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Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 12:14:04 AM   
SugarCocaine


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Status: offline 		Apparently there is some kind of thing going around saying that I am underage, and I am not the girl in my pictures, and now I am a guy.  And apparently "A lot of Doms are saying you are a fake in the forums, ect, ect"

Is there anyone else that is having this problem?  I have a lot of friends here that not only know I am who I am, but I know them in real life.  I have even offered to speak to some of these people on the telephone, but they say that they won't give me their number because I might be a guy. 
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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 12:23:46 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		You're only getting it because somebody out there is hoping you are dumb enough to "prove" you are female by showing your tits on cam.  At least 90% of the folks who try the "show that you're real"  keep running the idea by any chick who they think will fall for it.

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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 12:35:18 AM   
WyldHrt


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Status: offline 		LMAO. Ok, first off, no one is saying that you are fake in the forums, as blacklisting is not permitted here. Any such post would be pulled by the mods on sight, and the author would get a pretty, gold bordered note.

Secondly, there is a joke around here that you aren't actually real until at least 5 people have called you 'fake'. It happens to all of us sooner or later, so don't sweat it. That said, your profile is likely attracting these bozos. Calling yourself a 'stupid worthless cunt' isn't a great way to attract a Dominant looking for someone worthwhile. What it will do is attract assholes that use the 'fake' thing to get you to show your beaver on cam as 'proof' that you are 'real'.

Welcome to the forums. I hope that you will stick around, as there is much to be learned here, including how to attract compatible people instead of dickheads

Edit- GMTA, LadyP!




< Message edited by WyldHrt -- 8/5/2010 12:37:11 AM >

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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 12:48:24 AM   
realwhiteknight


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SugarCocaine

Apparently there is some kind of thing going around saying that I am underage, and I am not the girl in my pictures, and now I am a guy.  And apparently "A lot of Doms are saying you are a fake in the forums, ect, ect"

Is there anyone else that is having this problem?  I have a lot of friends here that not only know I am who I am, but I know them in real life.  I have even offered to speak to some of these people on the telephone, but they say that they won't give me their number because I might be a guy. 




Oooh I know this! I know this!! This is what has happened:

1. random man emails you

2. you ignore or otherwise reject said man.

3. he emails you back with some statement that is a quasi-insult regarding your looks (look young, look skinny, etc.) and how people are talking about you in the forums and how you look.

Answer: IGNORE it. It's totally not true, just a pathetic manipulation from a random loser upset that you know you're above him and he can never have you.

Also, do not try to validate yourself to these people. Just be yourself and spend time getting to know them, if they wont put the time in to get to know a bit about you, then how else would they have a way of knowing you're who you say you are? Because it is *certainly* not a good idea to meet a total stranger in person, no matter what








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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 2:01:20 AM   
ranja


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Status: offline 		maybe you are underage or a man, i don't know.... maybe the trouble is that you attract dumb druggies or people with an interest in dumb druggies ... i wonder why you chose your nickname... do you have affinities with sugar and cocaine? do you do a lot of both? does it cloud your judgement, does it make you a bit paranoid?

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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 3:12:25 AM   
SugarCocaine


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Status: offline 		I do tend to ignore a lot of the emails I get from people around here.  I appreciate everyones answers... makes me feel a little better.

As for you, ranja, my name SugarCocaine is referring to pixie stix.  I really, really love those things.

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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 3:20:41 AM   
VaguelyCurious


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Status: offline 		Seriously, it happens to everyone. Even me, and I've got a bloody *voice recording*...:P

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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 3:54:02 AM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SugarCocaine
I have even offered to speak to some of these people on the telephone, but they say that they won't give me their number because I might be a guy. 



Don't do it. 

1. You have nothing to prove.  If you say you're a woman, and they don't buy it, what kind of relationship could you expect from them anyway?  Argumanetative and manipulative.  Drop them.
2. If you DID give them a phone conversation in response to suspiciousness and accusations, you'd be rewarding their behavior.  Don't even think of it.
3. If their phone has caller ID, you'd be setting yourself up for creepy phone calls.

Next time someone accuses you of being underage/male/a nun/not a true sub/whatever, block, delete, move on.



