it was decided that it would be best if we stay friends instead.

So to those of us "trolls" that truly want a sis to join the family, let's "Keep on Trollin'"  and may our search one day prove fruitful.      



Quivver -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/17/2006 4:06:05 AM)

I think you need to view each one asking in their own light.
An established Slave seeking is quite different then a new
Sub.  The one's that I feel for are those who's Journal say they
have just found their ~one~ and are now searching for that elusive
bi third for a sister.  My first thought isnt that she's in Awe, and
he's such a great Master its more along the lines of how long will
this one last since I can see the boot prints she's wearing for becoming
a door mat........... (flame on, I had that T shirt years ago)



MstrssPassion -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/17/2006 4:22:45 AM)

I'm not saying that all of these profiles are deceptive but it sure seems a fair amount of them are.

I have had quite a few of these users with profiles set up to read as a female submissive looking for 'sisters' to join their poly house contact me & it be the man of the house writing me. Rather than express anger or frustration of this jackass contacting me with hopes that I would be interested in submitting, playing with him & his girl(s) or help him explore his submissive side... I just ignore the email & if they contact me more than once, I block them.

If you are on the net, you are going to get trolled or encounter trolls, just accept this fact & learn to move on.




Sensualips -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/17/2006 4:38:37 AM)

quote:

It seems as though some Doms use these subs to find new play partners and nothing more. 

 
That is a pretty big assumption about an entire relationship, based on a small piece of information.

quote:

Surely a Dom must respect his submissive if he is to earn her respect in return. 

 
And some submissives do not find this disrespectful.
 
 




Proprietrix -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/17/2006 4:58:52 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ColoDaddyDom
Especially interesting are the subbies who do this for their Dom but they themselves are straight??? 


poly does not equal orgy.




Tikkiee -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/17/2006 5:16:19 AM)

I have to second the statement made already;  Why should you care what another does or does not do?



smilezz -> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... (4/17/2006 5:47:57 AM)

quote:

I am curious why so many subs are online helping their "Dom" find another girl to play with.
Could be many reasons actually.  Following orders as others have stated, Perhaps the Dominant wants His girl to have some kind of relationship with the other girl, hence: helping their "Dom"
quote:

Especially interesting are the subbies who do this for their Dom but they themselves are straight???
Just because a Dominant may want another girl does not equate with those girls being bi.  Play partners do not have to have interaction with each other...some are friends to the other girl, some are more.  Again, could be many reasons.
quote:

Surely a Dom must respect his submissive if he is to earn her respect in return.
This has nothing to do with respect.

~smilezz~ 



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