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Can someone explain slave live-in situations - 8/17/2010 4:56:03 PM

behavingbadly

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is it 24/7, what does this involve? how common is this?

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RE: Can someone explain slave live-in situations - 8/17/2010 5:25:31 PM

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The short of it, and this is perhaps my take only, it's being submissive to your D-type 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. A search of this website will probably find good discussions, or Google.

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RE: Can someone explain slave live-in situations - 8/17/2010 6:47:50 PM

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Depends on the couple involved. Here it involves normal day to day life with kids and a dog. But with his preferences kept in mind when I make a decision.

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RE: Can someone explain slave live-in situations - 8/17/2010 6:47:55 PM

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All but one of my lengthier d/s relationships have been live-in. I personally wouldn't like it any other way. One lived with me a shorter, pre-designated amount of time, but the others ran from 8 months to a number of years. It's difficult, of course, for a dynamic to be active if I'm at my workplace and she's at hers, but for all intents and purposes even those sorts of relationships can be considered 24/7.

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RE: Can someone explain slave live-in situations - 8/17/2010 7:10:56 PM

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How common? Quite common? But so are live out situations. And everything in between, the more complicated, probably the less common.

The details of the situation vary drastically depending on what fits both parties needs and what they discuss, negotiate, and agree on. And some of the time its open for adjustment as one lives it and learns.

This is going to be pretty much the answer to all questions about how people do anything, even in vanilla aspects of life... Except I have found that usually in the BDSM community there is a stronger emphasis on the importance and value of deep, meaningful communication and open discussion.

I think a better question might be: "For those that choose to have their partner live-in, what is your dynamic like at home? How did you come to be where you are?"

When you are trying to learn about BDSM the forums are a great place to start. So is typing "BDSM information" "BDSM FAQ" or "BDSM resources" into the google search bar... If you type a couple of those things, or other similar topics, and press the "search" button many hundreds of pages of websites will pop up on your screen. If you start browsing each one, reading old forum posts, reading FAQs and info pages... You will learn that there are a LOT of different choices, options, and people doing all kind of things. The more you read the more you will learn what is frequent vs what is more uncommon. This type of research will help you form better questions to get at the heart of what you are trying to learn about.

You're going to get a lot more depth of knowledge if you shift your learning approach.

Here are a few links to help get you started:
http://www.thebrc.net/RB_ARTICLES-MAIN.html
http://www.domsub.info/introduction.shtml
http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdsm.html
http://www.leathernroses.com/submission/journeysub.htm

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RE: Can someone explain slave live-in situations - 8/17/2010 8:33:26 PM

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It is where the slave and the Dom.... Live in... the same place.

It is as 24/7 as they are willing to make it.

It usually involves a Dom, a Sub, and a Domicile of some sort.

It is as Common as any other form of Lifestyle that consists of two or more people... eventually some people like to cohabitate.

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RE: Can someone explain slave live-in situations - 8/18/2010 5:09:15 AM

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I lived with my Mistress 24/7 for three years. The only difference between that and living with other girlfriends was the bdsm angle. She got to make the rules and beat my ass when she wanted to. I know a lot of people in this kind of situation, so I would say it is pretty common.

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RE: Can someone explain slave live-in situations - 8/18/2010 6:38:59 AM

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is it 24/7, what does this involve? how common is this?

It means failure to bring me coffee in the morning results in a not-fun spanking.

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RE: Can someone explain slave live-in situations - 8/18/2010 7:17:04 AM

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For Carol and I, it means two happily married people who are silly in love and where she obeys me.

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RE: Can someone explain slave live-in situations - 8/19/2010 3:31:13 AM

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for us its two people who love each other deeply one hap;pend sot be a master and i happen to be the sub/slave. and inbetween kids and life i will aways be the sub he will alwasy be the master

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RE: Can someone explain slave live-in situations - 8/20/2010 4:52:24 AM

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i'm actually glad that somebody has explained 24/7 in a different light than what my impression of it was. Using the other side as a source of information probably isn't the best thing, but getting messages and reading profiles that are of the "move to my Master's/Mistress's country" "be kept in a cage and only let out for house upkeep and play" and whenever its been posted here has fallen along those lines as well, i just ended up viewing it as "hey i'm slave(insert typical slave fantasy name here), and i want to live in your basement, eat for free, use other amenities for free, have you beat my ass or play with me constantly, all without me having to have a job." as so goes the typical fantasy.

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RE: Can someone explain slave live-in situations - 8/21/2010 10:19:12 AM

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This is from personal experience. When owned, this sub lived 24/7 with 2 MASTERS. The sub did work full time so Monday - Friday 8-5 was at work. When slave got home it was to change into its "uniform" which was a jockstrap, collar, and hood. slave was to keep busy with household chores until it was fed and sent to bed for the night.

Weekends slave did chores,ran errands, worked around the house etc. If MASTERS entertained slave would wear a suit and act as bartender and serve at the party. If slave needed to do something for itself, it would ask permission to leave the house.

slave was paid weekly and required to give 50% of its check as tribute to MASTERS and to pay for its upkeep. As slave had no other expenses of its own at the time, this arrangement was satisfactory to all.

Aagin, this is just from personal experience

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RE: Can someone explain slave live-in situations - 8/22/2010 5:57:15 AM

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i am a live in slave to NG1 thats Master Norman and Mistress Georgina they are a business couple not married or involved. Mistress is a lesbian ,
my role is housekeeper ,maid ,cook,gardener, ponyrole play sexual slave. they have controlled my every day for the past 5 years .
for me the word no or i don,t want to does not exist. i am available 24 hours a day for what ever is required of me be it make coffee serve a drink be sexually use. 24/7 means diffrent things to diffrent people what works for one does not work for another. all must decide what best for them
slavegail Property of NG1

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