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RE: gay/bi slave 4 str8 Master possible? - 3/3/2008 4:16:55 PM

Skully7000

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I don't shy away from my preferences:
I consider myself straight with very very few exceptions SEXUALLY!
but when it comes to KINK then it sex is not important. The problem is My standards are very different. A woman can be of all shapes and sizes and personalities and as long as she doesn't annoy the crap out of me I would consider her as a play partner/potential slave/sub etc.
for men: I'm much more picky(though not as much Sexually) service is about the chemistry but I require alot and I have high standards for men when it comes to appearence, personality, and limits.
with that said: I do greatly enjoy playing with submissive men. I slip into domspace much quicker. Also if they have made it far enough for me to play with them..then the chemistry is usually there and the scenes are intense and satisfying for both parties... Sexually I may kiss you or more but it is almost strictly as an act of domination and submission. The only time I would truly consider allowing you to blow Me to be about the reward for you (and my pleasure in it second)

so to answer your question: its totally reasonable. I'm an example.

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RE: gay/bi slave 4 str8 Master possible? - 3/3/2008 4:19:44 PM

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I'd consider you, if you match up with me otherwise. You wouldn't get any sex from me, althoguh I might arrange for you to serve others sexually on occasion. Assuming you are service oriented and can accept some pain I would definitely consider you as a possibility. The dominance aspect of things is far more important to me than the sexual part.

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RE: gay/bi slave 4 str8 Master possible? - 3/3/2008 4:26:32 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

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So I pose this question to the straight male Doms out there.....does it matter if it is a male or a female doing the oral servicing?

Himself said, yes, it matters.

Celeste

edited because it was a bit TMI for Himself's taste. ::chuckles::

I agree that it matters. I am straight, and although I could enjoy a man orally servicing me it would be bcasue it was an act of humiliation and submission, not because it was a sexual act. It would also be a much bigger kick for me if it was a man who put up an alpha type face, big, strong, in control, choosing to humble himself before me.

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RE: gay/bi slave 4 str8 Master possible? - 3/3/2008 4:47:07 PM

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Ah, the forbidden fruit... There are plenty of straight kinkers around, you'll just need to keep looking.

Your question about how to make yourself acceptable shows you may be engaged in an impossible fantasy. People don't run around thinking: "If this person would behave / dress / smell / look like this, I would be interested". 99.99% of the time, someone's sexual interests are pretty much fixed. You cannot alter or manipulate them to work the way you'd like. I would concentrate on finding the right person / people for you, not on trying to be someone you're not. Or, I could give the only correct, but ridiculous answer: "Sure you can make yourself acceptable! Have gender reassignment surgery!"

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RE: gay/bi slave 4 str8 Master possible? - 3/3/2008 9:17:52 PM

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I base having a slave purely on performance. (You need to be productive, not consumptive)

Having a female just makes it a bit more fun, males have no sex appeal for me.

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RE: gay/bi slave 4 str8 Master possible? - 3/4/2008 3:43:57 AM

TotalState

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If you aren't seeking sex, why would you care what his orientation is?

And if you are, don't you really mean bisexual master?

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RE: gay/bi slave 4 str8 Master possible? - 3/4/2008 11:20:41 AM

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Yes, it is possible.

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RE: gay/bi slave 4 str8 Master possible? - 3/7/2008 11:06:47 PM

subboi3382

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it's a possibility, i have been hit on by a number of str8 masters

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RE: gay/bi slave 4 str8 Master possible? - 3/8/2008 10:34:49 PM

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i am a bi-male who has been a slave to 2 straight Masters. i had no problem with finding a Straight Master..... The first one lasted 5 years and i helped make Him a Millionaire. The problem is with the woman in Your Master's life. If she is straight, she is going to be very jelouis of a slave in the house. Now that Master can afford to hire people to do all His grunt work, He let me go. i was a mess for 2 years..... Now i am a slave to a straight Master again, and he has a drinking problem, so i am basiclly His enabler. He has nothing to speak of except His sex appeal, He is a damb good looking Cowboy. He gets laid all the time, but keeps me as a slave to have around. He isn't interested in a wife. i dont think He could keep on.... So, it works, but i worry about money all the time...

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RE: gay/bi slave 4 str8 Master possible? - 3/9/2008 12:46:00 AM

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ORIGINAL: AngeloMartinez

In my experience masters don't really care about your gender, but if you are going to approach a hetero-master, then just procede with caution and respect. And if he turns you down, it's just not his thing. Some straight men like a submissive male bitch....LOL

After about two years, I'd say he's probably figured it out. Kindly don't bump really old threads like this.

Stephan

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RE: gay/bi slave 4 str8 Master possible? - 3/10/2008 5:15:42 AM

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I have had bi service subs. When I was first approached about it I was curious as to how it would work out. Turns out I made some great friends.

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RE: gay/bi slave 4 str8 Master possible? - 3/10/2008 6:03:44 AM

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you will find your Master if you keep looking
I have taken on boys, they know I am gay, but desire to serve Me anyway
I have also taken on a few straight girls in My day
And one gay boy, that had never had any kind of BDSM play with a female before Me, and that was fun too
It all works out in the end, just keep looking,,,you will find him

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