Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

Is it possible to have the perfect profile?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Polls and Other Random Stupidity >> Is it possible to have the perfect profile? Page: [1]
[Poll]

Is it possible to have the perfect profile?


Yes
  25% (4)
No
  31% (5)
Good luck with that!!!
  43% (7)


Total Votes : 16
(last vote on : 8/26/2010 10:11:08 PM)
(Poll ended: 8/27/2010 12:00:00 PM)
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
Is it possible to have the perfect profile? - 8/20/2010 4:40:39 PM   
MistressSassy66


Posts: 1675
Joined: 11/5/2004
Status: offline 		Is it possible to have the perfect profile? I can not think of how many times I have changed mine. Just when I think I have all the bases covered,someone wipes the dirt off another one...
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: Is it possible to have the perfect profile? - 8/20/2010 4:44:07 PM   
VaguelyCurious


Posts: 5264
Joined: 12/2/2009
From: United Kingdom
Status: offline 		IMO it's possible to have the perfect profile for what you want right this second-but first you have to accept that the perfect profile for you as a person might well change pretty regularly. What you want today might differ ever so slightly (or even not so slightly) from what you want next week.

_____________________________

Sthetic on FetLife.




(in reply to MistressSassy66)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: Is it possible to have the perfect profile? - 8/20/2010 4:44:51 PM   
Hillwilliam


Posts: 19394
Joined: 8/27/2008
Status: offline 		If you have a perfect profile, you will 5 mins later be in collared/collarer bliss and then the profile will be gone.

Due to the fact that Ive never heard of this happening and there's a shitload of us still here, I'd say an unequivocable...............NO.

(in reply to MistressSassy66)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: Is it possible to have the perfect profile? - 8/20/2010 4:58:02 PM   
DarkSteven


Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline 		For what purpose?  I feel like my profile is pretty good at conveying who I am, and Jeffff's is a work of art for that as well.

_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

(in reply to Hillwilliam)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: Is it possible to have the perfect profile? - 8/20/2010 5:01:00 PM   
laurell3


Posts: 6577
Joined: 5/5/2005
Status: offline 		You profile will never be perfect to everyone that reads it, but I don't think that's the purpose. In my mind the profile is just something to open the door so that someone looking for a partner and reading it has a basic feel for who you are. Conveying that isn't as easy as it seems because we tend to view our words from our own perspective which might not necessarily be what others see.

_____________________________

I cannot be defined by moments in my life, but must be considered for by the entirety of my existence.

When you fail to consider that I am the best judge for what is right for me, all of your opinions become suspect to me.

(in reply to DarkSteven)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: Is it possible to have the perfect profile? - 8/20/2010 5:02:54 PM   
girlygurl


Posts: 6973
Joined: 8/5/2007
From: in the palms of His hands
Status: offline 		My vote was no. No one is perfect.

_____________________________

i see You

happily forever one

(in reply to DarkSteven)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: Is it possible to have the perfect profile? - 8/20/2010 5:10:31 PM   
MistressSassy66


Posts: 1675
Joined: 11/5/2004
Status: offline 		Great answers TY for the new way of looking at it.

(in reply to girlygurl)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: Is it possible to have the perfect profile? - 8/20/2010 5:13:46 PM   
BentUnit


Posts: 897
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

You profile will never be perfect to everyone that reads it, but I don't think that's the purpose. In my mind the profile is just something to open the door so that someone looking for a partner and reading it has a basic feel for who you are. Conveying that isn't as easy as it seems because we tend to view our words from our own perspective which might not necessarily be what others see.


Quoted for Truth.

Very simply put...

You can't please all of the people all of the time.

This includes profiles.

(in reply to laurell3)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: Is it possible to have the perfect profile? - 8/20/2010 5:23:40 PM   
VaguelyCurious


Posts: 5264
Joined: 12/2/2009
From: United Kingdom
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: BentUnit

You can't please all of the people all of the time.

No, but you can accurately convey what you want to the people you want.

Why does the opinion of anyone else matter?

_____________________________

Sthetic on FetLife.




(in reply to BentUnit)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: Is it possible to have the perfect profile? - 8/20/2010 5:27:39 PM   
MistressSassy66


Posts: 1675
Joined: 11/5/2004
Status: offline 		I'm trying to get what I'm looking for Personally and Professionally in just one profile.
Having seperate ones seems like it would be even more of a headache. Being a touch
overly obessive doesnt help.


(in reply to BentUnit)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: Is it possible to have the perfect profile? - 8/20/2010 6:43:02 PM   
Hillwilliam


Posts: 19394
Joined: 8/27/2008
Status: offline 		"ya cant pleeeease everyone, so ya gotta please yaself"


that would be a good song lyric neh?

(in reply to MistressSassy66)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: Is it possible to have the perfect profile? - 8/20/2010 7:01:13 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


Posts: 6719
Joined: 8/7/2007
Status: offline 		I don't now if my profile is perfect, yet. I still get mail, so I guess not. Anyone know what I'm doing wrong?

(in reply to Hillwilliam)
Profile   Post #: 12
Page:   [1]
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Polls and Other Random Stupidity >> Is it possible to have the perfect profile? Page: [1]
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.078