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Has anyone ever tried this? - 7/22/2010 3:58:27 AM

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Have you ever changed parts of your profile? Say if you are not very creative...changed the bio you wrote. Or maybe if you are anything like me...changed from dom to sub/sub to dom, changed to slave or switch? Or changed the gender on your profile for lolz? Or your orientation.

It is interesting to see it from the other side, even though you are absolutely nothing like your profile.

Ever wanted to see what it was like? Ever wanted to get a better perspective of what other people are looking for in you? Have you ever sent a sub a message proving that you haven't read their profile at all, then she replied, then you baaawwwwwwwwed that she was a 'fake' then baawwwwwwwed to the forums about how you 'can't find a sub'? Then try it.

I know I did. Because I'm an idiot. And all I ever do is fuck around and troll all the sites I go on.

I did get a few interesting results though. And yes, I am sure that a female domme is exactly what a straight female sub is looking for.

I was going to post this in General, but I didn't think it would fit there.

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RE: Has anyone ever tried this? - 7/22/2010 5:02:23 AM

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uhmmm...why yes, yes I do! I have been to the other side(s), and lived to tell about it!
In fact, I got a few of your cmails to prove it!

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RE: Has anyone ever tried this? - 7/22/2010 9:17:01 AM

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I have added, on occasion, and therefore changed, a few interests to my profile, either because I have either added such an interest to my life, or because I had, in the case of musical interest, I have already shared some of what I like, but had not into detail.

I am afraid that I do not go into the subect of my BDSM proclivities, as I feel that this is a personal matter that is to be discussed, at length, between a prospective Dom/Master when and if sufficient grounds have been established on boundaries, discretion, personal lifestyle choices, intellect, and other considerations. If the person to whom I am interested shares similar beliefs on these non-negotiable matters, there is there is consideration of non BDSM matters, which naturally pop up in conversations of this sort.

Of course, BDSM will filter into the conversations, usually in humorous exchanges, which I do not prudishly refuse to allow, but try to keep at a minimum. The point of bringing up the previous paragraphs is to stress, again, that it is my decision that my sexual/BDSM tendencies are extremely private and to be discussed after the other matters are discussed.

This is why I do not change at any time my profile on BDSM 1,2,3, or 4. I feel it is imperative to discuss each of the things on those lists, and at length, AFTER the boundaries, discretion, personal lifestyle choices, and intellect have been discovered by both parties. If the other party becomes an actual candidate, he would find these matters, naturally, of vital importance. The discussion of our desires and propensities is usually of a highly humorous nature while being of equal importance.

The point such a lengthy answer is to clarify the fine details that are entailed in an answer to your question, which is have I ever tried changing my profile and for what reason? Thank you for asking such an interesting question.

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RE: Has anyone ever tried this? - 7/22/2010 11:38:19 AM

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I've never actually changed my orientation, gender, or side of the kneel I'm on, but I have changed the specifics in my essay portion and interests as necessary. I agree it'd be interesting to see things from the other side but, with my username, I'd have to make a whole new profile. Plus, I'd feel dishonest if I did that. I guess I'm just too boring.

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RE: Has anyone ever tried this? - 7/22/2010 11:45:56 AM

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I used to have a profile on alt.com that said I had multiple personalities, and we were all engaged in a orgy with each other.

And as it is now, my profile location says topping from bottoms ville, and my weight is listed at the highest weight listing possible, even though that's not not my true weight.

I do not switch my orientations or Gender though, there's no point to it, I am a switch, and a switch I will probably always be. I would put dominant, because my personality is more dominant, more forceful than anything else, if I wouldn't be giving the wrong impression.

However switch is what fits me best, if not the closest to it.

And yes, I change my bio all the time, I up date it and add new things to it, and take away stuff that no longer applies, regularly. Why wouldn't I?

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ORIGINAL: BlackTigerDragon

Have you ever changed parts of your profile? Say if you are not very creative...changed the bio you wrote. Or maybe if you are anything like me...changed from dom to sub/sub to dom, changed to slave or switch? Or changed the gender on your profile for lolz? Or your orientation.

