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Chrisincuffs -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/16/2010 7:05:17 PM)

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Please, everyone, it seems as though there has been quite a few threads about when we started fantasizing etc and it is as children, The problem I have is that this is a public forum and any sicko (namely paedophiles) can read these threads.
I'm a Mum, whether or not my child shows any tendancies towards being subby, Dominant, straight, I want to keep to myself, I dont think that we should be bringing up discussions about underage here....even if it is about our own past.
If some of you disagree, so be it



IMHO if I were so worried about pedophiles I wouldn't broadcast it out there that I have children




gungadin09 -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/16/2010 7:09:17 PM)

It's still okay to talk about CHICKENS and BDSM, right? Please say "yes"...

pam




Chrisincuffs -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/16/2010 7:17:15 PM)

Like getting flogged with a rubber chicken til your ass cheekies are purple? [sm=whap.gif]




chardman -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/16/2010 7:19:36 PM)

Dont have any chickens but have Kangaroos, snakes and insects :)






aBondageTop -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/17/2010 12:41:47 AM)

Why should I care what a pedophile likes to read? Do you imagine that someone will read a CM posting, get all excited, and assualt some child? By that logic, all sexual discussion should be banned, as it will lead to increased sexual assaults.





lobodomslavery -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/17/2010 12:49:13 AM)

Cant we not just live and let live. It s not ok to ask others do they have kids. Let them tell you if they want to. If they dont want to its obviously not appropriate. Situations differ your mileage will vary. If you know the person very well and are friends they might be ok with it but not straight off the bat to a stranger do you have kids, its just not appropriate. People's private personal lives are well PERSONAL and PRIVATE, they will divulge if they want, they will allow you to ask if you know them very very well and are very close friends but not if you dont know them from Adam and are not acquainted in any way except the fact that you are a member of collarme.
kevin




wandersalone -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/17/2010 3:41:48 AM)

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

[Awaiting Approval]



I will translate since Kevin is currently muffled:

I think the OP must be a Domme in disguise and I bet that not only does she wear boots to work just so she can tease all of the poor submissive men who are unable to control their urges and will end up getting fired from their jobs but she would also get mad if I threw a glass of water on her....hmmmpphhhh damn Dommes
[:)]




tazzygirl -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/17/2010 5:32:03 AM)

~FR

This has always amazed me. Do you suppose a pedophile will hang around an adult discussion group on the off chance that a topic of interest might crop up?

Or does it make more sense that a pedophile would hang around a place... i dunno... that might be full of kids?

Op....

I think we have far more to worry about. Children are a part of almost everyones lives. No getting away from the 'critters'. Discussing children on this site doesnt have to lead to talks of pedophilia.

Thankfully we have attentive Mods to ensure we dont go too far astray.




sirsholly -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/17/2010 5:40:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: wandersalone

quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

[Awaiting Approval]



I will translate since Kevin is currently muffled:

I think the OP must be a Domme in disguise and I bet that not only does she wear boots to work just so she can tease all of the poor submissive men who are unable to control their urges and will end up getting fired from their jobs but she would also get mad if I threw a glass of water on her....hmmmpphhhh damn Dommes
[:)]

LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!




sirsholly -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/17/2010 5:43:04 AM)

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ORIGINAL: femasoslave

Please, everyone, it seems as though there has been quite a few threads about when we started fantasizing etc and it is as children, The problem I have is that this is a public forum and any sicko (namely paedophiles) can read these threads.
I'm a Mum, whether or not my child shows any tendancies towards being subby, Dominant, straight, I want to keep to myself, I dont think that we should be bringing up discussions about underage here....even if it is about our own past.
If some of you disagree, so be it

The mods do a great job here ensuring that discussions about kids are not a TOS violation.




sirsholly -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/17/2010 5:44:36 AM)

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Why should I care what a pedophile likes to read?
Because whereas it takes a village to raise them, it also takes a village to protect them.




sirsholly -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/17/2010 5:46:15 AM)

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ORIGINAL: gungadin09

It's still okay to talk about CHICKENS and BDSM, right?
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sirsholly -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/17/2010 5:48:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: chardman

Dont have any chickens but have Kangaroos, snakes and insects :)



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DarkSteven -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/17/2010 5:49:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: gungadin09

It's still okay to talk about CHICKENS and BDSM, right? Please say "yes"...

pam


I kinda fantasize about swans and BDSM at times...




Jeffff -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/17/2010 6:09:48 AM)

Swans are mean ass birds.

They would do fine here.




mnottertail -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/17/2010 6:12:55 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: gungadin09

It's still okay to talk about CHICKENS and BDSM, right? Please say "yes"...

pam


I kinda fantasize about swans and BDSM at times...



Are they of age? OK.  Otherwise, shut it.






heartcream -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/17/2010 6:30:18 AM)

The swan, with arched neck Between her white wings mantling proudly, rows Her state with oary feet.
~ John Milton




sirsholly -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/17/2010 6:36:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: gungadin09

It's still okay to talk about CHICKENS and BDSM, right? Please say "yes"...

pam


I kinda fantasize about swans and BDSM at times...

you give up fantasizing about women, Stevie?[&:]




slavekal -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/17/2010 9:47:34 AM)

I agree too, for the most part. I think an exception is when one talks about oneself when young. Even then, we should be very careful. Who needs unnecessary trouble?




January -> RE: Please, stop talking about children and bdsm (8/17/2010 10:48:26 AM)


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ORIGINAL: aBondageTop

Why should I care what a pedophile likes to read? Do you imagine that someone will read a CM posting, get all excited, and assualt some child? By that logic, all sexual discussion should be banned, as it will lead to increased sexual assaults.



I care. And if I see pedo-wank or pedo-style-adverts on CM I report it. It violates TOS, and my own sense of morals. Those postings are always, and I mean always, removed by the MODS.

Back in the day (6 years ago or so), the TOS regarding discussing children on CM was even stricter.

Oh, and that whole "slippery slope" argument that "banning one thing will ban everything" isn't "logic". It's just argument.

January




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