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All marked up with ??? - 8/17/2010 3:52:21 PM   
Bobanna


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Status: offline 		So.... I just spent the better part of a year and a half getting laser removal of an armband tatoo with an ex-bf initial in it.  LONG and painful process. 
I was wondering how many submissives/slaves have had tatoos or permanant markings done for their owner?   What was the marking(s)?  Where was it placed?  Did you have any say in it?  And if you split up, do you still have it ----->  and how does that make you feel?

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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/17/2010 4:16:17 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		I love tattoos on other people, but I would never get one myself. And I would NEVER get a guy's name tattooed; yikes!!

I hate seeing the names of exes on guys; it is a real turn off to me. One time I met this hot guy and when he took off his shirt it said Mercedes in flowery, scrolling letters. I said, please tell me that is the car? He said, no, sorry, it was my ex lover Mercedes. Yuck.

Tattoo their names on your heart and brain, not your skin.

P.S. If it was the car, that would have been too weird as well. :)

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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/17/2010 6:17:29 PM   
yours2command


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Status: offline 		when I lived as a 24/7 live-in slave I went through quite a painful journey when my Owner wasn't connecting at all with me and yet I heard all the clients having a lovely time in the room where I slept with all the BDSM gear. I conveyed to her how painful it was that I wasn't getting any soul-food and yet she was amazing. there were many promises made about connecting once a week and yet it never happened for whatever reason. Then One night after many promises and me trying to supress my dissapointment she strapped me on a whipping bench and started carving her name on my ass with a piercing feeder tube. This was so lovely for me all of the reassurance for many hours but she was too tired to finish it and actually took many hours just to carve Mis in me. then all the broken promises went on again until she finally took the initiative one night to get me bent over the whipping bench and then used a cauterising tool to carve her full name in me. Mistress XXXXXX and yes it felt amazing that she loved me enough to let me wear her name on my ass for the rest of my life.

However, this was a very strange thing to do when you consider that she was really finding it difficult to make a connection with me and it wasn't that long after that when she applied eye contact restrictions which I emphasised to her was breaking my heart so much. anyway I wrote to her in my diary sheet that I was so desperately struggling and asked if she could help me back from the painful place that I said i was likely to go if she maintained the eye contact restrictions. This led to her losing the plot and decollaring me. We had a very painful split up and this branding to me became a very difficult scar in many ways. To me it was more of a problem because any domme that i went to battered me for daring to present another dommes name on my ass so they would make it a point of giving me a real leathering. The problem with that is that when my ass went pink the branding stood out very white against it.

When I lived as the 24/7 i dreamed of being branded as a posititve thing and the reality was that she treated me as a slave as if though I was living the service orientated lifestyle that i should be grateful for. I did remind her respectfully that i was given to her as a puppy as I am a very loyal affectionate puppy at heart that needs to have some approval if it is earned.

when we were apart I felt that it was more about the fact the she knew she was losing me and therefore marking her territory so nobody else would take me away.

18 months apart and it was very much fading but we got back together and as a way of marking the occasion we made a very deep and meaningful connection on film where i was strapped over a dearskin covered bench and branded with a big incense stick. it took over 1.5 hours to do and was intensely painful which meant that I was very deeply connected to her while she did it. I loved it and the symbolism but now I am regretting not voicing my fears about it as it seems we are going down that road where she finds it difficult to make time to connect with me. and as a way of giving puppy some connection for the first time in 4 months she used a scalpel to re carved a couple of the letters that didn't take to well with the incense stick.

It was great when she did it because i love her so much and crave her attention but all common sense tells me that this is not going to last any where as long as the branding.

What is the ettiquette when a slave has a branding of a domme on their ass and goes to another domme?

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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/17/2010 6:55:48 PM   
CynthiaWVirginia


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Thank you for bringing this up, Bobanna.  I learned something from each person's answer, and I hope there will be more comments.

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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/17/2010 8:08:09 PM   
peppermint


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Status: offline 		A friend of mine got one of those heart with his wife's name inside tattoos.  He felt pretty safe as they'd been married for 30 years.  The next year they were divorced.  

