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Genital shaving - 4/17/2006 6:03:22 PM   
Aimtoplease101


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Status: offline 		Apologies in advance if this has been discussed in prior posts.

Many subs shave (or are shaven) "down there."  I was in a relationship with a dominant woman for a while who preferred me shaven, and so I accomodated her preferences.  She told me that the attraction for her was three-fold.  First, she like the asthetics of denuded cock and balls more.  Second, it made various types of CBT activity easier.  Third, she like the mental domination aspect of it-- the different sensation for me, my self-consciousness when changing at the gym, etc., reminded me of our relationship throughout the day.  The relationship ended, and I've since gone back to my "natural state," so to speak.

Do you like to keep your subs shaven?  If so, what aspect of it appeals to you most?

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RE: Genital shaving - 4/17/2006 6:18:21 PM   
GoddessDustyGold


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Status: offline 		Yes...and for those same three reasons.

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RE: Genital shaving - 4/17/2006 6:34:01 PM   
MstrssPassion


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aimtoplease101
Many subs shave (or are shaven) "down there." 


Dominants shave "down there" too

asthetics... yes
ease regarding CBT... yes
mental domination of it all... well... I guess. It doesn't give me an all powerful sense to shave or have someone shave.

My third would be hygiene.

Put it all together & I would agree that I prefer shaved or very closely trimmed over that 70's show.

< Message edited by MstrssPassion -- 4/17/2006 6:36:32 PM >

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RE: Genital shaving - 4/17/2006 7:20:06 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Yes I require him to keep it shaved clean down there for all of those reasons and I also require he keep the hair around his nipples shaved too.

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RE: Genital shaving - 4/17/2006 7:26:57 PM   
MistressLorelei


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Status: offline 		I like My submissive's 'down there' shaved as well, and for the reasons mentioned.  I will add that I enjoyed that he had to shave the area while he showered in My presence, which added to his humiliation, and the pleasure which I derived from it.  And, chastity devices look much nicer sans pubic hair. 

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RE: Genital shaving - 4/17/2006 7:29:59 PM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		It's all about control.....control the mundane tasks of shaving your cock daily and you control the mind as well.
I'm working on getting my Russian girl to shave her arm pits..but she is resisting...which makes the whipping her ass, all so much better.
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RE: Genital shaving - 4/17/2006 7:40:45 PM   
cuckrob


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Status: offline 		Yes, my previous Mistress made me keep myself completely smooth for all the reasons you and others have already mentioned. It accentuated my sub and humiliation feelings and she enjoyed the contrast with her lovers.

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RE: Genital shaving - 4/17/2006 7:41:37 PM   
Proprietrix


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From: Ohio/West Virginia
Status: offline 		I guess I'm the minority on this one.
Not only do I not HAVE my subs/slaves shave, I absolutely do NOT ALLOW them to.
The why is very simple...
I have a hair fetish 
Ok, well, maybe not a fetish.. I just really, really, really like hair.
I don't shave anywhere. My subs and slaves are only allowed to shave their faces (if they desire. I never tell them to.)
I think it looks more natural. It feels great (all soft and snuggly). And since they are clean people, with good grooming habits, it really doesn't affect their hygiene either way. 
(The pre-pubescent look kind of squicks me out anyway.)

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RE: Genital shaving - 4/17/2006 7:50:13 PM   
LadySeraphina


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Status: offline 		I am totally hairless from the neck down, and although I allow my male personal subs to keep leg and chest hair - and that lovely little treasure trail - I insist on them shaving the entire pubic area. I've had male subs that shaved their whole bodies, or who used clippers to make all their hair uniformly short (except the aforementioned pubic area, which had to be clean) but the main thing to me is that the area is smooth. I happen to enjoy orally teasing my personal toys, and flossing doesn't do it for me. The number of times I've had to spit hairs! Forget it. Smooth, or no playtime.

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RE: Genital shaving - 4/17/2006 7:55:55 PM   
Smythe


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I like hair as well, as long as it stays in the right places. i.e. keep it off the backs and ears!!

I just don't like the look of a naked cock.

