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kiwisub12 -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/5/2010 3:37:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: brainiacsub


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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

Well according to your profile, you are a worthless whore who is only concerned with his pleasure and it also states that your stupid. Add to that a picture of a hot young girl and yes you will have your mail box filled up with assholes in a NY minute. Most will be trying to get a quick blow job and the others will want to go into detail on how stupid and worthless you are. I doubt many will be looking for a meaningful relationship.

Now it is up to you if you want to continue to present yourself in this way or not. But if you do, don't be surprised it you attract some really strange people.


For once, boi, you and I agree on something.

Sugar, you are the poster child for 'clueless' and why I never apologize for ageism.



Agreed.   Do you really think that a dominant wants "stupid" or "worthless"?
How about putting something in your profile that indicates what you want, and are all about.  Your profile reads like something a porn writer would come up with.
I rather think there is more to you than that.



ThundersCry -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/6/2010 8:59:39 AM)

Pffffttttttttttttt....

If your a guy I would still play with YOu <eg>
Screw what others say...

Its a public board...stick around long enough and you will see those in and living the *lifestyle* and those in it for the kink...

Each to their own :}

Good luck!



freyjasdottir -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/6/2010 12:35:34 PM)

FR

First off I love Pixie Stix and they are worse than sugar cocaine, OMG I could kill for a pixie stix. 

Second, every female and nearly every male on this site has got at least one boneheaded message from time to time.  Sometimes I play with them, most of the time I just block them.  Though as others said you may want to rethink your profile, mine isn't massively kink related which means if someone reads it then messages me it was something about me they were interested in not the line about me liking to snuff out candles with my ass.



vegetablelamb -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/6/2010 2:32:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: freyjasdottir

FR

First off I love Pixie Stix and they are worse than sugar cocaine, OMG I could kill for a pixie stix. 

Second, every female and nearly every male on this site has got at least one boneheaded message from time to time.  Sometimes I play with them, most of the time I just block them.  Though as others said you may want to rethink your profile, mine isn't massively kink related which means if someone reads it then messages me it was something about me they were interested in not the line about me liking to snuff out candles with my ass.



You liking what now? [;)]



jujubeeMB -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/6/2010 3:16:26 PM)

Your entire profile (except for the bit about being a stupid, worthless whore) is dedicated to being pissed off about being called a fake. And now your message board post is about the same thing. That all makes you sound like an incredibly negative, angry person, and all anyone has to go off is your profile, pictures and message board posts - are you sure that's how you want to present yourself? Other people have brought it up, but you might consider a profile and journal overhaul that is more about who you are and what you like and less about what people have done to piss you off.

That said, yes, we've all been called fakes. And a lot of the profiles that are "fake" (aka, a man pretending to be a woman) are profiles with a hot young girl whose profile is all about being a worthless whore. So you can see where you might be grouped into that category and written off.



Shadow-tiger -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/6/2010 3:24:58 PM)

Alright OP, here's the thing from my perspective.

I see plenty of nice eye candy. Cute girl, but nothing that says anything about you beyond the bit about being a whore. That's all fine, a girl on her knees being a little whore is plenty fun. But is there anything else to you? You're not expecting to be a cunt all the time are you? Even 24/7 slaves have personality!

Between the pictures and gender alone you're guaranteed to get acres of wankers sending you mail. And yet what are you after? Someone who'll take you seriously maybe? Or maybe you just want to be treated like dirt.. thing is, you're probably being passed on by those you might actually be interested in. I see profiles like that all the time, and usually hide them because if there's nothing about you beyond being a slut I'm not going to be interested.

That's just me though. Your mileage may vary, refunds subject to cavity inspection.



CalifChick -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/6/2010 4:29:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SugarCocaine

As for you, ranja, my name SugarCocaine is referring to pixie stix.  I really, really love those things.





Then why didn't you just name yourself.... Pixie_Stix? (pixiestix is taken)

Cali



sweetsub1957 -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/6/2010 5:00:25 PM)

Don't sweat it. Some people are just assholes. I've been accused of (1)being a guy, (2) being a fake, (3)being a sub wannabe, etc, etc, etc. because I wouldn't show my parts on cam for Them/send Them naked pics in the mail/give instant submission, etc. They say it cause They want to see your boobs and/or your girly parts on cam & if you don't do it They get pissed and resort to juvenile name-calling. What else can They do?

