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BoiJen -> RE: young slaves (7/21/2010 12:49:21 PM)
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I have looked into the TNG group here in South Florida and it's not my thing. However, in Orlando and the rest of the state there are several groups of great interest that meet on a regular basis. After the last FLUID (Florida Leaders United In Diversity...a statewide coming together of group leaders and community organizers) the TNG group of Jacksonville has committed to creating a TNG "Takeover" of the most central dungeon in the state. I'll be doing my whip demo. The day is education for the TNG age range from the TNG age range.
When in Michigan I contacted the organizer of the Women's group asking about the local happenings and she, MsKitty, directed me to that local TNG group, which was fairly small at the time but has grown enormously since and is incredibly active. I was happy to be part of the growth of that group as well.
When asking about the local happenings, MsKitty quickly sent a list of contacts, regular events (parties, munches, etc) and a note about the fundraiser she was organizing at the time. From there, I contacted each of the organizations, clubs, parties, and munches asking about age requirements (I was 20 at the time) and when and where the happenings were. I sent a short introduction to them telling them who I was and what I was looking for in terms of finding community. I received several responses, most of them telling me "We'll see you when you turn 21". However, most of the munches still found room for me because they were held at places that did not have an age requirement. TNG was the group most ready to meet my needs.
Really, other than that, I had only a very solid idea of what I wanted. I had just moved to Detroit from Philadelphia (where the community drama was more than I could handle...so I did SM stuff privately and was not involved in the community at large...small things here and there). My ideas were not based on online porn or someone else's fantasies. Rather they were based on my own fantasies of sex and relationship dynamic. I found my answer in what I wanted by finding out who I was. And that was an active, conscious choice. Upon joining the events, organizations, and other happenings of the greater Detroit area, I was surrounded by people with semi-successful and successful relationships. I didn't ask so many questions as observe who and what they were doing within their personal interactions. I already knew how I wanted to fuck...how they played had no pull in what I wanted to know from them. I felt is that I didn't want to be lied to about "how great" things were all the time or any crap like that. What I learned from observation is that this, a power based relationship dynamic, ain't easy but it damn sure shouldn't be hard all the time either.
I also learned that my interests were of service and not romance. But that had to do with my last relationship in Philadelphia....
Anyways...
I still wanna be a pilot.
boi
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