porcelaine -> RE: YOU ARE here for reasons and accept pain because it heals (7/21/2010 2:37:15 PM)
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ORIGINAL: IronBear Fair enough. Never though of it along that way, but then I'm probably terrible when it comes to humiliation. Not something I enjoy unless it is with some idiot who has put the hoof in the wrong place at the wrong time and then I care not who is present. Again my thanks sweet lady for you have again given me something to ponder about, as I am bound to find some delectable female who thrives on humiliation sooner or later. Now take away that word and look at it in a different context. They're all labels. The act is neither good nor bad, but simply a service she provides to him. Situations like these allow him to reorient her thinking and dismiss societal impressions in exchange for something purer in its place. It is a privilege to be used, hurt, and held captive because it all stems from him. If she is taught to look upon his treatment with favor and thanksgiving the embarrassment transforms into joyous celebration. She no longer attributes his actions as a manifestation of his feelings, but views them as depictions of pleasure instead. And out of all the women he could have placed in that position, she's the one he chose. Her vulnerability and receptivity are really what shine forth. And you're more than welcome. [;)] ~porcelaine
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