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sfguy1 -> Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/9/2010 12:21:12 AM)
I have been asked by a Domme who expects to have both a male slave and a female slave, whether the Domme would likely have better success in securing her female slave by the Domme directly herself. Or might the Domme get a better result by having her male slave to be charged to obtain the female slave? Obviously the Domme would save time by having the male slave obtain the female slave. But the Domme is asking a different question: Would She likely get a better result by having the male slave obtain the female slave, or by having the Domme directly attracting the female slave? The Domme also asks whether the male slave should obtain the female slave for himself but then transfer the slave to the Domme -- that a real slave would accept the transfer. What is your advice here?

thishereboi -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/9/2010 4:01:59 AM)
quote: Would She likely get a better result by having the male slave obtain the female slave, or by having the Domme directly attracting the female slave? If she were pursuing me, she would have better luck doing it herself.

LadyPact -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/9/2010 8:02:43 AM)
OP, I may be the suspicious type, but the original question makes it sound like you are about to set up a female Dominant profile for yourself to try to attract women. I'm guessing that is what other women are going to think, too.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/9/2010 9:54:55 AM)
Wow, a dom who can't speak for herswelf AND needs a pimp. Go figure!

LaTigresse -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/9/2010 11:31:26 AM)
I knew I was doing something wrong. Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Gggggggggggggggeeeeeeeeee Ddddddddddddeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee........... Orrrrrr..........maybe I should sic Ward or Domiguy onto that for me.....hmmmmmmmmm

porcelaine -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/9/2010 11:34:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sfguy1 The Domme also asks whether the male slave should obtain the female slave for himself but then transfer the slave to the Domme -- that a real slave would accept the transfer. What is your advice here? I've never encountered a female dominant that poses questions like these. But they're typical fare for men. Just a thought. ~porcelaine

LadyConstanze -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/9/2010 2:11:05 PM)
As a dominant female, why would I let a slave "obtain" a female slave to then transfer it to me? Why wouldn't I do it myself and pick the female that appeals to me? I think LP might have hit the nail on the proverbial head...

SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/9/2010 4:58:47 PM)
Why on earth would I trust a man to choose a slave for me? It defies logic. Does he know what I want/need in a female slave? I hardly think so. I'll do my own slave hunting, thank you.

Andalusite -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/9/2010 7:46:35 PM)
Slaves generally aren't transferable, though they may be willing to be shared. If I find a boyfriend, and he's open to my still playing with my femsub playpartner, she's open to the possibility of her and I co-topping him, or him and I co-topping her. She and her husband would prefer to talk with him first, and would almost certainly do so before playing together a second time, but unless they had a specific objection, it's fine. In general, I suspect she'd have an easier time than you finding a woman who wants to submit to her.

Tantriqu -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/9/2010 7:53:37 PM)
Dear Penthouse: I never thought it would happen to me, but . . . And the answer to the original question, 'most effective way a Domme can attract a female slave' would be my bizarro-world experience: post a profile that says, 'straight single men only'. Argh!

sweetsub1957 -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/9/2010 11:20:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact OP, I may be the suspicious type, but the original question makes it sound like you are about to set up a female Dominant profile for yourself to try to attract women. I'm guessing that is what other women are going to think, too. That's what I'm thinkin.

MadameMarque -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/10/2010 1:28:35 AM)
She asked you because? You're a guy who knows a thing or two about how a dominant woman procures a female slave? Great! What did you tell her? And she didn't post this herself because? She, unfortunately, does not read or write, preferring her slaves to do this for her, along with choosing and test driving her female slaves for her...no, that's not it? quote: The Domme also asks whether the male slave should obtain the female slave for himself but then transfer the slave to the Domme -- that a real slave would accept the transfer. Ye-NO. Nooo o oo o --o. No-o-ho-ho-ho. Any person you can convince of this for any length of time, needs to be under someone's protection. Anyone exploiting her naivete' should be dealt with by a gathering of her big, unhappy family members. quote: What is your advice here? Stronger character development? That fictitious domme really wants to be written smarter.

wittynamehere -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/10/2010 1:32:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sfguy1 I have been asked by a Domme who expects to have both a male slave and a female slave, whether the Domme would likely have better success in securing her female slave by the Domme directly herself. Or might the Domme get a better result by having her male slave to be charged to obtain the female slave? Obviously the Domme would save time by having the male slave obtain the female slave. But the Domme is asking a different question: Would She likely get a better result by having the male slave obtain the female slave, or by having the Domme directly attracting the female slave? The Domme also asks whether the male slave should obtain the female slave for himself but then transfer the slave to the Domme -- that a real slave would accept the transfer. What is your advice here? That was a very awkward read. Anyway, I think she'd have more success doing it herself, unless the male slave knew her even better than she knew herself, which I hope isn't the case. There are TONS of female subs looking for dommes. I have the front page set to only show female subs, and going through the list, 3/4 are lesbian or are bisexual stating they're looking for a domme. Okay, so most of them are fake, sure. But still, it looks like there are more sub female profiles looking for dommes than there are looking for doms.

Madame4a -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/12/2010 8:02:08 AM)
I'm glad someone followed this... once I realized what I thought he meant.. my first thought was.. "buddy, get a new one... " but now that I've read other responses.. I'd say.. yep.. LP called it.. no surprise there

domiguy -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/12/2010 8:16:54 AM)
I am not quite so sure the guy is a troll. I am not saying that Dommes will operate in the same fashion as their male counterparts but there are plenty of Doms running around that after acquiring a sub will immediately send her out into the fray to locate her "sister slave." I think these guys are pussies. In many cases they have allowed their sub to control the situation because the thought of a Domiwich is so compelling that they will abdicate all control to the sub just for the shot at a few twats, tits and assholes. In other cases the Dom is such a weasel that he doesn't think he possesses the stones to pull it off himself. He figures he has already duped one woman and what are the odds that another brain damaged woman lives in the vacinity. I love the profiles of all of these stupid women that are in search of a sister slave. I hope they all fall into an active volcano (unless they are my subs). Or upon finding their sister slave they immediately ditch their bitch ass Dom for the wonderful world of khakis and sandals.

CeriseNin -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/12/2010 8:33:08 AM)
This made me laugh so hard, especially considering that, from what I've seen in my limited time here, the women searching for a sister slave were searching for a dom for all of one day before writing in their profiles that they're now owned by UberDom4U.

Drifa -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/12/2010 5:47:05 PM)
As a lesbian submissive, I'm not going to be interested in the man in any way, shape or form just by inclination. I'm sure not going to be willing to have some guy pick me up because he thinks his wife, girlfriend, or domme would like to help him fulfill that "every boy's dream" of hot sex with two women, doubly so since most of the time it's the man's fantasy and not the woman's at all, they just hope she'll go along with it when presented with it as a fait accompli. <smartass on>And, for that matter, I am unsure why a domme would need other slaves if they had me! How much service, much less extremely talented oral gratification, can one hot domme stand? </smartass off>

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/12/2010 6:52:34 PM)
Oh Drifa, I wish I were a lesbian!! But alas, there is no ON switch for that...

Dnomyar -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/12/2010 7:52:57 PM)
LH I see that you have been listening to me to much. Drifa is good looking.

Drifa -> RE: Most Effective Way for Domme to Attract Female Slave (8/14/2010 9:46:42 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar LH I see that you have been listening to me to much. Drifa is good looking. /blush Why, thank you kindly!

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