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On Rimming - 7/31/2010 4:53:15 PM

SnowCrash7

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Let's talk about rimming. I have been a Dom male since birth and have enjoyed rimming a clean, female rosebud nearly that long. I am not sure where that desire stems from. Is it because I was raised as the oldest of 4 boys with no sisters? Is it because I'm an ass man?

I'm not sure where it comes from and I'm not sure I care where it comes from. I just know that with the right lady I doubt there is much more, outside of water sports, which could represent a more intimate form of pleasuring and sharing. It might be the taboo of it all that appeals. In the same manner that I truly enjoy playing with a married sub. The forbidden fruit as it were.

Without a doubt cleanliness is essential. But for those who balk at rimming a clean rosebud you should know that the typical mouth contains far more harmful bacteria than a clean anus. And you do kiss with your mouth open don't you ?

While I love to do the rimming I have only been rimmed a few times. And that was essentially by choice. That might stem from the fact that in my twenties I was cut there by an overly zealous young lady with long sharp fingernails. It was not fun.

So I tended to keep ladies away from that area. That was until I met this female sub in Texas in 2000 that delighted in rimming and being rimmed. I mean she insisted on it. And I have to admit being serviced like that was delightful. Soft, sensual, intimate, and the knowledge that it really rang her bell made it all the better.

I remember on more than occasion straddling her face, while she would gently lick, nibble, probe and play with my asshole. It was exquisite. I would then flog her pussy to provide 'motivation' and jerk off on her chest.
Sometimes she would have me lie down and prop a small pillow under my groin. She would then lie between my legs and go to town.

She really wanted to slide a finger into my ass and massage my prostate. She wanted that a lot. We did try it a few times but given my past experience I freely admit that I probably fully earned the nickname 'tight ass'. :)

One pleasant variation to a traditional 69 would be that when I was about to explode in the lady's mouth I would pull her very tight to my face and slide my tongue as deep into her ass as possible. Embedding my tongue deep in her ass at the moment of explosion. Hard to beat.

In discussing the gentle art of rimming and how much I enjoy it in various Ds forums I once had a young female sub, I would argue an uneducated and misinformed female sub. "Gee", she said. "that doesn't sound very Domlike". I replied. "Young lady, I can assure you that I am 100% Dom. And the fact that I WANT to do it makes it 'Domlike'.

I will also freely admit that my love of rimming has been going unabated as of late. And when deprived, it becomes clear that its far more than a linking. Its a NEED!! I find myself staring at nicely heart shaped derriers everywhere, thinking, briefly visualizing, fantasizing.

And if I am not able to tease, nibble, probe, taste, explore, luxuriate in, drill and tongue fuck a nice female rosebud very soon I will surely lose my mind :)