RE: When to leave the scene

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littlewonder -> RE: When to leave the scene (7/31/2010 10:20:53 AM)
I'm begging you...which you won't see hardly.....do NOT start a family just to think it may work for you. Why in the hell would you put children through your issues???? Only have a family if you truly love a woman and want to settle down and you love children and want them. Don't do it just because you're bored. Pleasepleaseplease don't. That's just beyond harmful to all involved. If you have these issues that you describe then take a break from life...go on a long vacation, talk to a therapist....get a hobby!!

sexyred1 -> RE: When to leave the scene (7/31/2010 10:31:50 AM)
I am not in a "scene". I live my life, in all it's multfacted ways. I am not in a relationship now and I will not be in one just to get my BDSM fix. I cannot do that. It is not an itch to be scratched by just anyone. I would rather do without than be casual about it. For me, it is the person who brings it out in me. So I guess in one sense I could be considered to not being involved in anything D/s related during the times I am not in a relationship, but it is always in my mind since it is part of my DNA. I always wonder if I could be totally happy in a vanilla situation, and for most of it, I am sure I could be. However, after a somewhat vanilla marriage, I don't think so. I would need the dynamic at least in the sexual arena. You just cannot give up something that is so much a part of your essential nature.

whiteslavebitch -> RE: When to leave the scene (7/31/2010 2:33:05 PM)
I couldn't imagine doing the vanilla lifestyle ever again. I wouldn't want to live without BDSM in my life. Vanilla sex does nothing for me. I would probably end up suicidal. Instead I'm in a committed M/s relationship for the past 5 years, and couldn't be happier.

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