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HisAvalon -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/21/2006 11:38:56 PM)

I am incredibly in love with my daddy. He is my world. I also fear him...not because he may punish me if I deserve it, but because he's so radically different from anyone I've ever known, including myself. He is capable of acts and deeds that I know I could never bring myself to do, especially to another person, and he does it because it is needed/wanted by both of us.

I obey him because I love serving him, because I want him to be happy with me and proud of having such a good girl for his own. Of course, we're also both real people and sometimes I make mistakes, sometimes tempers flare in the wrong way...but any punishment that comes from it is the natural result of such behavior, and is not the reason for my service.

Respectfully,
Avalon



denika -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/22/2006 6:00:07 AM)

I care very deeply for my Top, He  and His family  have become very special to Rob and myself.


The spanking/canings/kicking/ lol you name it.. is not a punishment but a reward.  We do not have a formal D/s relationship but I still obey Him in whatever He asks of me, not out of fear of punishment but for the  enjoyment of serving Him. It is about power enhancement not just a power exchange.

denika

* and I rarely  obey my husband *G* where would the fun in that, be (giggle) as odd as this may sound  Rob doesn't mind others being submissive to him but it weirds him out when I do it *



sweetbbwsub31 -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/22/2006 8:47:18 AM)

i respect and adore my former Dom. In some ways his collar will always be on me. i love him and always will but i am not in love with him.
 
On the subject of spankings... it's always a reward and i miss his spankings to the core.



subtoFemDommes -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/22/2006 10:41:17 AM)

Well, a lot of the respondents have covered the issue pretty well, however, what I'd like to know is ... Why are 98% of the respondents to threads about loving or admiring their Dom/me females?  I feel free to extoll my love for Mistress and the opportunity to do so.  Are sub males still just as caught up in the steriotypical male difficulty with that?... Hmmmmm?



SweetEscravo -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/22/2006 12:21:34 PM)

I love my dom more than anything or anyone else in the world.  It is because of that- not fear- that I want to serve him and make him happy.



OnlyHis -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/22/2006 4:57:04 PM)

I love Master with all my heart.  He has come to mean the world to me because of who and what and how He is. He understands me better than i do myself.  Yes i can act like a brat, at times a bitch, i get angry and sometimes take it out on Him in ways that i deeply regret later and i have in the past broken some of His rules. He knows how to handle me and my good and bad traits, when i act out , when i am unhappy, or being playful.  He punishes me when He knows He needs to and He knows the punishments that will work best for me.  That shows how much He cares . And some of the reasons why i love Him.



fyreredsub -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/22/2006 5:12:37 PM)

this one will get whipped for punishment if corrective measures do not work.

as to love,*smiles* it is too soon for that word in the M/M/s dynamic.
my Owners  love each other and that makes this slave feel more secure entering into the relationship.
this one is rather fond of and cares alot for, love one day, perhaps it is possible this girl supposes, right now it is the bonding and trust building stage.

she obeys because she respects them, because she wishes to be pleasing to them and because it makes us all happy.

M/M speak, slave obeys in a pleasing manner.



MasterRobsalayna -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (4/22/2006 5:43:58 PM)

alayna does not fear Master Rob, she fears disappointing Him, dishonoring Him, hurting Him, disobeying Him, but as long as alayna follows the rules and guidelines He has outlined for her, that should not be a problem.  So far in O/our relationship the need for punishment has not come up.  He is teaching and is patient and loving.  As far as the original question, about loving a Mistress/Master, yes, alayna loves Master Rob to the depths of her soul.  He is everything, is alayna's life and she would have it no other way.



spectreandnectre -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (5/26/2006 9:08:16 AM)

I love Him more than i have ever loved anyone in my entire life.  Not only do i love HIM i need Him that was a hard concept for a woman who always prided themselves on not needing anyone.
But just because you love someone dosent mean your limits and ideas will be the same so yes punishment is in order sometimes but do i love Him afterwards...most certainly i do maybe even more than i did before



desertdancer -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (5/26/2006 10:06:04 AM)

Oh yes, I deeply love Master, to me  He is my world, my heart and my soul and getting to be the one blessed with loving Him is my truest pleasure.  I obey because I love Him and desire with all of me to please Him.  For me spankings are a reward, and a pleasure, what I DO fear is the look of dissapointment He gets when I disobey...that look is a thousand times worse then any spanking to me.

~dancer



GoddessTeaze -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (11/29/2007 3:09:14 AM)

Fear is a bad vibe to feel, it should be a warning , that you're not in the right place or time where you're at. Take those feelings serious, a Good Dominant guides you during Yyour journey, and I believe fear is a truly bad thing to feel.

Love is the best ingredient to start any relationship with, even in Bdsm, without that it is empty.

Goodluck

GoddezzT`



wisteriaV -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (11/29/2007 4:39:49 AM)

I love Master enough to lay down my life for his. [:)]



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (11/29/2007 6:14:02 AM)

not a slave however will reply anyway.

i love Daddy and SO unconditionally.  they don't need to use fear or threaten with spankings or punishments to get me to obey.  besides, they see spankings as foreplay towards sex because using it as a punishment is non-effective.



