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Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/5/2010 11:27:13 AM   
subinchico


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Status: offline 		Would you be disgusted, get excited, have no reaction? Public shoe licking.

This inspired by Peon’s question about “have the nerve”. The last two Wednesdays I’ve somehow had 2 different females rest their shod feet on my legs and I’ve licked their shoes and got no reaction until I pointed it out (I start out nonchalantly but then get slightly into it while talking to them).  I was surprised, to say the least, that I didn’t get a “ew gross”!


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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/5/2010 11:41:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		You shouldn't talk with your mouth full. Nothing worse than a guy licking something and talking at the same time. You really should pay more attention.




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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/5/2010 11:43:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		I once had a woman who grabbed my crotch in publicu. I dropped her instantly. If the women did not drop you or at least discipline you for licking in public, then they have no class.

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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/5/2010 11:57:28 AM   
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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/5/2010 12:46:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subinchico

Would you be disgusted, get excited, have no reaction? Public shoe licking.

This inspired by Peon’s question about “have the nerve”. The last two Wednesdays I’ve somehow had 2 different females rest their shod feet on my legs and I’ve licked their shoes and got no reaction until I pointed it out (I start out nonchalantly but then get slightly into it while talking to them).  I was surprised, to say the least, that I didn’t get a “ew gross”!


I would say that not everybody in a Taco Bell is as observant as in other public places.

(I figured that context was just as likely (almost spelled 'lickly') as any other from the cryptic OP)

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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/5/2010 1:30:08 PM   
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What Steven said.

Agreed.

There's a line between those things that aren't necessarily kink (such as helping a woman on with her shoe) and those things which leave no doubt (such as licking her shoe). 

I'll do something of a repeat as to what I said on peon's thread.  My personal style is to conduct My activities with style and grace.  Probably something lacking in the scenario of the OP if the shoe licking was done in public.


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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/5/2010 1:43:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

There's a line between those things that aren't necessarily kink (such as helping a woman on with her shoe) and those things which leave no doubt (such as licking her shoe). 

I'll do something of a repeat as to what I said on peon's thread.  My personal style is to conduct My activities with style and grace.  Probably something lacking in the scenario of the OP if the shoe licking was done in public.



I concur. Foisting my kink on innocent bystanders in public venues that are clearly inappropriate for such has zero appeal.

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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/5/2010 1:50:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am not a fan of Public Displays of Affection to begin with.  But to force my kink upon innocent bi-standers without their consent is a hard limit.  I would hope any slave of mine would recognise this and never put me in a position where it would occur.

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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/5/2010 1:50:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wait Wait... The scenario is some stranger comes up to me somewhere and, without asking me, ends up licking my shoes???

For me, at least, not only would I bounce up out of my chair with a WTF!!! look on my face, but it's likely I would never go back to the group/venue/whatever where this occurred.

NOW, would I support someone else's right to have their feet licked by anyone and everyone in most venues... vanilla or kink. Yes I would. This is another of those places where I am OK with other people foisting their kink off on me because I value the kinkiness whether or not I share in it. It's a diversity thing.

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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/5/2010 2:53:34 PM   
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NOW, would I support someone else's right to have their feet licked by anyone and everyone in most venues... vanilla or kink. Yes I would. This is another of those places where I am OK with other people foisting their kink off on me because I value the kinkiness whether or not I share in it. It's a diversity thing.


I spent time in Starbucks today and I can tell you it would be highly inappropriate in that environment. I don't deny the individual's desire to engage, but there are situations that really cross the line and I can't apply carte blanche without a clear understanding of what that means.

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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/5/2010 3:59:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		Are you nuts?!!! In public in general that is not the place to play in my opinion...I have to agree with the others.

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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/5/2010 6:29:43 PM   
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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/5/2010 7:00:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: porcelaine
I spent time in Starbucks today and I can tell you it would be highly inappropriate in that environment. I don't deny the individual's desire to engage, but there are situations that really cross the line and I can't apply carte blanche without a clear understanding of what that means.
I didn't give carte blanche. In general I use the law of the land to decide what is acceptable and not in such situations. I've never read a law saying you can't lick someone else's shoes in public. To my knowledge, it is legal everywhere in the US. On top of that, I can't imagine myself having a difficult time explaining such a scenario to my underage son or daughter.

If I start going around making up rule about what is and is not acceptable, then how am I any different than the moral majority folks? I live in a democracy (give or take). If I strongly felt that something shouldn't be happening, I don't whine about it. I enact legislation.

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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/5/2010 7:06:30 PM   
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If I start going around making up rule about what is and is not acceptable, then how am I any different than the moral majority folks? I live in a democracy (give or take). If I strongly felt that something shouldn't be happening, I don't whine about it. I enact legislation.


Everyone has a personal code of ethics. Tolerance of kink doesn't mean I have to agree with everything I see and read. Nor will I pretend to do so either. I'm certain a man doing that in my neighborhood would be asked to leave. And this depends on the venue and time of day of course. Perhaps it would fly elsewhere.

