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AQuietSimpleMan -> RE: What is a Munch?? (8/12/2010 9:58:39 AM)
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ORIGINAL: travisaj1986
A Quiet Simple Man,
The bigger question is why you felt the need to be so negative, as well as condescending in your response to my question. Plenty of other people on here some with more experience, and def. more tact managed to answer my question constructively while leaving out the sarcasm and negativity that permeated your response. Didn't your mother ever tell you the only dumb question is one you don't ask? And if you can't say anything nice, then shut your mouth.
I had a rough day yesterday, this is not an excuse if anything it is simply the reason I had less patience for lazy people than usual.
You are Lazy. My Mother taught me that when you have a question there are many different avenues to seek the answer in, unless in a education based understanding, like a classroom, seeking the answer for yourself with the tools that are freely give to you is expected of anyone who is not looking for someone to do the work for them.
When I asked my Mother what a word ment she would hand me a dictionary and tell me to look it up. When I asked my Mother what China was like she would hand me the "C" Encyclopedia. See she had the answer but so did these books.... it is the nature of Research. Asking a question where the answer is so easily found by using a search engine will open you to receiving specific information that does not always apply. In this thread you got Opinion, not really Fact or History. Not to mention with the exception of the one person who had been to a Vancover Munch you could not be sure that the information you received would for certain apply to your query.
Did you bother to try and find out how many times this question has been asked and answered on this board? How you ignored the work done by other people by expecting everyone to just do your research for you.
It is Lazy to do this. When you can no longer find the answers on your own, when you no longer have outlets to find the information you need, that is when you ask questions.
You quote that the only stupid question is the one that is left unasked, you do realize that is a quote about giving up right? When exhausting all other avenues and then not bothering to ask the question to someone who might know. That is stupid. You chose to fastforward to the end of that process.
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ORIGINAL: travisaj1986
You need to think a little more at what you are saying and how you say it before you document it online for the whole world to see.
I am aware, I don't value my worth by what others think of me, nor do I think that the words typed on an online forum give enough dimension to what a person is saying and that more offten than not people assume what you are saying rather than finding out.
My comment was actually me trying to be nice to you, I know you don't see it that way, but the truth of the matter is if you are new in this lifestyle you are going to be hearing a LOT of words that you have never heard before and if you ask what it means everytime you will eventually have conflicting information from people you know nothing about, but doing your own research you can at very least find and learn at your own speed and as I said USUALLY without the Snark.
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ORIGINAL: travisaj1986
Additionally, I will continue to ask questions to things I do not know the answer to, as well as garner any type of advice regarding the BDSM community and it's practices, as long as I am a member of this site. It is one of the primary benefits I sought to achieve when I created this account.
And eventually people will get tired of doing your research for you.
QSM
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