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tiggerspoohbear -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/17/2010 7:11:45 PM)

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DarkSteven -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/17/2010 7:55:58 PM)

Folks, look.  The guy's from Egypt and there's a vastly different culture there.

OP, you're asking about the secret technique that transforms a non-sub man into a submissive.  The ladies here have plenty of sub men to choose from and don't need to make more of them.  There ARE no secret techniques.



Twoshoes -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/17/2010 7:57:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mezrabs

can you please tell us one of the most dominating thing you do to a man that is not a slave or an experiance with a man that you made him your slave
i want to know how a dominant woman can attract a man to make him her slave


I think what he's saying is he wants to know if you Dominant women acted dominantly towards men who were not your subs/slaves - like men you meet in public.

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and sorry for saying that i meet many woman that is not dominant as they look and me myslf i am not sub as i look
i am lost and i cant decide who i am and no one here give me a hand to know who i am

Then he's saying he doesn't come off very submissive in public. The ladies he does attract seem to not want to make him cry.

Now, the ironic part is the thread that answers this very question was started by him aswell:

HERE

So all in all... good effort!

P.S. The mistress section is by far the most entertaining.



PeonForHer -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/17/2010 8:04:08 PM)

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Nah, I'll not go confidently with the wank condemnation this time.  The OP strikes me more as someone who's so unclear about it all that he doesn't know what are the right questions to ask.  If so, then he's in a painful place - as indeed I was a while ago.  The fact that it's all, at times, extremely exciting doesn't make it less painful - if anything, the opposite's true. 

OP:  I recommend reading, reading and yet more reading.  We could do with a primer for D/s - but, in the absence of that, the FAQs at the top of this forum are an excellent start. 



LadyHibiscus -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/18/2010 6:22:13 AM)

You mens are very kind and sympathetic. I hereby foist all drive by threads on to you!



LadyConstanze -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/18/2010 6:53:05 AM)


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ORIGINAL: mezrabs

can you please tell us one of the most dominating thing you do to a man that is not a slave or an experiance with a man that you made him your slave
i want to know how a dominant woman can attract a man to make him her slave



What you are asking is very very personal, about the equivalent of asking strangers about their sex life, it comes across as if you are looking for (to phrase it politely) stimulation for solitary pleasures. There are plenty of websites that give you that, there are also plenty of websites that discuss different aspects of BDSM, you may just want to read up a bit, get more information for yourself before you ask such a question, and maybe don't ask something so very personal straight away. Would you feel comfortable to talk about your sex life or how you masturbate on a forum? If yes, good for you, if not, that is possibly how most of us feel about such a question.



OttersSwim -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/18/2010 7:10:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

You mens are very kind and sympathetic. I hereby foist all drive by threads on to you!


What you Ladies need, is a Mistress Forum Butler.  Someone who will "buttle" on your behalf.

Wanker:  "I'd like to know how many of the Goddesses here like to cut off a man's Uvula!"

MistressForumButler:  (Looking stern and downhisnosy at the wanker and saying in a voice dripping with disdain) "I'm sorry Sirrrr...the Ladies are not receiving wank requests today..."

PoliteSub would be a perfect Mistress Forum Butler. 

Peon is much more the Stable Boy type.  [;)]

Of course, you cannot have a Butler and a Stable Boy without having a Parlor Maid, you know, someone who could flounce around and dust things, serve drinks and welcome guests...and gosh you know, I have pretty much studied my whole life that that job!  [;)][;)][;)]

Ah fantasy...excuse me while I go change and grab my duster... [;)]



Twoshoes -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/18/2010 7:16:53 AM)

Even more obvious:
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ORIGINAL: Twoshoes
~HERE~



dreamysubmale -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/18/2010 7:50:17 AM)

English is a difficult language. It’s a nightmare for a non-English spoken person to understand, and when you try to translate from a foreign language to English, words and/or sentences get lost in translation or end up meaning something different. For example the word fantasy in my language, and may be the OP’s doesn’t have the same connotation as when we use it here.

Just my two cents.



LadyPact -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/18/2010 8:06:03 AM)

The thread that was prior (which I previously answered in regards to flagging) and this one come across to Me as having two obviously different questions.  Even at that, flagging isn't going to work if the OP is in Egypt. 

