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Brief Question - 8/5/2010 10:33:14 AM

callmecapn

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Not in this topic at all but did not see a Technical Assistance forum. SO

Do "Hide User"'s expire?

Meaning I peruse the profiles looking for someone appealing AND real, and everyone I am not interested in I hide... Recently I've been seeing repeats of previous profiles.

Thank you for any assistance or answers.

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RE: Brief Question - 8/5/2010 10:35:10 AM

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not that I am aware of, but there are site issues too. my bets, and this happens alot, is they are the same magazine pictures over and over, and folks, some honest, some not so have multiple profiles using the same 'sorta' real pictures over and over.

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RE: Brief Question - 8/5/2010 10:43:02 AM

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Ahh, of course. I thought it would be something like that. I'm starting to tend only towards people with "candid" photos, an update, and at least a believable spiel.

Gone are they days believing I will find an 18 year old Taiwanese under 100lbs with 10 years of experience. Sigh... :D

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RE: Brief Question - 8/5/2010 10:56:42 AM

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grins welcome to the forums. Have fun wading through all of the profiles and enjoy your time on here. By joining in on the discussions here you get to meet a whole lot of nice people ...alas none of them are 18 year old Taiwanese people under 100lb with ten years of experience

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RE: Brief Question - 8/5/2010 10:59:35 AM

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Good deal, new to the lifestyle so might as well jump in on some discussions and find out where I sit at on the dom/master : slave/sub scale. Am I the only one who thinks there is a HUGE difference between Dom/Sub and Slave/Master? Or the only one who thinks you can be a mentor, not a master and have the same experience? This stuff is so new to me, I'll be posting a lot shortly :)

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RE: Brief Question - 8/5/2010 11:02:44 AM

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Thats all over the place, as mentor and as master I get out after getting blowjobs, so it looks the same to me from all over, and I CANNOT (thats right expose right here) tell by eveidence of only real good blowjobs whether she is slave or submissive

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RE: Brief Question - 8/5/2010 11:08:04 AM

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Sexual is one aspect, I agree that a slave and a sub are roughly the same in the sack, But i mean in terms of lifestyle and etc. On the one hand I want a girl that I could design from the ground up. Change every aspect of her into exactly what i want, and that would be a Slave... But on the other I am not the type to punish or abuse, which it seems the vast majority of slaves are looking for. Trying to figure out if I need to sacrifice my moral standing on females in order to get what I want... Willing to bet in the hundred-thousands of profile on this site there's maybe 3 girls matching what i'm looking for right now.

If anyone cares to comment, did you start out with an experience like this? I'm a good guy and a sweetheart, and I want a slave... Did you have to compromise some part of yourself in order to keep her happy as well?

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RE: Brief Question - 8/5/2010 1:17:01 PM

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I think you're more likely to find a girl who matches what you want than you are to find a girl who's willing to let you change her into what you want.

Why go through the bother of completely changing someone when chances are there's someone that's already a close enough match as to be compatible?

If a prospective dominant tells me he or she wants to change who I am, I say no thanks and keep looking.

As for the difference between a sub and a slave, that seems to be too subjective to pinpoint an accurate definition beyond "one has more limits than the other." And that, by itself, is a very subjective description.

Just meet people, treat everyone like human beings and not labels, make new friends, and you're likely to find interesting people who'll want more than friendship. Just like in vanilla dating, most sane, stable women appreciate honesty, respect, and politeness.

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