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RE: Am I Being Unreasonable? - 9/14/2010 5:54:46 AM

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Lots of good advice being thrown here.
I just wanna add a few things.
There are no rules in This Thing That We Do. What works for one doesn't for another. That doesn't make either one right or wrong, it just means that they are different and seek different things. This means that you have the freedom to find whatever it is you desire and the capacity to make your fantasies reality.
You don't have to bend, you don't have to compromise. What you, almost assuredly, will have to do is seek the needle within the haystack, that one (or two, or ten, whatever your kink is) with whom you click. In the meantime, take it easy. Don't rush. Use the same common sense in looking for a bound relationship that you would use in any other relationship on line. Let things happen organically. It's my experience that when the right one comes along, things click and instead of everything being processed, actions are natural and things flow.
That's how you know it's right.
Good luck to you.

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RE: Am I Being Unreasonable? - 9/14/2010 1:48:50 PM

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Doms who introduce themselves by giving you commands are doing you a huge favor.

They're politely and clearly identifying themselves as posers right away so that there will be no confusion. Delete and wait for someone secure enough to be polite.

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RE: Am I Being Unreasonable? - 9/14/2010 1:58:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: SexyBlackMan2

You have to be able to trust anyone you give your submission to. Wanting to get to know someone is not unreasonable.

This is a good point; however, the reverse is also true. I cannot tell you how many sub/slaves I've had who message me offering immediate submission without so much as a how-do-you-do (and half the time, without reading my profile to see who the heck they're even talking to. *tsk tsk*).
This is not a rant. Some folks are just here for a wank, but some are not. Reality is like that, and here at CM, we catch a good cross-section.
Subs/slaves are people too, always and no matter what. Know what you want, believe in it, don't settle for or submit to less, and what you want will find you.
The best of luck to the OP..

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RE: Am I Being Unreasonable? - 9/14/2010 2:09:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Putting out aint ownership.

just sayin

Of course BUT if she not any good in the sack...who wants to own that????

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RE: Am I Being Unreasonable? - 9/14/2010 2:14:50 PM

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Dont know how to train?

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RE: Am I Being Unreasonable? - 9/14/2010 8:27:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Dont know how to train?

LOL Ya gotta know the basics at least

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RE: Am I Being Unreasonable? - 9/14/2010 8:54:02 PM

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I wouldnt know... lol... i never had any complaints.. and lots of repeat performances

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