Smythe



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RE: Genital shaving - 4/17/2006 8:38:43 PM   
crouchingtigress


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Status: offline 		I make them shave for those reasons you mentioned and also I think it makes them look bigger which I like, and which makes them happy too 

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RE: Genital shaving - 4/18/2006 6:40:43 AM   
WyrdRich


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Status: offline 		          I keep mine shaved and don't find anything humiliating in it.  The reduced friction and pure skin to skin contact is marvelous.  It also makes things easier when the parachute cord and clothespins come out for some CBT play.

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RE: Genital shaving - 4/18/2006 7:19:46 AM   
BlkTallFullfig


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aimtoplease101
Do you like to keep your subs shaven?  If so, what aspect of it appeals to you most?
Regards,
ATP
When I am seeing someone, I prefer he keep hair trimmed/neat looking, not shaven.   I like a more natural looking adult than an excessively altered man and manhood.   M

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RE: Genital shaving - 4/18/2006 9:17:06 AM   
mistressrose10


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Status: offline 		I see I have company here for I too like a natural look except for the back, ears and God forbid-the nostrils! Neatly trimmed is nice and I'm somewhat fond of a mohawk.The naked look does nothing for me and I simply adore chest hair...

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RE: Genital shaving - 4/18/2006 9:37:40 AM   
Iamcurious


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my dom bf used to shave me himself and the intimacy and sensuality of this act deepened our relationship...

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RE: Genital shaving - 4/18/2006 9:38:24 AM   
mistressrose10


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Status: offline 		You are in good company here-I love the natural look.Unless it's on his back or coming from his ears or God forbid!- nostrils,I say let it grow! I'm particularly fond of luxuriant chest hair.For control though I think a mohawk down there is visually pleasing.Here's to hair!

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RE: Genital shaving - 4/18/2006 10:25:38 AM   
FLsubmalecd


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aimtoplease101

Apologies in advance if this has been discussed in prior posts.

Many subs shave (or are shaven) "down there."  I was in a relationship with a dominant woman for a while who preferred me shaven, and so I accomodated her preferences.  She told me that the attraction for her was three-fold.  First, she like the asthetics of denuded cock and balls more.  Second, it made various types of CBT activity easier.  Third, she like the mental domination aspect of it-- the different sensation for me, my self-consciousness when changing at the gym, etc., reminded me of our relationship throughout the day.  The relationship ended, and I've since gone back to my "natural state," so to speak.

Do you like to keep your subs shaven?  If so, what aspect of it appeals to you most?

Regards,
ATP


hi aimtoplease101,
I find myself in a similar state of mind but more so. That is, I am a cross dresser that has been married and later deparated and in love with a Domme. I have not had any body hair EXCEPT my genital region for many years. Then when my Mistress ordered me to shave down there as well, I did so with no hesitation. I felt honored that she wanted me that way to please her. Well since she released me and tore my heart out, I have let ALL my body hair grow back including what she demanded shaved smooth. I guess there is/was some connection wiht me being coupled and my being a CD. Another words, right now even the desire to dress and keep the hair off is kind of put on a shelf. I know without a doubt that once I find a Domme to love honor and obey, I will be shaved completely again. That is if she approves or orders it done. And frankly I will be happier about it.    

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RE: Genital shaving - 4/18/2006 11:49:30 AM   
jamesthehumanrug


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Status: offline 		DEAREST AIMIN2PLS.,
GREETINGS,

I AM NO "TOP"  ....SO....PARDON MY INSERT, BUT ,it's a whole different walk,
....WHEN YOU SHAVE....

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RE: Genital shaving - 4/18/2006 12:56:51 PM   
sweetbbwsub31


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Status: offline 		i shave daily and prefer my partners to be shaven as well. In my opinion it just feels better. Plus wax removal is so much easier.

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RE: Genital shaving - 4/18/2006 3:50:20 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mistressrose10
You are in good company here-I love the natural look.Unless it's on his back or coming from his ears or God forbid!- nostrils,I say let it grow! I'm particularly fond of luxuriant chest hair
  I know what you mean, natural is good, up to a point, and than we have to tame nature a little.
Welcome to the boards.   M

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