GingerDouce -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (11/29/2007 6:45:25 AM)

I adore, worship and love my Master. 
 
As someone said above, we both feel that we have been together as this in another time, another life.  Master is fair and just and I trust him with my life.  If punishment is deemed necessary then I welcome it.  My Master would never be malicious or cruel but he is wise and firm.  I serve him because I love and respect him.   I would lay down my life for my Master and am honored that he chose me as his slave.
 
 



breatheasone -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (11/29/2007 7:06:50 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: stacyandjohn

hello slaves ...
do you love your mistress/masters and  obey them or  you   obey them with fear of spanking and punishment ?..
if  you love them  then why there is need of  spanking  you must obey them thats it .

I obey out of respect and because I said I would. My Master and I also love each other deeply.




MaamJay -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (11/29/2007 7:12:48 AM)

i both love Master and am in love with Him. i've been married twice ... but when my life flashes before me when it's time to go, this will stand out as THE love of my life. i obey because that's what i want to do, it's what i committed to doing, it's what pleases Him therefore it's what makes U/us BOTH happy. Note though, i WANT to obey ... doesn't necessarily mean that i WANT to do everything i am asked to do! In fact, i get a perverse pleasure when He asks me to do something i don't really want to do ... because then my obedience is "challenged" and i am happy to follow through on my promise and obey! It doesn't always have to be the big things that people tend to think of either ... it can be in very little things like when i've just sat down and He notices that one of the remote controls is out of reach, or the curtains need to be drawn or whatever ... what i WANT is to stay seated on my arse LOL ... but what i DO is to say "Yes Master" and get up and fetch/do whatever it is. He is such a sweetheart though, sometimes He'll get up and do it Himself ... and while part of me is grateful, the other part feels robbed LOL!

The only "fear" in me is the fear of seeing deep disappointment and hurt in His eyes ... because i know how incredibly sharply that will pierce me too. Not because i think He will lose control, punish me physically (that's NOT His way), or that He will leave ... purely because i can't bear to hurt Him by disappointing Him. It's why, on the occasions when i have got out of hand, i am genuinely very remorseful, and there is always a long discussion and lots of cuddles to follow. As to spankings ... well, for U/us they are play, they are fun, they are reward! O/our repartee when i am being just a tad cheeky (within acceptable bounds) is to say "Oh Master, i am so naughty, spank me!" to which He replies "Oh no, I can't do that, you'd enjoy it way too much!" He's right too!

However, it's not always easy to live with Him! Here's a little eg of His bedtime humour:
W/we were both in bed, talking etc ... and then He says: "OK pet, time to turn the light off" (main light, switch on the wall by the door). i look at Him, grin and say "OK so i guess You're going to make the OLD girl get up and do it [;)]" (well, i am 15 years older than Him!). "Of course," He says, sounding very serious, "you know I can't turn the light off any more". "Why not?" (puzzled look). His answer? "Because I'm not a switch!" DUUUUUHHHH!
So guess which old switch girl got up and turned it off? [:D]

Maam Jay aka violet[A]



DesFIP -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (11/29/2007 9:28:11 AM)

Yes I love him.
No, I don't get punished.
No, obedience is not our thing. Our focus is emotional transparency. He would much prefer I don't obey and talk to him about my feelings instead of obeying and closing my emotions off.

What works for you does not work for everyone.



Teles -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (11/29/2007 10:00:54 AM)

You can love somebody and want to obey them and not be a perfect slave...in fact, I think that's the case for most people.  <=P



BeingChewsie -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (11/29/2007 11:46:32 AM)

I love him, I obey him, neither of which stem from a desire to serve.



DominicsJoy -> RE: Do you love your mistress/master ? (11/29/2007 5:50:24 PM)

I am glad to see that all of the responders I see do boast of love and adoration, and a genuine desire and need to serve. The ones who would not would be those poor vanilla schlubs who are in this for a different activity to do on a weekend so that they could brag about it to their buddies.
If a person is submissive by nature, and truly so... the need to be needed is very important to them. Thus they serve. Whether or not they find the lifestyle... most become caregivers in some form or function. I think you might have been trying to provoke the old debate about players who hop from sub to sub just getting a "quick fix". Most subs do not like this type of relationship and I rarely hear a sub beg for a "velcro collar". Submissive people in general are sensitive and enjoy loving and caring relationships. I am proud to be counted as a slave, and personally do my best to avoid any negative attention. Not only does it upset the harmony of the household, but I would hate to think of a Master harnessed with tending a "brat".
As for ever calling someone MASTER that I did not have a deep love and affection for... no thank you. I wish every Dom who has sent me a form letter in the last 4 years could understand that concept. A submissive does not hear the word Dom and instantly fall to her knees. At least not this one. Respect is given as earned. Master has mine.

Master's girl- joy



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