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MistressTonya2u -> RE: harrassment (8/9/2010 8:27:41 PM)

I don't really care who views Me.
There is one sub who makes new profiles and tries to contact me all the time.
Every time he does it and send me another message, I just block him.
I don't reply to his messages because it just feeds into what he is looking for, some type (any type) of interaction with me.
My advice is to ignore the people who are viewing you, if it bothers you.
Let's be realistic, people are going to look at what they want.



sweetsub1957 -> RE: harrassment (8/9/2010 11:14:29 PM)

~FR~
Well, I perved the profile, and I really don't see anything special about it. Also, referring to the last part of the essay portion, WHY would a lesbian wan't to be trained in oral on a man? Maybe it's just me, but I don't get that. AND, I have some of the same people look at my profile over & over again, and I don't get my panties in a wad over it. It's not worth it. haha

~sweetsub~



reynardfox -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 3:53:27 AM)

See it as a compliment. There is only one thing worse than being viewed too much, and that is not being viewed at all. They can't actually reach through the monitor and touch you, can they?



lally2 -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 4:10:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

~FR~
Well, I perved the profile, and I really don't see anything special about it. Also, referring to the last part of the essay portion, WHY would a lesbian wan't to be trained in oral on a man? Maybe it's just me, but I don't get that. AND, I have some of the same people look at my profile over & over again, and I don't get my panties in a wad over it. It's not worth it. haha

~sweetsub~


when i read the profile i noticed that there had clearly been a problem with all of those hunnies expecting fucky-fucky with MasterTim - a perfectly reasonable hope for any sexually vibrant woman id say - but fucky-fucky with MasterTim isnt on the menu - so, theyve opted to find a lesbian who wont want fucky-fucky with MasterTim - what i cant imagine is how theyre ever going to find a lesbian who will want to be trained to have their mouth ready for the one part of a mans anatomy they really dont want to put in their mouths.  its a stretch for sure.




PeanutTigerinBox -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 4:25:31 AM)


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ORIGINAL: windchymes

Geez.....this thread reminds me of two kids sitting in the backseat of the car and one of them starts yelling, "Mom, he's looking at me!!!"


and guess what....he did it AGAIN [8|]

I also know a couple from over here who regular checks my profile but so far haven't had time left to actually be bothered about...



thishereboi -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 4:35:49 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: Hischelle

Is there anyone that can assist me on preventing someone on this website from coming to my profile?? There is a couple on here that insist on viewing my profile even though i've supposedly "blocked" them?? Could someone let me know??


Now LOOKING is harassment?!?!?!?

Well fuck.........I need to do more harassing.

Seriously.........if you don't like people looking then remove what they are looking at. Although, if they liked what they were looking at enough, they've probably already copied it and saved it.




I just looked at the profile and there is nothing there worth stealing. Personally I think the OP hasn't gotten anywhere in her search for another little play thing for her master and is hoping to drum up some interest this way. But she is an expert on damn near everything, so if it really is a problem, she should be able to come up with a solution on her own.



thishereboi -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 4:40:03 AM)


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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

Shhh, I am busy trying to find a lesbian who will give her master oral service!



Good luck with that one. Now if you were looking for one to make you happy......



thishereboi -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 4:43:32 AM)


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ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

~FR~
Well, I perved the profile, and I really don't see anything special about it. Also, referring to the last part of the essay portion, WHY would a lesbian wan't to be trained in oral on a man? Maybe it's just me, but I don't get that. AND, I have some of the same people look at my profile over & over again, and I don't get my panties in a wad over it. It's not worth it. haha

~sweetsub~



Well this is just a guess, but maybe because her master thinks it would be really hot to say he got a lesbian to go down on him?



CaringandReal -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 4:44:49 AM)

Two people gave you an accurate response to your question, the rest are either ignorant, having too much fun ridculuing your question, or both. (shakes head)

The correct information was the best you can do is click "hide" on the unwanted viewer's profile. When you do that you do not see them in your list of who's viewed me. It does not, however, prevent them from reading your public profile. There is no way, alas, to selectively hide it, although there are other sites where that is possible.

If you've been on such a site in the past, it's natural to expect or look for that feature here, you are used to using it, after all. And oh yes, there are plenty of circumstances where not wanting certain people to see your profile is valid. A couple people have addressed that as well, which I was glad to see.



