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EnjoyMyBody -> Looking for advise from experienced Mistress (7/30/2010 2:45:32 PM)

Dear Mistress:

Please allow me to ask for your advise on my profile. It has been up for quite a while now and I have not received any interest yet (except of a couple of emails from out-of-state, thousands of miles away).

Is there anything I can improve or do better in my profile to attract a Mistress and Mentor?

I hope this is the right forum to place this question. Otherwise, please advise me in the correct place to place my request.

Respectfully,

-tom
(aka EnjoyMyBody)



LadyPact -> RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress (7/30/2010 2:48:46 PM)

Please enjoy reading the Frequently Asked Questions thread http://www.collarchat.com/m_3057130/tm.htm that appears at the top of the forum.  In it, you will find a number of threads on how to improve your profile.



dreamerdreaming -> RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress (7/30/2010 5:59:59 PM)

What LadyPact said!

Also: on a quick skim I liked your profile but your screen name sucks, IMHO. You do have a nice body, but that's not what's most important. What's really important is everything else about you. After all, a total asshole could have a great body, right? But why would I want to enjoy it when what I really want is a loving, obedient, wise, strong servant whose needs and desires fit together well with mine?!

If you had a screen name that spoke about what's really important, you'd attract more interest. And there's also the fact that even having that sort of screen-name to begin with shows that you're pretty clueless- that's a concern. Women who probably love your pics are not likely to talk to you if they don't see you as a reasonably self-aware person, with good judgement. Or they may think the screen name is saying that you just want something physical, and not a deeper relationship. In that case, they wouldn't even get as far as reading your text.

Just my two cents. Now go read the Ask A Mistress FAQ thread, please! You can learn a LOT about how to present yourself well to a Domme, there.

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PeonForHer -> RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress (7/30/2010 6:48:35 PM)

EMB,

It works a lot better if you just treat them like ordinary people until you've got to know them. The Goddess thing comes later. 



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress (7/30/2010 6:50:59 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

EMB,

It works a lot better if you just treat them like ordinary people until you've got to know them. The Goddess thing comes later. 


It does? What else have I been doing wrong? [>:]

And why are you up so late?



LadyPact -> RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress (7/30/2010 7:00:35 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

EMB,

The Goddess thing comes later. 

In My case, the Goddess thing never comes.  It's a little too hokey for Me.

Then again, so does calling someone "Mistress" without a qualifier.  Good way to know how familiar someone is about protocol.  It comes in handy as a screening tool.



PeonForHer -> RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress (7/30/2010 7:10:04 PM)

I'm still laughing at your first post.  It reminded me of Scaramanga saying to James Bond, 'Enjoy your tea, Mr Bond' - just before setting some man-eating crocodiles onto him.  Bet you were stroking a white cat when you wrote that.  [:D]



LadyPact -> RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress (7/30/2010 7:13:43 PM)

Would it surprise you if I told you that I have one?



PeonForHer -> RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress (7/30/2010 7:14:06 PM)

Eh?  It's only ten past three. 

I've finished the exam-marking and I don't know what to do with myself.  Perhaps some vigorous french polishing is in order before I hit the hay. 



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress (7/30/2010 7:15:49 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Eh?  It's only ten past three. 

I've finished the exam-marking and I don't know what to do with myself.  Perhaps some vigorous french polishing is in order before I hit the hay. 



Or you could polish this Italian... [;)]



PeonForHer -> RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress (7/30/2010 7:17:21 PM)

Nope!  I bet your nickname for Mr P is 'Oddjob', too.



PeonForHer -> RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress (7/30/2010 7:21:38 PM)

My can of Brasso is at the ready, Lady Hib!



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress (7/30/2010 7:24:32 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

My can of Brasso is at the ready, Lady Hib!



Goodness, am I that grubby?



PeonForHer -> RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress (7/30/2010 7:29:57 PM)

Awww - gissakiss!



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Looking for advise from experienced Mistress (7/30/2010 7:31:44 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Awww - gissakiss!

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