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Blacksavage37 -> True Slavery (4/17/2006 6:00:22 AM)
I enjoy meeting the potential slaves from Collarme. But it is so time consuming with all the wannabee's and wankers. In my world it is all about me and that's it. These fetishistic people should see a pro dom. And stop wasting time for all of us. When I schedule a slave interview, I set aside time, then find it to be cancelled for a rediculous excuse. Someone else of whom wants to serve has an injustice done to them. It could have been them at the interview. I just wanted to put that out there! Thank you for your interest. With Thorns: Lady Black Savage

HayaSierra -> RE: True Slavery (4/17/2006 12:51:20 PM)
Greetings, Yes it can be hard to find the true slaves out in the world, but they do exist. Do not give up your search Lady Black Savage. And yes, you will be interviewing and going through a lot of mail to just get a few good ones among them. Haya Sierra -- Queen of the Confederacy, and Queen of Interviewing potential Slaves :D.

1969slave -> RE: True Slavery (4/17/2006 1:10:29 PM)
i am a true slave , i've given up my money, the ability to have children and my husband to be his slave and now i'm on the market

JohnWarren -> RE: True Slavery (4/17/2006 2:07:54 PM)
Same whine, different day. A quick search would have brought up an easy dozen of the same sort of rants. Oddly they almost all are initial posts. It's like the same spoiled brat undergoes repeated sex and age change operations only to land back on CollarMe.

Real0ne -> RE: True Slavery (4/17/2006 2:29:52 PM)
You must be relatively new to online searching. Sure there are lots of wankers out there and being stood up happens all the time, not only in the bdsm world but also in the nilla world. Not only do subs stand up dommes, dont kid yourself plenty of dommes stand up subs as well. Its really no different than dating and it has all the same bs that dating in the nilla world has and maybe more because people are trying to match fetishes as well. your desire for a slave is nothing more than a fetish too you know. Now it may be all about you in your world but it takes 2 to tango and if who ever you are with is unhappy and you do not keep them satisfied they will leave simple as that, so in reality its equally about them. Nice catch phrase to keep the uninformed away tho. If you really mean that literally however without concern for your sub i can suggest a good shrink for you. as far as true is concerned its all in the eyes of the beholder. a sub that is total bs to you is true to the next domme. i know it can be frustrating, hell i have been on here since 04 and i havent found my one yet, its just not that easy though when you look at the huge numbers of people on here you would think the perfect sub would be in your chains in one evening. its deceiving you know.......... anyway good luck, hope that helps

KarbonCopy -> RE: True Slavery (4/17/2006 2:42:48 PM)
I woudlnt come onto a website like this expecting to meet real people. These people are a farce, who only found out about the lifestyle 9 times out of 10 through the TV, and they discovered that leather and whips titilated them. Thats why they're here. They romantisice a lifestyle because of its sexual appeal. Not every time, but more often than not.

LadyMorgynn -> RE: True Slavery (4/17/2006 4:03:31 PM)
Nice first post. Not only a rant but standing in judgement of those who don't see it *your* way. Way to go. Collarme includes people of many alternative lifestyles, from the "a little kink on their coffee" fetishists to 24/7 D/s to your true no-limits S&M types (whether 24/7 or Saturdays only). Granted about all the wankers and time wasters, but where do you get off saying all the fetishists should go see a pro? They have as much right to be here looking as you do. Personally, I'm a Domina seeking a 24/7 slave to be owned... but I will argue to my last breath for the right of those seeking other types of BDSM, D/s, S&M and various related kinks to be here! Except the wankers and time wasters, of course <grin> And if you will read these forums carefuly (which you might want to have done before coming off looking like just another whining idiot), you will have seen that so-called Doms and Dommes are just as likely to be fakes, just as likely to be no-shows, as are subs and slaves. quote: ORIGINAL: Blacksavage37 I enjoy meeting the potential slaves from Collarme. But it is so time consuming with all the wannabee's and wankers. In my world it is all about me and that's it. These fetishistic people should see a pro dom. And stop wasting time for all of us. When I schedule a slave interview, I set aside time, then find it to be cancelled for a rediculous excuse. Someone else of whom wants to serve has an injustice done to them. It could have been them at the interview. I just wanted to put that out there! Thank you for your interest. With Thorns: Lady Black Savage

WyrdRich -> RE: True Slavery (4/17/2006 4:25:46 PM)
I don't recall who said "90% of everything is crap," but it's a mighty reliable guideline. So what? The other 10% can be educational, amusing, spray hard cider all over the screen funny or even keep you from causing unintentional harm. Do I ever expect that we'll find our ideal Domme/Friend/Playmate here? Not really. Maybe someone we can laugh with on the smokers patio down at the private club in LA at best. To the OP, good luck in your search.