Jeffff -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 4:48:56 AM)

Yes, how can those insensitive bastards mock someone who complains about having a public profile viewed!



mistoferin -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 4:50:26 AM)

Unfortunately, we don't have any control over what other people do. I must say though that I am surprised that you even have time to notice them looking at your profile. Strict adherence to those "127 Slave Rules" must surely occupy the vast majority of your free time.



DarkSteven -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 5:10:02 AM)

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

~FR~
Well, I perved the profile, and I really don't see anything special about it. Also, referring to the last part of the essay portion, WHY would a lesbian wan't to be trained in oral on a man? Maybe it's just me, but I don't get that. AND, I have some of the same people look at my profile over & over again, and I don't get my panties in a wad over it. It's not worth it. haha

~sweetsub~



Well this is just a guess, but maybe because her master thinks it would be really hot to say he got a lesbian to go down on him?


I guess that it's better than saying that he got a straight woman to go down on him, and she turned les immediately after.



thishereboi -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 5:12:13 AM)

Good point[8D]



marie2 -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 5:12:50 AM)

I wouldn't classify it as harrassment, but it can be irritating when someone keeps doing it over and over.

Of course our profiles are going to get views, just I like view those of others, but for a while there was a guy from the boards, who would constantly view me; he finally stopped after I obscurely bitched about it on the forums one day to give him the message without naming him of course.

Then there was another one (not from the boards) who kept viewing me maybe once or twice a week. I guess it's a pet peeve of mine or something, but I found it irritating to keep seeing his big imposing avatar on my viewed page.

There's nothing in my profile except the fact that I'm here only to chat on the boards. What is the sense of continuously re-reading that once or twice a week? It struck me as some kind of coy game. I finally wrote him, told him I wasn't interested in him and that his incessant views were irritating me. He hasn't viewed me since.



laineyjade -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 5:13:09 AM)

I would unblock the annoying couple, and begin sending them extremely disgusting requests for what you want them to do to you. Make sure what you say is horrible enough to be seared into their memory cells and make them wish they'd never heard of you because now they can't stop retching and can't think of the words "nursing home" without wishing they hadn't. They are then almost guaranteed to block YOU. Voila, problem solved.



CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 5:13:16 AM)

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~fast reply~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
 
My only regret with people perving my complete profile is that I cannot sticky in place some who have looked in the past.  They will get lost.  Some people stopped coming to the message boards and I dunno, I kinda like seeing their username still there.  I'll admit that some I keep cuz I like perving the pix, lol.  Eye candy... 
 
I have some annoying people perv my profile almost every blessed day.  The same people.  Who never even say hello, usually.  Whenever I have to go away for a week or two on vacation, I had better remember to hide my profile or I will lose all my favorite people from my list.  Some of us would never whine about having our complete profile perved if some could be stuck in place, or if we could click about a dozen and then make them all disappear at the same time instead of doing it...one...at...a...time. <sighs>
 
As for the OP...maybe try unblocking this couple and send them a friendly note thanking them for their interest in your profile but that you feel you are incompatible...or maybe your Dom will do this if you let him know this is bothering you.  I know it's kinda scary to feel stalked...there were some good suggestions made in this thread though.  Sift through and find those, and good luck.
 
Ty to whoever suggested trying "Hide" as well as block.  I might try that on people who annoy me, lol.  It's not really their fault they're annoying; if I had a permanent sticky option they wouldn't be...



thishereboi -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 9:35:58 AM)

When I look at someone's profile, it is almost always because I have read a post on here. Sometimes because I think they made a good point and am curios, sometimes because they said something really stupid and I am checking their age. Just depends on the thread. If it has anything to do with meeting people, I will check to see the location to see if they are close enough to recommend a munch or party. 



NorthernGent -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 11:37:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: stef

MOM!  Make that couple stop looking at meeeeeeeeee!

Good god, are you really 44 years old?

~stef



Stalking? Selective walking? It's a fine line.

Be glad of some attention...even if they do want to open you up like a fish porter gutting a freshly caught haddock.....




sexyred1 -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 11:46:51 AM)

This topic is so silly....for god's sake...public profiles get to be viewed PUBLICALLY, duh.

I have tons of people who view me constantly. If they are not saying anything to me, what the hell do I care if they want to check me out? If I cared, I would have no profile and photos to view.

Oy vey....[&o]



mnottertail -> RE: harrassment (8/10/2010 12:08:13 PM)

some of you voluputously lipped, big titted cocksuckers better start harrassing my ass, or there will be hell to pay.



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