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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 7:53:48 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I volunteer to do a personal inspection and validate gender.

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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 8:02:11 AM   
thishereboi


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Status: offline 		Well according to your profile, you are a worthless whore who is only concerned with his pleasure and it also states that your stupid. Add to that a picture of a hot young girl and yes you will have your mail box filled up with assholes in a NY minute. Most will be trying to get a quick blow job and the others will want to go into detail on how stupid and worthless you are. I doubt many will be looking for a meaningful relationship.

Now it is up to you if you want to continue to present yourself in this way or not. But if you do, don't be surprised it you attract some really strange people.


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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 9:20:47 AM   
xXsoumisXx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I volunteer to do a personal inspection and validate gender.


can we watch??

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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 9:36:10 AM   
vegetablelamb


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From: The Cabbage Patch
Status: offline 		I had the same thing happen. A guy said, after he and "a couple of doms were talking about it," that my pictures were underage and I was secretly a guy. He also said he reported me, etc etc.

Tell them if they blow your cover you'll wreak havoc on their anuses with a massive dose of creepy man penis?

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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 10:42:16 AM   
leadership527


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quote:

ORIGINAL: thishereboi
Well according to your profile, you are a worthless whore who is only concerned with his pleasure and it also states that your stupid. Add to that a picture of a hot young girl and yes you will have your mail box filled up with assholes in a NY minute. Most will be trying to get a quick blow job and the others will want to go into detail on how stupid and worthless you are. I doubt many will be looking for a meaningful relationship. Now it is up to you if you want to continue to present yourself in this way or not. But if you do, don't be surprised it you attract some really strange people.

This.

I'd say the bait is attracting the prey exactly as it should.

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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 10:53:40 AM   
Bobanna


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Status: offline 		I get this type of rubbish all the time.  ALL THE TIME.  My advice to you, block them and move on to somone who has enough money that if they want to see a girls twat on cam they can afford to go to a camwebsite and pay for it.  These are mostly teenage boys that dont have a cc and are looking for a freebie from an idiot girl that has no self esteem and is willing to comply.


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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 10:53:43 AM   
porcelaine


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I volunteer to do a personal inspection and validate gender.


If it involves the farm I wanna watch!

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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 11:52:06 AM   
LaTigresse


Posts: 26123
Joined: 1/15/2006
Status: offline 		Woooooooohooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!

I have an audience too!


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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 3:15:31 PM   
junecleaver


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Joined: 4/6/2005
Status: offline 		I get the same e-mails. 

It's because you are pretty and 'get on your knees, bitch' did not work.  I've been accused of being a man as well. 


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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 3:20:03 PM   
PeanutTigerinBox


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Status: offline 		yeah I know that...

had a twat here last year who said something like "I know you are a male troll, am suprised that nobody else realised it so far ". What a smart woman that Schrapunzel war who considers herself as being so smart.  *snort*



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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 3:29:00 PM   
brainiacsub


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Joined: 11/11/2007
From: San Antonio, TX
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quote:

ORIGINAL: thishereboi

Well according to your profile, you are a worthless whore who is only concerned with his pleasure and it also states that your stupid. Add to that a picture of a hot young girl and yes you will have your mail box filled up with assholes in a NY minute. Most will be trying to get a quick blow job and the others will want to go into detail on how stupid and worthless you are. I doubt many will be looking for a meaningful relationship.

Now it is up to you if you want to continue to present yourself in this way or not. But if you do, don't be surprised it you attract some really strange people.


For once, boi, you and I agree on something.

Sugar, you are the poster child for 'clueless' and why I never apologize for ageism.

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RE: Being called a guy? - 8/5/2010 3:31:42 PM   
JstAnotherSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SugarCocaine

Apparently there is some kind of thing going around saying that I am underage, and I am not the girl in my pictures, and now I am a guy.  And apparently "A lot of Doms are saying you are a fake in the forums, ect, ect"

Is there anyone else that is having this problem?  I have a lot of friends here that not only know I am who I am, but I know them in real life.  I have even offered to speak to some of these people on the telephone, but they say that they won't give me their number because I might be a guy. 

Why would you care what some stranger on the internet thought about you?  Tell em you are a guy and have a bigger dick than they do.  Have fun!

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