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RE: Has anyone ever tried this? - 7/22/2010 11:48:59 AM

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I'm a switch so I get mail from both sides of the kneel anyway. Most of the D-types who see my profile are respectful when they write. If they aren't, they get dealt with. I don't have time for trolling. I have dozens of real time friends on here that I hang out with or have visited in person, so they'd call me on my bullshit if I changed things like that on my profile. I also think that having more than one profile just seems like a huge waste of time. One me, one profile. I may evolve in WIITWD, but I'm not growing a penis any time in the future, so changing myself to a gay male Dom or something crazy like that is dumb.

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RE: Has anyone ever tried this? - 7/22/2010 1:49:31 PM

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My answers are in this color, to avoid having so many quote boxes.

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Have you ever changed parts of your profile? Say if you are not very creative...changed the bio you wrote. Or maybe if you are anything like me...changed from dom to sub/sub to dom, changed to slave or switch? Or changed the gender on your profile for lolz? Or your orientation. Yes, I have changed parts of my profile. Not often. At first, the changes I made were to keep deleting it. I kept the same name, until now when I had to change it because I couldn't get my old one back. In the past, I went from sub to Domme. I am kind of hiding now behind the word switch, to reduce mail. Soon I'm going to alter my profile to reflect that I stick to one side of the kneel. I have never changed the gender. I have never pretended to be gay or bi-curious. I am who I am, whatever that happens to be at the time.

It is interesting to see it from the other side, even though you are absolutely nothing like your profile. This has never been a game to me. If I am curious about what it's like for the other side, I read in the message boards and I ask questions. Can't answer that second part, as I am ME, and my profile, journal entries, and forum postings reflect some of who I am.

Ever wanted to see what it was like? Yes. Ever wanted to get a better perspective of what other people are looking for in you? By pretending to be someone I'm not? No. I don't want to have the profile of the perfect fantasy female that would attract the most responses...I want to attract the few who are willing to see me for who I am and maybe become attrated to ME. Have you ever sent a sub a message proving that you haven't read their profile at all, then she replied, then you baaawwwwwwwwed that she was a 'fake' then baawwwwwwwed to the forums about how you 'can't find a sub'? Then try it. I know I'm being no fun, but then I was the serious type even in high school. No, every person I have ever written to...I have read their profile and journal entries first, as well as forum postings unless they have written such a huge amount that I would be a week reading them all. Enough people have trolled me over the years that I wouldn't want to risk burning other people out by doing that to others. At the same time, sometimes I enjoy troll baiting.
I know I did. Because I'm an idiot. And all I ever do is fuck around and troll all the sites I go on. So is this a warning that I should block you in advance if I don't wanna be f*cked with?

I did get a few interesting results though. And yes, I am sure that a female domme is exactly what a straight female sub is looking for. Hm, so was that you under another profile name? If it wasn't, then there must be a whole herd of people here who love to troll and play games. Long answers are probably amusing, but usually I just report the troll and use the block or hide button. I'm just not here for all that playful fun, unless it's consensual.

I was going to post this in General, but I didn't think it would fit there. You chose just the right spot. I'll try to be more tolerant and realize that kiddies are playing...but maybe this should have been in the male area of the message boards. Men who keep inquiring why women get so much mail want to know these things.

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RE: Has anyone ever tried this? - 7/22/2010 2:04:22 PM

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I've never changed from Domme to Dom, sub, or switch. I haven't needed to do those types of things. I see what happens to male Dom's on this site from seeing MP's mailbox. I have the same info from clip's interactions as well. I don't really feel the need to see how things are on the other side of the fence.

I did change the profile at one time from "Domme" to "Couple" because I'm married and don't want to deceive anyone. I canned that idea after two weeks of crap in My mailbox. I've changed the text as necessary and changed locations when we moved.

I do tend to send people messages quite often without reading their profile. I'll tell them that I appreciated something they wrote on the forums or that they made Me laugh. Most people don't have an issue with that.

Guess I'm just not good game player or troll material.

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RE: Has anyone ever tried this? - 7/22/2010 2:48:18 PM

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I have changed my profile but never orientation/sex or anything like that. If I were looking for a partner that would be a serious red flag if I caught someone doing that. They would be on my personal black list the rest of their lives.

Of course on the other hand if I never had any desire to actually live the lfie style I can't see what it would hurt. I'd only be playing around with peoples emotions anyway.

My profile here is very sparse. Reason being I don't care to get the masses of mail anymore. I'd rather just get it from people I know.

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