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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/17/2010 8:59:58 PM   
mstrjx


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ORIGINAL: peppermint

A friend of mine got one of those heart with his wife's name inside tattoos.  He felt pretty safe as they'd been married for 30 years.  The next year they were divorced.  

Well of course! The name was misspelled, and the wife thought he was in love with someone else.

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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/17/2010 9:17:08 PM   
LPslittleclip


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Status: offline 		i have  my Mistress initials carved on my left pectoral. it is the same as the water brand i made and had used on my back. if W/we were ever to split up then it will be a permanent reminder of the time spent with Her as Her collared slave.

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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/17/2010 9:29:53 PM   
Twoshoes


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ORIGINAL: LPslittleclip

i have  my Mistress initials carved on my left pectoral. it is the same as the water brand i made and had used on my back. if W/we were ever to split up then it will be a permanent reminder of the time spent with Her as Her collared slave.


I wouldn't mind being with someone who had someone else's initials on them. I don't get intimidated by this. It's part of who they were and what made them what they are now. Plus, I'm the strange type of person that might actually want to hear about their other relationships.

And jealously is one of my kinks I guess, because I get a kick out of it.
"Hey sweetheart, let's see you get that guy's number over there." - sort of thing (just no cuckolding)
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But if the person with the tattoo isn't comfortable with it that is another story entirely.

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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/17/2010 9:31:30 PM   
NuevaVida


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Status: offline 		I wrote this in a different forum, and I will share it here:


My ex marked me with a tattoo he designed. I wasn't hot on the idea since I tend to not like tattoos all that much, but I was his property and so I was marked as he wished.

Then 3 years later he ended things - long story - for reasons having nothing to do with my service to him.

For the longest time afterwards, I loathed the thing. It did not cause me to remember him with warm fuzzies. I looked into having it removed but it's too costly for me at this time. I have considered having it re-made into something else, and my Owner and I have briefly talked about that, but the subject kind of died over time, as it's no longer a sore spot for me, in fact, I mostly forget it's there.

I used to be concerned about how he felt when he saw it (it's on my hip/flank) until one day he cupped his hands around it and kissed it. It's his now. 

He is not going to place any other permanent marks on me.


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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/17/2010 10:16:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		I once saw a craigslist ad in which a woman stated that she wanted to date only men named Bob.

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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/17/2010 10:39:05 PM   
Twoshoes


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I once saw a craigslist ad in which a woman stated that she wanted to date only men named Bob.


That is alot of men to choose from!

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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/18/2010 2:06:38 AM   
myotherself


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I once saw a craigslist ad in which a woman stated that she wanted to date only men named Bob.


My dad's called Bob

Hang on a sec...whoaaaa....MOM???!!!!

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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/18/2010 2:28:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: myotherself


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

I once saw a craigslist ad in which a woman stated that she wanted to date only men named Bob.


My dad's called Bob

Hang on a sec...whoaaaa....MOM???!!!!



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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/18/2010 3:49:45 AM   
Focus50


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Status: offline 		Hopefully tattoo removal will soon be perfected and pain free etc because I personally think tattoos are the most unfortunate and feral fashion accessory the "feminine" sex ever blundered into. Of course, perfecting their removal doesn't guarantee the good sense to make use of the service.... *sigh*

Yep, the old fashioned outlook includes me being just plain old....

Focus.

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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/18/2010 4:56:05 AM   
Aileen1968


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ORIGINAL: Bobanna

So.... I just spent the better part of a year and a half getting laser removal of an armband tatoo with an ex-bf initial in it.  LONG and painful process. 
I was wondering how many submissives/slaves have had tatoos or permanant markings done for their owner?   What was the marking(s)?  Where was it placed?  Did you have any say in it?  And if you split up, do you still have it ----->  and how does that make you feel?


I don't have a permanent marking from him, but I would in a heartbeat. Even if we weren't able to survive the long haul, it would be symbolic of the absolutely incredible moments I've shared with him up to this point. I hope that he does choose to mark me with his initials or something unique to him. I would be proud to wear it.

