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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/27/2010 10:02:13 PM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		I have been trained for years. I dont need to be warmed up.. dont need to be on the edge... can be in the middle of a grocery list or an argument....

that command comes and im cumming.



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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/27/2010 10:31:50 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		well shoot... Heck I can do that to myself.  lol You have to do something when you work graveyard retail shift.  I haven't done it much since I left there, but it is MY mind control.  I don't need a mate to have it happen.

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/28/2010 12:40:01 PM   
sublizzie


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Status: offline 		Santa had a particular word he used in a particular tone of voice that worked with me. He said it once in Ikea by accident. It was *NOT* as funny as other people think it was!! While he wasn't a sadist, he thought it was hilarious as well, after I told him what he'd done.

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/28/2010 10:39:04 PM   
Chrisincuffs


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Status: offline 		Ikea is now known as Ikuma lol

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/29/2010 11:36:36 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

I have been trained for years. I dont need to be warmed up.. dont need to be on the edge... can be in the middle of a grocery list or an argument....

that command comes and im cumming.




Here and I thought I was the only one. lol

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/29/2010 11:39:33 AM   
tazzygirl


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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/29/2010 7:55:20 PM   
Mesmerist


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Status: offline 		ome women can learn this faster than others but it is well worth the effort regardless. I can't follow the links provided above but I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for.

Basically it is linking a very specific command (physical works as well) as she comes due to other stimulation. As Lally said (let us know how it goes lally!) you have to make sure she succeeds, otherwise she will feel that she has let you down. Hell, pull out the hitachi if need be but make sure she climaxes!

Good associations, praise and appreciation are definately a must. Keep deepening that suggestion. Use it to induce multiples. Make her climax without stimulation through guided imagery again climaxing on command. Eventually she will be able to without any warm up.

While you are together you can keep it in your control, but be sure to give the control to her if you grow apart. It is a gift she will thank you for.

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/29/2010 8:31:49 PM   
sublizzie


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Status: offline 		Since Santa died unexpectedly there was no way for him to give back control. It is something I've worked through by myself to regain my control. It was not something I wanted someone else to pick up and use against me.

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/29/2010 8:55:13 PM   
Toppingfrmbottom


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Status: offline 		Start stop, start stop, start stop, for me would just piss me off and it wouldn't happen at all for me.

stopping and then trying to start it up again kills the mood for me.  In fact one guy thought it was funny to mess with my impending O by starting and stopping, and I was annoyed enough  at the non fun toying with, and the ruined mood, to tell him he needed to go home, I have school in the morning. Which  is true I did.


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ORIGINAL: lally2



ive been told by my new man, that the way to do this is to get her very very very very close and then ease back a little, just enough that she doesnt cum but the urge is still strong, then take her close again, very very close and then ease back.  after a few times she's gagging to cum and close to tearing youre fecking head off (not subly i know, but O's can do that to a girl), once she's so damned desparate you get her very very very very close,on the edge, holding on, breathing it back and then let her go for it.


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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/30/2010 8:35:24 AM   
RedStapler


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Status: offline 		I just learned about a technique derived from tantra called "energy orgasm" that your sub could learn. It's not instant, but she would be able to do this whenever you gave the command anywhere, anytime. Imagine calling her up while she's at work and giving the command. Oh what fun!

http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504763_162-20010797-10391704.html
http://www.ehow.com/how_2313111_have-orgasm-touching-yourself.html
http://dodsonandross.com/blogs/virginmonoblogger/2010/07/thinking-energy-orgasms-strange-sex
http://www.anniesprinkle.org/html/writings/energy-orgasms.html
http://cnn.com/video/?/video/showbiz/2010/07/29/behar.think.orgasm.hln

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/30/2010 9:50:53 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: RedStapler

I just learned about a technique derived from tantra called "energy orgasm" that your sub could learn. It's not instant, but she would be able to do this whenever you gave the command anywhere, anytime. Imagine calling her up while she's at work and giving the command. Oh what fun!



Yes   they are awesome and an amazing discovery for me personally.

And I am with Missokyst on this one. It might be his command, yet it happens in my mind. Self control ... step away from the computer now

Btw, classic conditioning, if it is connected to one word. Just pick a very uncommon word

The Ikuma comment got me laughing. Thanks!


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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/30/2010 10:47:10 AM   
aldompdx


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ORIGINAL: RedStapler ... a technique derived from tantra called "energy orgasm"


To clarify -- that is Western NEO-TANTRA, not actual Eastern classical tantra.

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/30/2010 2:36:06 PM   
happylittlepet


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ORIGINAL: aldompdx
To clarify -- that is Western NEO-TANTRA, not actual Eastern classical tantra.


Does anything equivalent exist in Eastern classical tantra? If not, is Western Neo-Tantra's focus different?


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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/31/2010 2:28:35 AM   
RedStapler


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ORIGINAL: aldompdx


quote:

ORIGINAL: RedStapler ... a technique derived from tantra called "energy orgasm"


To clarify -- that is Western NEO-TANTRA, not actual Eastern classical tantra.

Yeah, I sort of figured that it would be.

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/31/2010 5:09:51 AM   
ranja


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ORIGINAL: MasterDinMO

I have a new sub that wants to be trained on how to have an orgasm on my command. I have never done this and would like to know where to begin and then what.....


i would suggest starting with teaching her to sneeze on command... maybe using pepper or pollen at first

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/31/2010 12:48:39 PM   
Aileen1968


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ORIGINAL: MasterDinMO

I have a new sub that wants to be trained on how to have an orgasm on my command. I have never done this and would like to know where to begin and then what.....

Personally, I think orgasming on command is a crock of shit. I think it's women acting.
I have to ask permission to orgasm. I only ask when I'm on the brink.
Hearing him say yes is divine.

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RE: Orgasm on command - 7/31/2010 7:07:38 PM   
reynardfox


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Status: offline 		COME! there, - have that one on me.

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RE: Orgasm on command - 8/2/2010 5:07:34 PM   
Huntertn


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Status: offline 		first, earn her trust, it takes weeks maybe months of carefully taking her to the edge wating a bit the allowing her to cum...then one day lean over to her ear..and say the word[if you use one] and watch what happens...and yes, it helps to have her aroused first. the first time it happens...hhmm.. Man, its worth all the time and effort..believe me it is....grins...Huntertn

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RE: Orgasm on command - 8/10/2010 10:38:39 AM   
missuseme


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Status: offline 		sexyred1 you  are so right! You just made my day !

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RE: Orgasm on command - 8/25/2010 6:52:51 AM   
SomoneReal


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ORIGINAL: MasterDinMO

I have a new sub that wants to be trained on how to have an orgasm on my command. I have never done this and would like to know where to begin and then what.....


Start out by having her not cum at all for a couple days.  Than on a day where she's horny as shit, tease her for as long as you can without her cumming, and then when you want her to blow, tell her to "Cum", or whatever word you associate with orgasm.  She should be able to go more than a few times with continued teasing.

Do this for a few weeks, and extend the number of days that she doesn't cum in between the orgasm sessions.  After 2 or 3 months she'll be a lot easier with the orgasms

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