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Strap On & CBT - 4/18/2006 3:53:12 PM   
cuckrob


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Status: offline 		May I ask the Mistresses their views on the following. Firstly, strap ons ............ does the act of putting on and wearing a strap-on arouse dominant feelings within you, or is it just a tool which you put on for its main purpose and then take it off? Do you enjoy the feeling of wearing one and do you enjoy how it looks on you?
Secondly, CBT........... what are your favourite methods of CBT play?
Many thanks for reading this and for those that respond.
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RE: Strap On & CBT - 4/18/2006 4:11:20 PM   
MistressLlyoness


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Status: offline 		Personally, I do not feel comfortable in strap-ons.  There are no feelings of dominance that are tapped into mainly because I do not see a penis as something that gives one power.  Power comes from embracing my Feminine energy.  Again, this is something that is personal and not universal.
 
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RE: Strap On & CBT - 4/18/2006 4:23:42 PM   
Proprietrix


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From: Ohio/West Virginia
Status: offline 		Ok, first off, this *to me* is a way too personal thing to be asking total strangers, and it will most probably make most of the women here think one thing: you're just another guy who wants to get off.
So, don't be suprised if you get some negative responses to this post.

But, since I've seen much more intimate things discussed here, here's *my* answers:

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ORIGINAL: cuckrob
does the act of putting on and wearing a strap-on arouse dominant feelings within you

Absolutely not. In fact, the few times I've done it, it put a rather sickening feeling in my stomach.

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  or is it just a tool which you put on for its main purpose and then take it off?

Once I took it off, I never put it back on again, and never plan to.

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  Do you enjoy the feeling of wearing one

No.

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do you enjoy how it looks on you?

No.

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Secondly, CBT........... what are your favourite methods of CBT play?

I don't do CBT.

(In the future, it might be wise to get to know people a bit more before asking them about the intimate, personal details of their private sexual encounters.)

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RE: Strap On & CBT - 4/18/2006 4:36:54 PM   
WyrdRich


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Status: offline 		       Dude, if that is all you are looking for in a relationship, save your nickels and find an escort who does BDSM games (depending on where you are, strap-ons are considered a sex act and Pro-Dommes don't do those).

      (I'm not coming back to this thread, I'm not coming back to this thread, I'm not coming ba.......  Oh who am I kidding, it might be fun to watch)

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RE: Strap On & CBT - 4/19/2006 1:32:57 AM   
LoneGoddess


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From: Moscow, Idaho
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quote:

ORIGINAL: cuckrob

May I ask the Mistresses their views on the following. Firstly, strap ons ............ does the act of putting on and wearing a strap-on arouse dominant feelings within you, or is it just a tool which you put on for its main purpose and then take it off? Do you enjoy the feeling of wearing one and do you enjoy how it looks on you?
Secondly, CBT........... what are your favourite methods of CBT play?
Many thanks for reading this and for those that respond.

It could be fantasy fodder ladies, but give a man a chance. He did approach it from a more philosophical standpoint. Goddess, are we that intolerant? I've spent years on the forums at the b site (Lyzanthia is my name there), and I've seen far worse, and flamed them right off the forums and from posting ever again. This one may not be who you think he is. If he comes back and asks the leading questions then you can blast him. I didn't find this that bad.

How do I feel? Happy, energized, powerful. It fulfills my penis envy and power trippy needs in one shebang. Yes, dominant feelings ensue.

As for the CBT play, too many to list or detail here. So you will have to go without, because this question is leading for wank fodder boy. Watch yourself. And welcome to the forums.

~LG

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RE: Strap On & CBT - 4/19/2006 5:06:12 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Using a strapon doesn't give me a sense of power, what gives me a sense of power is holding this 6' 4" 240 lb man down with my foot on the back of his neck and paddling his ass while I tell him to jerk off and cum ONLY when I say so, IF I say so. Personally I don't see how guys walk with a cock n balls hanging between their legs  it seems so cumbersome to me, but then again I've never had them so I just can't relate.
CBT, I love it. Hearing him scream like a monkey when I take off the clothespins is music to my ears, yes I'm a bit of a sadist.

~Lashra

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RE: Strap On & CBT - 4/19/2006 5:16:05 AM   
Jasmyn


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May I ask the Mistresses their views on the following. Firstly, strap ons ............ does the act of putting on and wearing a strap-on arouse dominant feelings within you, or is it just a tool which you put on for its main purpose and then take it off? Do you enjoy the feeling of wearing one and do you enjoy how it looks on you?

 
Wore a vibrating strap-on over my jeans for a weekend adult lifestyle expo..the myriad of looks from the visiting crowds were interesting to note, some aghast, some intrigued, some obviously delighted, some appalled, some embarrassed ..was an interesting exercise... the fact that it was adult lifestyle expo, all in all I think most people took delight because they were expecting to see the unsual and the uninhibited .. but I'm thinking they wouldn't have been as delighted if they were to realise that I actually would rodger a guy with one.
 
Now for your questions ... does the donning the strap-on arouse dominant feelings?  Yes and no...yes they act of putting on the stap-on arouses dominance, but not in the sense of been related to 'putting on a penis', but as a tool...I feel the same surge of dominance picking up a whip, or zipping a sissymaid into a frilly maid's outfit. 
 
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Secondly, CBT........... what are your favourite methods of CBT play?

 
No one favourite thing...

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Many thanks for reading this and for those that respond.

 
You're welcome


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RE: Strap On & CBT - 4/19/2006 5:31:01 AM   
Mstressofpets


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Status: offline 		Might I ask how one determines the length and width of a strap on to be used if it is not used just for pain?

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RE: Strap On & CBT - 4/19/2006 5:39:18 AM   
Jasmyn


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From: New Zealand
Status: offline 		There are plenty of anal vibes, probes, strap-ons on the market ... also research some of the gay male sites for tips on anal play, and learn something about the male anatomy ... whatever size you get/have, he's going to be apprehensive, use plenty of lube and reassuring words

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RE: Strap On & CBT - 4/19/2006 7:41:20 AM   
alex311


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Status: offline 		quote]ORIGINAL: Mstressofpets

Might I ask how one determines the length and width of a strap on to be used if it is not used just for pain?
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As with anything else, starting small and working your way up is never a bad idea, and lets the boy have a feeling of accomplishment and progression.  Take it easy at first.  Once he's become an "expert" the size is up to you, and many Dommes have multiple sizes, each with its own capacity to cause pleasure, discomfort or "intimidation factor."

Then again, starting a size or two larger than the boy's own "equipment" sends a nice message  Unlike him, you can be as big as you want to be. 

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