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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/18/2010 8:51:51 AM   
RealSub58


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Status: offline 		Yes, I have a tat from the other owner.  It is the kanji word for obey and on my shoulder blade.  I would obey any dominant I submit to.  So it is appropriate. 

My present owner would not have approved, but he says, "I look at it you do not" when I asked if I should remove it.

I barely am reminded of it anymore unless someone mentions it.


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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/18/2010 10:22:21 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I would not mind gettng a small tasttful tattoo with the letters POMM (Property of My Master) on my hip. However Master does not like body art so i will not get it done. Even if we were not together(which hopefully will never happen) i would not get it removed. Why would i we have a wonderful relationshhip and it would give me something more then my memories. Actually more than dislikes he really hates tattoos, if i decided to disobey and get it done he would be very very POed with me. So no matter how much i want it, ain't gonna happen.

Matt's littleone

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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/18/2010 12:58:25 PM   
agirl


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Status: offline 		I have a brand on my bum and one on my mons. I didn't have any *say* at the time it happened but it was understood years beforehand that I had no valid objections.

If we split up, yes, they'll still be there. I can't imagine *feeling* anything much beyond them being part of something I took part in at a particular time in my life. I know without a shadow of a doubt that I'd have no regrets of any kind. They mean a great deal to me, but in the great scheme of life , they really aren't a big deal at all.

agirl

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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/18/2010 1:32:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: littleone35

I would not mind gettng a small tasttful tattoo with the letters POMM (Property of My Master) on my hip. However Master does not like body art so i will not get it done. Even if we were not together(which hopefully will never happen) i would not get it removed. Why would i we have a wonderful relationshhip and it would give me something more then my memories. Actually more than dislikes he really hates tattoos, if i decided to disobey and get it done he would be very very POed with me. So no matter how much i want it, ain't gonna happen.

Matt's littleone


"Body art".... lol

This is exactly how society sanitises appalling habits. You get enough people doing it and describing it with fashionable lingo, the young and the gullible all want what "everyone" is doing. Just add a celebrity or two to headline it at some big event (Jolie, for eg) and presto - I'm the out of touch old fogey.... *groan*

Art is what the female form is, esp if she's someone of my preferred body type. And when you apply tattoos (or body piercings) to it, that ain't "body art", that's *graffiti*.

Good to see I'm not the only Dom who hates the horrible things. For the record, I don't have any myself so the girl would be NO chance anyway.

Focus.

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RE: All marked up with ??? - 8/18/2010 2:35:59 PM   
agirl


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ORIGINAL: Focus50


quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35

I would not mind gettng a small tasttful tattoo with the letters POMM (Property of My Master) on my hip. However Master does not like body art so i will not get it done. Even if we were not together(which hopefully will never happen) i would not get it removed. Why would i we have a wonderful relationshhip and it would give me something more then my memories. Actually more than dislikes he really hates tattoos, if i decided to disobey and get it done he would be very very POed with me. So no matter how much i want it, ain't gonna happen.

Matt's littleone


"Body art".... lol

This is exactly how society sanitises appalling habits. You get enough people doing it and describing it with fashionable lingo, the young and the gullible all want what "everyone" is doing. Just add a celebrity or two to headline it at some big event (Jolie, for eg) and presto - I'm the out of touch old fogey.... *groan*

Art is what the female form is, esp if she's someone of my preferred body type. And when you apply tattoos (or body piercings) to it, that ain't "body art", that's *graffiti*.

Good to see I'm not the only Dom who hates the horrible things. For the record, I don't have any myself so the girl would be NO chance anyway.

Focus.


I tend to agree with you in many ways. If M had any particular dislike of the marks he's applied, then they wouldn't have been done and I wouldn't have been bothered either way. I wasn't exactly lusting after them!lol

Being *old-ish* myself , tattoo's were something my dad had, having been in the Royal Navy and it wasn't until I was an adult that I saw any that weren't on a big hairy arm.

agirl



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