CrappyDom -> RE: True Slavery (4/17/2006 4:28:11 PM)
Ah but you miss the real secret. By denouncing all others the one true slave will recognize that this devine creature is thus by definition the one true Mistress. Its a great line for suckering in the most niave and or imbecilic submissives. Which of course is why I would like to take the word "true" out back and shoot it between the eyes. Oh and John, yours was the first book on S&M I ever read, I made the mistake of loaning out many years ago and have been searching for a first edition ever since. Thank you for righting it and thanks for moving to Greenery Press, Katherine has created a publishing house with a great deal of integrity.

LadyMorgynn -> RE: True Slavery (4/17/2006 4:37:14 PM)
Of course! Why didn't I think of that??? [sm=ofcourse.gif] quote: ORIGINAL: CrappyDom Ah but you miss the real secret. By denouncing all others the one true slave will recognize that this devine creature is thus by definition the one true Mistress.

GoddessDustyGold -> RE: True Slavery (4/17/2006 5:22:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn Of course! Why didn't I think of that??? [sm=ofcourse.gif] quote: ORIGINAL: CrappyDom Ah but you miss the real secret. By denouncing all others the one true slave will recognize that this devine creature is thus by definition the one true Mistress. Damn! Is that what I've been doing wrong???

LadyMorgynn -> RE: True Slavery (4/17/2006 5:25:44 PM)
Heheheh, I was just thinking that too! quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold quote: ORIGINAL: CrappyDom Ah but you miss the real secret. By denouncing all others the one true slave will recognize that this devine creature is thus by definition the one true Mistress. Damn! Is that what I've been doing wrong???

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: True Slavery (4/17/2006 7:26:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy I woudlnt come onto a website like this expecting to meet real people. These people are a farce, who only found out about the lifestyle 9 times out of 10 through the TV, and they discovered that leather and whips titilated them. Thats why they're here. They romantisice a lifestyle because of its sexual appeal. Not every time, but more often than not. KarbonCopy how can you give such cynical advice? Arent you and I real? I have met real people here, and though it has not worked long term, neither have my previous vanilla men, so it's a matter of dusting oneself off and trying again, because that is how life goes. M

Proprietrix -> RE: True Slavery (4/17/2006 7:49:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Blacksavage37 I enjoy meeting the potential slaves from Collarme. But it is so time consuming with all the wannabee's and wankers. In my world it is all about me and that's it. These fetishistic people should see a pro dom. And stop wasting time for all of us. When I schedule a slave interview, I set aside time, then find it to be cancelled for a rediculous excuse. Someone else of whom wants to serve has an injustice done to them. It could have been them at the interview. I just wanted to put that out there! Thank you for your interest. Yes, it can be annoying moving the piles of hay to find your needle. As a plus, you know what you want and you're defining what's best for you. Careful though in dissing others. This is a broad community full of diverse interests. Welcome to the forum. There's a lot to both learn and tolerate here.

crouchingtigress -> RE: True Slavery (4/17/2006 8:00:18 PM)
Is it any easier to find a vanilla life partner?

gooddogbenji -> RE: True Slavery (4/17/2006 8:19:54 PM)
Lady Black Savage, Thank You for Your highly educational post. As a wannabee and wanker myself, i have always thought i could find a wannabee Mistress to wank me. It would have made my life far easier. However, your post has made a few things clear: - i must go see a Prodomme. - i must get a job to pay for said Prodomme. - i am an evil, EVIL human for having a desire to serve, rather than serving because a true Mistress demands it. Perhaps, if i move to the Himalayas and learn to move like a roaring river, be silent like a crystal pond, but serve as only a meditating Monk can, then, and only then will i see Your way, and crawl to Your feet. Not for my own fetishes, like... feet, and.... serving... But for Yours, like feet, and serving. Yours, benji

ShiftedJewel -> RE: True Slavery (4/18/2006 7:21:30 AM)
quote: Perhaps, if i move to the Himalayas and learn to move like a roaring river, be silent like a crystal pond, but serve as only a meditating Monk can, then, and only then will i see Your way, and crawl to Your feet. Not for my own fetishes, like... feet, and.... serving... But for Yours, like feet, and serving. *Oh, there you go.... move even further away! Geeze, what's a domina to do?* *You like feet? Who would have guessed? I loooovvveee getting my feet massaged. But then again, who doesn't?*

rwmbk -> RE: True Slavery (4/18/2006 7:36:19 AM)
Well said LadyMorgynn

MistressLlyoness -> RE: True Slavery (4/18/2006 3:36:52 PM)
It was the first book I read as well. Thankfully my copy is still with me although it has walked off a couple of times. Ms. Lynette

IndigoDadesi -> RE: True Slavery (4/18/2006 3:46:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Blacksavage37 These fetishistic people should see a pro dom. And stop wasting time for all of us. Oh no, please dont speak for me. I prefer the "fetishistic people" and I really dont want money.

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