I do have to say though, calling yourself a worthless whore and a stupid cunt is kind of asking for assholes and jerks to flood your inbox. If I were looking, I certainly would not want to be involved w/ someone worthless and/or stupid. The worthless whore/stupid cunt stuff sounds like cheap porn. Instead of belittling yourself, be positive. [;)]

~sweetsub~



Twoshoes -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/6/2010 7:41:43 PM)

I don't mind the profile.

She didn't need to write 5 pages of text to demonstrate inexperience, low patience, casualness, assertiveness and willingness to participate in a fantasy geared towards objectification and use solely for a man's sexual pleasure.

No point calling people "fake" if you're a man. What's the worst thing that could happen? If some creepy guy shows up, just talk about sports and then send him on his merry make-believe way.



domiguy -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/6/2010 7:48:34 PM)

I am often referred to as Domi-"guy." It really pisses me off in that I know these Dommes and subs are only trying to get a glimpse of the Domidong.

I am not just a piece of meat. I have a feeling or two.



Bobanna -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/6/2010 11:00:46 PM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

I am often referred to as Domi-"guy." It really pisses me off in that I know these Dommes and subs are only trying to get a glimpse of the Domidong.

I am not just a piece of meat. I have a feeling or two.


domiguy ..you are right, I do just want to see your domidong.  How did you know?... have you been reading my diary?!?!  Dammit, I thought I hid it better than that !!



UniqueRaven -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/7/2010 8:07:41 AM)

There are men(?) on this site whose primary kink is verbally assaulting women in this way. When he is rejected, he'll launch into the "you're a man" schtick to get a rise out of you - i honestly think this sort of man gets off on making you squirm and seeing you get upset about it. i've even had one who made multiple profiles (as far as i could tell) to message me from so that it would appear that "the word was out" that i was a man. It bothered me for a bit until i figured it out, and then i was, hmm, whatever.

Don't sweat it, be who you are, and have fun. That's all that matters on here. If you want to change your profile according to the advice you've received in this forum, great, but if not, just enjoy the ride.

My best to you, and good luck. [:)]



OneMoreWaste -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/7/2010 11:22:14 PM)

It actually doesn't seem like all of the pictures in your profile are even of the same girl. I'd call BS too, but I'm an old-skool internet skeptic like that.



mwdsub4u -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/9/2010 8:59:41 AM)

If you go to the ask a Mistress, rooom there was a guy tring to pull off the mistress thing, only because he wanted his cock sucked, no photo, and saying you have to serve him before you can serve me! THAT IS FAKE, ALL BS.
you may want to change your profile, worthless and C--t do not work for me.............so you like verbal abuse, and degradation, so do i! i am bi-m and will do it for a Mistress.
The cam thing, or going to some other cam or personals web site is BULLSHIT, i will not do it, that is a game .
However should you be willing to get to know a person first.



sirsholly -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/14/2010 4:55:48 AM)

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Apparently there is some kind of thing going around saying that I am underage, and I am not the girl in my pictures, and now I am a guy.
Come on...i doubt you are the main topic of the DomGrapeVine. If you are getting cmails such as you claim, ignore them and block the sender. 



nephandi -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/14/2010 5:47:59 AM)

Greetings

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Apparently there is some kind of thing going around saying that I am underage, and I am not the girl in my pictures, and now I am a guy.  And apparently "A lot of Doms are saying you are a fake in the forums, ect, ect"


I had this problem once to. There was a crazy girl that insisted I had another account where I claimed to be a ten years older and  60 kilos lighter person. She based this on the fact that the owner of that profile and I used the same color for our profile text and where from the same city. No matter how many times I told her she was wrong she went on an on about me being fake. It was hurtful but really all one can do when pepole act like idiots is to ignore them.

I wish you well



LaTigresse -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/14/2010 6:10:38 AM)

Welllllllllll, the 'stupid whore' is now under consideration, so it must have worked well for her.

I await her next thread about 'fake lying Doms!'. Or something of that nature......[:D]



nephandi -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/14/2010 6:19:24 AM)

Greetings

I to reacted to the stupid whore descriptions in the OP's profile, but many pepole are into that so I do not have a problem with it, I would nto put it in my profile, but I see no problem with her doing it.

I wish you well.



Kana -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/14/2010 7:46:36 AM)

I feel so outdated.
Here I am referring to others as "Dude" and the vernacular has shifted, passing me by.
Not cool, Dooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooood



juliaoceania -> RE: Being called a guy? (8/14/2010 9:05:31 AM)

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I have a feeling or two.


Which is it, "a" feeling, or "two"?



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