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AQuietSimpleMan -> RE: Passive Arts Fire.... Owner Killed. (7/29/2010 7:04:41 PM)
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ORIGINAL: BeachMystress
Michael, perhaps you ought to read my post more thoroughly. Exactly where did I say John deserved to be murdered? Gee, I do believe I said specifically that I'd never heard anything about him bad enough to justify what was done. Reading comprehension is a beautiful thing... And no, you didn't know John. You aren't part of the So Cal scene. You visit it at times. Perhaps you don't know as much about what you're saying as you think you do. You couldn't even remember if you'd BEEN to Passive Arts. You just want to be outraged. A theme with you..
And the thread is about whatever people post on it. You do not own it. Too bad you didn't like what I had to say but I had the right to say it. Freedom of speech is such a wonderful thing.
Beach,
I'm not Michael, and even if I was outing someone by giving their name in not okay.
You and I have sat and talked, I love you like a part of my own extended family, if you do not feel that way about me after what I said I am sorry.
I think you taking the time to take a Pot Shot at a club for not making you Queen of the Site and instead trying to focus on the business aspects of running a place like that, well I am sorry you disapprove. I most likely would have done the same thing. Overhead and Livelihood often take a front seat to someones ability to scene in a public setting. I am sorry this is just something that you and I will not agree on. The fact that you choose to do so on a thread that was obviously about his death shows your ability to be cold and heartless when certain people are met with Tragedy.
You are right that I visit the scene, you are right that I did not know him well enough to eat pastries with him near a pool, what I do know is people who I HAVE met and done such things spoke highly of him. I saw him as someone who DID SOMETHING in our lifestyle other than complaining that No One was DOING anything. He got up and Did something, no matter how well or how poorly at least he DID something.
Califgirl, you are right, I am concerned that people are showing little if any care when someone in the lifestyle publically is killed and then set on fire. It bothers me that in a couple days 70 people can find the time to say "I didn't know him that well but this is sad." or "He was like a Brother to me, I feel like crying" on just one other site, and that neatly 200 different people some from other countries can find the time to make a comment and that without the dismissive and distasteful comments on this and the other thread all that can be manages if 6 or 7 people is really just kind of sad.
I apologize to anyone who feels I am being to harsh, or overly dramatic, but as pointed out I didn’t really even know the man that well, and this is how bothered I am by what has happened. Obviously I am frustrated with a horrible thing that happened and I hope that I would be forgiven when I gather my composure.
QSM
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