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paulio96 -> Erm Hi (8/18/2010 3:44:10 PM)

Never posted so I guess it is customary to do this.

But I really have a question tbh with no idea where to put it (no humorous suggestions please lol)

When you msg someone do you have to be sub like and pathetic or can you just approach them as a normal human being (lol)?

So far I am shit out of luck on the normal human being tact.



laurell3 -> RE: Erm Hi (8/18/2010 3:47:51 PM)

You're a 22 year old male submissive. Your lack of success is most likely due to the numbers game which doesn't favor you at all than due to anything else. Be what you are and be very patient. If you want some tips as to what the Dommes here are looking for, there's a sticky at the top of the Mistress forum that gives quite a bit of helpful advice to new subs approaching them.

Welcome to the forums and good luck!



DarkSteven -> RE: Erm Hi (8/18/2010 3:57:10 PM)

Welcome!

Just approach them like anyone else. And keep in mind that not alll will reply - just accept it.



OohAahMrs -> RE: Erm Hi (8/19/2010 7:26:16 AM)

Hey Paul, welcome, you've got plenty of time to find the right one, youth is on your side, as it were. Just keep looking, keep learning and keep on enjoying.



tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Erm Hi (8/19/2010 12:45:49 PM)

Welcome to CM and the boards. Just know that things don't happen overnight. If you haven't done so, google munches in your area and get out to meet people in your community. Ya never know what'll happen and you get to make new friends who are like minded. Just be yourself and polite. Good way to start. [:)]



paulio96 -> RE: Erm Hi (8/19/2010 1:05:03 PM)

Good advice from all, basically patience lol very sensible and i shall take your advice thanks people :)



Jeffff -> RE: Erm Hi (8/19/2010 1:06:24 PM)

Offer them money, they LOVE that!



OohAahMrs -> RE: Erm Hi (8/20/2010 6:28:45 AM)

I forgot to mention the money! A wad of notes can boost any man's appeal.



sirsholly -> RE: Erm Hi (8/21/2010 6:10:02 AM)

quote:

When you msg someone do you have to be sub like and pathetic or can you just approach them as a normal human being (lol)?
be yourself. [:)]

and welcome to the nuthouse![:)]



hlen5 -> RE: Erm Hi (8/21/2010 6:13:19 AM)

I think your profile pics are a lovely introduction. Maybe more of the same would be a conversation starter??[;)]



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