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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/5/2010 7:13:24 PM   
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Everyone has a personal code of ethics. Tolerance of kink doesn't mean I have to agree with everything I see and read. Nor will I pretend to do so either. I'm certain a man doing that in my neighborhood would be asked to leave. And this depends on the venue and time of day of course. Perhaps it would fly elsewhere.
Agreed, but this has nothing to do with "tolerance of kink". It is just plain tolerance in general. What next? Do we start kicking people with tattoos out of places? I personally am hard pressed to come up with a compelling reason why I would frown on this other than it bothers my sensibilities. Compare that to having sex on the table at the Starbucks. I can, in fact, write clearly and succinctly why I think that's a bad idea.

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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/5/2010 7:51:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subinchico

Would you be disgusted, get excited, have no reaction? Public shoe licking.

This inspired by Peon’s question about “have the nerve”. The last two Wednesdays I’ve somehow had 2 different females rest their shod feet on my legs and I’ve licked their shoes and got no reaction until I pointed it out (I start out nonchalantly but then get slightly into it while talking to them).  I was surprised, to say the least, that I didn’t get a “ew gross”!


If this was done to me without my permission, it would be like having some man act like a dog who humps my leg.  I have a thing about permission being given...and not having someone feel like he can freely violate my personal space by orally f*ing my shoes like he has every right to do whatever he wants, whenever he wants.
 
My reaction to seeing a guy licking someone's shoes in a public place...would depend.  If he looked unwilling like he lost a bet, my sense of humor would kick in...and yes, I would have explained that the guy looks like he lost a bet to my kid, who would have been fascinated and verrrrrry careful about making bets in the future.  If the man was deeply involved in making out with the shoe...I would probably behave like an asshat and do what I do to people who are indulging in heavy foreplay in my presence and in front of kids etc.  I would suggest that they get a motel room.
 
I don't know how your friends behaved afterward...and I mean days and weeks afterward, not at the time when they are trying to be polite and not make a scene.  Were some cool about it?  Have any of them put their feet in your lap again?
 
It's okay to have a shoe or foot fetish...just be sure your partner is aware of this and consents. 
 
By protecting vanillas from what we do...by NOT forcing them to be part of our scenes...we protect our own selves too.  I want vanilla friends who know I'm kinky to respect that I have self control and limits, that I won't do something inappropriate in front of their wee ones, their boss or great grandmother.

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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/5/2010 8:55:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: leadership527

Agreed, but this has nothing to do with "tolerance of kink". It is just plain tolerance in general. What next? Do we start kicking people with tattoos out of places? I personally am hard pressed to come up with a compelling reason why I would frown on this other than it bothers my sensibilities. Compare that to having sex on the table at the Starbucks. I can, in fact, write clearly and succinctly why I think that's a bad idea.


I could call it common sense but someone would argue differently. I agree with the earlier sentiments and it isn't something I'd do just for kicks. I have to take my environment into consideration. Just because I engage in activities doesn't mean the person sitting beside me should be party to them. There's an element of courtesy that I can't ignore.

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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/6/2010 9:26:54 AM   
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I just think you have to look around you. If you are at a play site and everyone there is aware then great. If you are a public dining place and you do it...probably not appropriate.

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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/7/2010 12:17:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think there is a big difference initially in public shoe KISSING and LICKING. There was a time (when my knees worked) when i dropped to my knees in the airport to kiss Master's shoe after we had been apart a long time. It was all over in a moment and as far as we could tell, only one person noticed and commented "well that's a different way to say hello!" It was at 2am, there weren't any children around at that hour, and i made sure i was standing over to one side at the welcome area, rather than dead centre where everyone would have noticed. That was as far as i (and He!) would be willing to go in a vanilla public environment. To Me the C of SSC includes it not being foisted onto a non-consenting public. Licking to Me implies something that lasts longer and is more overtly a sexual fetish, and I don't think that belongs in a public place. I'd also be saying "Get a room!"

On a different note though, I have to agree a bit with Jeff in that I wouldn't raise a ruckus over it, and I would find it a lot less offensive to look at than some people with lots of tatts or piercings or incredibly revealing and inappropriate dress ... or the behaviour of numerous small children for that matter!

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RE: Warning Public Shoe kissing: Your reaction ? - 8/7/2010 10:57:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subinchico
This inspired by Peon’s question about “have the nerve”. The last two Wednesdays I’ve somehow had 2 different females rest their shod feet on my legs and I’ve licked their shoes and got no reaction until I pointed it out (I start out nonchalantly but then get slightly into it while talking to them).  I was surprised, to say the least, that I didn’t get a “ew gross”!


You start out nonchalantly licking their shoes, and they didn't react until you pointed it out?  Dude, you're like a foot fetish ninja!

I have three levels of concern for other people's public behavior:
Does it harm me?
Does it cost me anything?
Does it interfere with my ability to enjoy myself or conduct my business?

Since the answer to all three would be "no", I say lick away!


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