The question as presented here would have the non kink equivalent to 'how do you fall in love'.  This proposes, at minimum, three challenges in how to convey the answer on a message board:

*  It's too extensive to try to convey on a forum.

*  In many cases, it's too intimate.

*  Often, there is no 'magical moment' to pin to one singular occurrence.

I'm fairly open about the dynamic that I have with clip.  If I had to guess, I would have to think that most folks who are familiar with the forums have some kind of idea of how the dynamic works because it's been written about over the course of thousands of topics and replies.  It's just not possible to get that to come across in some Reader's Digest Condensed version that I can write in one post.



LadyConstanze -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/18/2010 9:42:43 AM)


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ORIGINAL: dreamysubmale

English is a difficult language. It’s a nightmare for a non-English spoken person to understand, and when you try to translate from a foreign language to English, words and/or sentences get lost in translation or end up meaning something different. For example the word fantasy in my language, and may be the OP’s doesn’t have the same connotation as when we use it here.

Just my two cents.




I dunno, English is by no means my native language but somehow you and me both seem to be grasping it rather well, being impolite and asking very intrusive questions is rude in any language and most cultures...



LadyHibiscus -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/18/2010 9:53:58 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamysubmale

English is a difficult language. It’s a nightmare for a non-English spoken person to understand, and when you try to translate from a foreign language to English, words and/or sentences get lost in translation or end up meaning something different. For example the word fantasy in my language, and may be the OP’s doesn’t have the same connotation as when we use it here.

Just my two cents.



I dunno, English is by no means my native language but somehow you and me both seem to be grasping it rather well, being impolite and asking very intrusive questions is rude in any language and most cultures...


I agree. There are a LOT of folks on the boards who speak more than one language, and they manage English just fine. The idioms change from country to country, but the basic words are the same.



mezrabs -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/18/2010 10:29:47 AM)

for the first time in my life i found someone that stands for me on this site and i am so happy that i found such a good open minded pepole that i realy wish to be a friend to especialy those who send me private msg supporting me and offer to help me
thanks



PeonForHer -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/18/2010 5:23:50 PM)

Try those FAQs at the top of the forum, Mezrabs, if you haven't already.  It might be an idea, too, to get help in framing a question.  As you've seen, people are easily inclined to read intrusiveness, or desire for fantasy material, into someone's words here.  In fairness, we do get a lot of that, so you have to try hard to show that you're not 'that sort of man'.



SthrnCom4t -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/18/2010 5:51:30 PM)

I would agree with LadyP's post regarding the difficulty in answering the question. Just being myself has worked with some submissives in the past, but not others. Being someone who can be respected and trusted is key, so look for someone with integrity.

As you become familiar sharing more about yourself elaborating your profile will be helpful. At that time, I suggest hitting up Otters for profile content help, and Peon for profile pic suggestions. They both seem to be liked quite a lot by the Ladies and have been around for a while.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/18/2010 6:47:01 PM)

We only want Peon for his body. [8D]



DarkSteven -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/18/2010 7:03:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SthrnCom4t

I would agree with LadyP's post regarding the difficulty in answering the question. Just being myself has worked with some submissives in the past, but not others.


If you are just yourself, then any relationships you get will work.  If you try to be someone/something else, you may get the relationship, but it's doomed.



Twoshoes -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/18/2010 7:03:30 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

We only want Peon for his body. [8D]


I checked if Peon has an objectification fantasy.

Then I realized his body is amazing for an 89 year old. [;)]

Heh.

^^DarkSteven, you, sir, are a wise man.



LadyPact -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/18/2010 7:07:58 PM)

So tempted.........  So tempted.  [8D]



LadyHibiscus -> RE: can you please share it with us (8/18/2010 7:08:10 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Twoshoes

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

We only want Peon for his body. [8D]


I checked if Peon has an objectification fantasy.

Then I realized his body is amazing for an 89 year old. [;)]

Heh.

^^DarkSteven, you, sir, are a wise man.


You knew I dig old guys, right?

And yeah, that Steven, there's a reason we keep him around. [sm=hippie.gif]



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