RE: Making a sub troll for play partners...

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: Making a sub troll for play partners...

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Making a sub troll for play partners...

Page: << < prev 1 [2]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... - 4/17/2006 7:41:56 AM

MasterFireMaam

Posts: 5587
Joined: 3/1/2006
From: Charleston, WV
Status: offline

Like anything, this can have it's good and bad sides. The bad is what you have stated; the girl might feel used. However, if done correctly, it's an ethical way to let other sumbissives know that there is a couple involved. Some of us are wired to be poly and we appreciate the ethics of open communication between ALL people in the relationship.

Fire

_____________________________

The power of who we are can be intoxicating. The power of who we could be is humbling.
-----
Ms Relationship Books
-----
BDSM How-To Books

(in reply to ColoDaddyDom)

Profile

Post #: 21

RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... - 4/17/2006 8:16:14 AM

PlayfulOne

Posts: 1047
Status: offline

The question would be,
"Why is it bothering you enough to create a post about it?"

You speak of one having respect for another, yet rght of the bat you may be disrespecting the relationship of others. What some Doms "use" their subs for is their business. Not yours, not mine, bu theirs. You make many assumptions about the relationships of people you do not know.

Just because you want someone to treat yours "like a princess" doesn't mean everyone else who doesn't is disrespecting their sub/slave. Newsflash for you, Not every female here wants to be treated like a princess.

Relax do your thing and let others do theirs.

K

< Message edited by PlayfulOne -- 4/17/2006 8:17:42 AM >

(in reply to ColoDaddyDom)

Profile

Post #: 22

RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... - 4/17/2006 8:20:02 AM

justatoy2

Posts: 163
Joined: 6/20/2005
Status: offline

i used to have a problem with this as well...until i sat down and thought about it as being part of the service they provide to their owner. Their owner decides he wishes to have another. The submissive out of pure and unselfish service to their owner finds this person and presents her/him to the owner. I think it shows alot of dedication on the submissives part.

(in reply to ColoDaddyDom)

Profile

Post #: 23

RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... - 4/17/2006 1:32:27 PM

talltxsub

Posts: 173
Joined: 11/10/2005
Status: offline

ServiceNTucson hit it on the nose, i suspect....the trolling always seems a little to desperate, and not quite the way one would expect a real woman to do it.

But who really knows?

(in reply to ServiceNTucson)

Profile

Post #: 24

RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... - 4/18/2006 2:29:45 AM

ExistentialSteel

Posts: 676
Joined: 1/18/2005
Status: offline

In the right place and context there is nothing wrong with it, but it can be tiresome in the wrong places. I know there are many D/s couples looking for second subs and it doesn't bother me to read their ads, but it does bother me, say in a chat room, where a sub repeatedly throws out the trolling party line for another sub.

Is this any different than a Dom hitting on a sub in a chat room...probably not, but I find it irritating when it is done ad nausea in the context of "I want a second sub for my Master." It is getting people involved who are not even in the room and that limits conversation. Just my personal quirk maybe.

_____________________________

For those who are like Roman Candles leaving bright trails in the night sky while the crowd watches until the dark blue center light bursts into magnificent colors and the crowd goes, ahhhhhhhhhh.

(in reply to talltxsub)

Profile

Post #: 25

RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... - 4/18/2006 3:35:20 AM

Level

Posts: 25145
Joined: 3/3/2006
Status: offline

1- What's wrong with having play partners?
2- What's wrong with putting your submissive to work pleasing you?

(in reply to ColoDaddyDom)

Profile

Post #: 26

RE: Making a sub troll for play partners... - 4/18/2006 10:46:41 PM

classykindasassy

Posts: 291
Joined: 12/13/2005
Status: offline

here is one possible answer:

because if there is to be a 3-way, there needs to be chemistry between the 2 girls. why not have the girl pick the 3rd, that she finds attractive and also pleasing to the dom?

i was asked to do this in a relationship i was in. i did not like any of the girls he came up with because his standards were completely different from mine. who he'd fuck and who i'd fuck were 2 different conversations. but, ironically, if i found her worth fucking, he could get interested too. funny how this works...

_____________________________

"The less I seek my source for some definitive, the closer I am to fine." -The Indigo Girls

(in reply to smilezz)

Profile

Post #: 27