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I'm owned! Yay! - 8/3/2010 11:02:42 PM   
stevemc


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Status: offline 		Well I officially become property tomorrow, my contract is going through it's final drafts, any suggestions?

http://cotton.gb.com/contract.htm
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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/3/2010 11:08:36 PM   
submissivemale22


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Status: offline 		it might be fun for you to call it a 'contract', but there is nothing enforceable about it, so you should probably refer to it as 'guidelines'.

have you been in chastity before? if not... you are in for a rude awakening.

good luck with the circumcision...

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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/4/2010 10:04:21 AM   
stevemc


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Status: offline 		drat! ... I got my days mixed up ... it's actually tomorrow, i thought it was Wednesday yesturday for some reason ... still 24hrs to give me some more ideas for the contract.

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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/4/2010 10:13:33 AM   
phoenixmoonn13


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Status: offline 		congrats on your ownership. as far as your contract it is not somthing i had to do well i did but it was more of what i felt and loved about him and how my submission felt to me. in a way it was mroe a love letter. only thin i can suggest it look on google there are a few around but i am guessing you ahve done that already

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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/4/2010 10:19:47 AM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		You might hate me for saying this, but since the contract won't stand up in any court what ever is in it only is worth what you and your owner put into it, it's a lovely symbol but whatever you and your owner make out of it is what really counts, your devotion and your owner's commitment and you can't put that in words or clauses...

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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/4/2010 10:35:51 AM   
stevemc


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Status: offline 		Yeah it's the best bits (my perspective obviously) of several from google - including strangely one on a HR Templates site ...
Anyhoo thanks for the advice, mine is the same really, so far that's mostly about what I commit to rather than anything my Owner has asked for - notable exception being the 24mth minimum in chastity and 12mth termination period if that's already met.
I suppose it's more of a pledge than a contract, but it still feels like it has power to me, so it works.

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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/4/2010 11:19:24 AM   
phoenixmoonn13


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Status: offline 		thats the most important thing if it feels right to you

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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/4/2010 11:31:02 AM   
BitaTruble


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Status: offline 		Congratulations, stevemc. I wish you and your new owner every joy and happiness. :D

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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/4/2010 11:34:09 AM   
texangael


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ORIGINAL: stevemc

Well I officially become property tomorrow, my contract is going through it's final drafts, any suggestions?

http://cotton.gb.com/contract.htm

If it's what you want....good luck.

Myself, I can't imagine a contract of this detail and duration that was devoted solely to sexual gratification. What about the other 23.5 hours of each day?

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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/4/2010 11:44:56 AM   
stevemc


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quote:

ORIGINAL: texangael


quote:

ORIGINAL: stevemc

Well I officially become property tomorrow, my contract is going through it's final drafts, any suggestions?

http://cotton.gb.com/contract.htm

If it's what you want....good luck.

Myself, I can't imagine a contract of this detail and duration that was devoted solely to sexual gratification. What about the other 23.5 hours of each day?


More like 167.5 hours of the week, since i only get any sexual gratification at most once a week. lol
To be honest i've now been in the CB a week, and if feels good, dont get me wrong i'm horny as hell and would do almost anything asked, but it's constant snuggness, the need to sit to use a toilet are all reminders of what ive given up and it feels great to be owned like this.
I'm demisexual anyway so sex has never been a big part of my life and part of the idea is actually to make me more randy lol ... but i do miss playing with myself.
Oh well c'est la vie, this is my life now.

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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/5/2010 4:11:42 PM   
stevemc


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Status: offline 		How long does it take for messages to be approved on here ... the second post has been awaiting for 2 days now!

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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/5/2010 4:15:47 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		I don't get the whole contract thing; I prefer living a relationship as it develops.

Also, did I read correctly that if you don't lose 3 lbs every time you orgasm you are not permitted to until you do??

Talk about incentive for weight loss. Hopefully you will enjoy yourself so much you will sweat it off.

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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/5/2010 4:23:20 PM   
mstrjx


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ORIGINAL: stevemc

How long does it take for messages to be approved on here ... the second post has been awaiting for 2 days now!

See, some people are lucky to wear gags in real life.

The REALLY lucky ones get them in our little virtual world, too.

Something to strive for.

Jeff

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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/5/2010 4:27:34 PM   
VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: stevemc

How long does it take for messages to be approved on here ... the second post has been awaiting for 2 days now!


I wouldn't hold your breath-knowing the poster's style it's unlikely to be anything too nice.

Happiness and luck, Steve


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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/5/2010 6:11:55 PM   
slavekal


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Status: offline 		Congrats!  Don't forget the sanity clause.  (ya can't fool me...there ain't no Sanity Clause)

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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/5/2010 6:29:14 PM   
itsmeinLV


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Status: offline 		Congrats!  :D

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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/5/2010 7:03:33 PM   
leadership527


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ORIGINAL: slavekal
Congrats!  Don't forget the sanity clause.  (ya can't fool me...there ain't no Sanity Clause)
You are so, so wrong. Right there in Carol's and my slave contract (well, if I'd ever write it up), is the phrase, "... unless and until Jeff becomes a dumbass"

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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/6/2010 1:59:56 AM   
CynthiaWVirginia


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Status: offline 		Congratulations!
 
Best wishes to you and your new owner. 

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RE: I'm owned! Yay! - 8/6/2010 6:38:27 AM   
MstrTiger


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Status: offline 		Personally I do not do the contract thing, though at the same time if someone wants to set out some general guidelines on paper I do not feel the need to criticize them just because I do not do it myself.

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