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porcelaine -> RE: Opinions on a truely submissive sub (8/9/2010 9:06:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Why would a submissive not have their own opinions?  You say this as though, before the Dominant came along, they were just some mindless drone.  Never a thought in their head.

I don't expect anyone to always agree with everything.  What I do expect is obedience once a decision has been made, even if he has a different opinion.



I don't get off on what's truly submissive or not. I've encountered dominant personalities, willful types, and supposed doormats that all had problems on the kneel. There are positive and negative aspects for each that are largely dependent on the person they're with.

I prefer someone with a propensity for obedience that's malleable.

~porcelaine




joether -> RE: Opinions on a truely submissive sub (8/10/2010 2:12:41 AM)

I'll throw my $0.02 down...

I've had Dommes in the past tell me, and on seperate occasions, that have stated "I dont want to serve, but that I need to serve'". That when serving Another, my life simply 'goes' in the positive direction. I can accomplish, I can create, and I can do more things. Its not merely a confidence builder or power supply. I have not really thought on what it is, but just understanding it exists. Nor do I take, serving a Domme for granted. Just to serve one, is an amazing feeling. Likewise, Dommes, whom I'm around, seem to become better as a person. They enjoy life more, laugh a deeper louder. Yes, there are moments when an arguement arises. And its handled as adults would, not as Domme to doormat.

Every Domme has known I'm a native New Englander, and arguing politics for the hell of arguing politics....is in the blood. Or in the water....

Just don't wear a yankies symbol, as I'll have to safeword....

Still, a true submissive, is one, that is passionately submissive. Its in their words, their tone, and their eyes. The way they handle issues, and tasks. That they are simply ready, to handle something, without question when need be. They do, because they truly want the Domme to be happy in life. It is actually, really hard to be a true submissive. Because, NOT, serving a Domme....is crushing. Try to imagine a high speed camera, recording jell-o being shot from a tube at 80 mph and hitting a wall dead on. Yeah, THATS, what it really feels like, not to serve a Domme, as a true submissive.

Maybe someday, I'll meet a nice Domme. It is, really nice, to getting encouraging words from a Domme from time to time. But to really serve One....now THAT....would be something wonderful to experience again...




Steponme73 -> RE: Opinions on a truely submissive sub (8/10/2010 9:55:43 AM)

It must be a full moon...




LadyNTrainer -> RE: Opinions on a truely submissive sub (8/10/2010 10:26:15 AM)

Your premise is missing two key words here, and those words are "to whom".   There is no right answer that will apply to everyone and their personal relationships or preferences.




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