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Long-Distance Slave Training? - 8/22/2010 7:42:11 AM

SatuKitsuni

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Hello, everyone~!
Let me give you a bit of background so you can kind of understand where this question's coming from.

My Master and I have were best friends for quite some time before we finally confessed we loved one another and got together. Even before we started dating, He had an interest in an M/s relationship. After a little studying here and there, I realized that a lot of the things M/s relatioships and practices entail are very similar to some of my deepest wishes! So, after a small discussion, we became a 24/7 M/s pair. (Not too long ago, we also found interest in petplay, so I am now His human fox.)
The only problem is, He lives in Texas (he's going to school there) while I'm in Oklahoma. He's worried about the time He doesn't get to spend training me. He sees me sometimes over Skype, but it's nothing like "the real deal."
Currently, He has me getting used to calling Him "Master" (which, strangely enough, is easy for me to write). He also has asked me that when He returns to Oklahoma around Christmas/New Year's, to practice becoming attentive when He calls for me, and learn to heed His commands without question.

Is there anything else I could possibly do to further my training while He's away at school? (If not, I'll be as patient as I can and wait for His return so he can train me LOTS.)
Thank you SO much in advance! =^-^=
~*~Satu Kitsuni~*~

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RE: Long-Distance Slave Training? - 8/22/2010 8:03:16 AM

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If you use the Search feature on the site and use the keywords "online training" and "assignments," you'll find several past threads with good information. Copy and paste them into a file and email it to him to look over. He can pick and choose which he likes or tweak them to his specifications.

I also suggest picking up a copy of The Miss Abernathy Omnibus by Christina Abernathy. The section called Training With Miss Abernathy is designed as a training workbook. There are even exercises for developing attentiveness, which is something you'll be working on when he comes home.

You should also keep some type of electronic journal, either using a blog site like LiveJournal, or by creating voice/video recordings that you can share with him. This will help your mutual communication process as your relationship develops.

Best of luck!

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RE: Long-Distance Slave Training? - 8/22/2010 8:05:33 AM

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Is there anything else I could possibly do to further my training while He's away at school?

Training in what? Seriously, it would depend on what he wants you to learn. Have the two of you discussed this? Beyond the simple expectations you mentioned, are there certain types of protocol he requires? Does he want you to learn a certain skill that would be useful?

This link might be of interest... Specific resources for service

Best of luck

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RE: Long-Distance Slave Training? - 8/22/2010 10:17:13 AM

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its all in the mindset i think. if you recognise that much of this is really all about keeping the contact going rather more than training you, the things you do then start to have a little more meaning to them.

in the spirit of that you can come up with a ton of things that have a connective feeling. from some little mantra when you go to bed to what you eat to how you dress and present youreself that would suit his tastes if he was there and on and on.

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RE: Long-Distance Slave Training? - 8/22/2010 4:30:07 PM

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Thank you for all of the helpful responses! :D I really appreciate it!

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RE: Long-Distance Slave Training? - 8/25/2010 8:42:13 AM

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TX to OK,, are you kidding me????????. we should all be so lucky to have that little distance between. i am in MI and had a slave in DC. distance is a small obstacle if it is the proper situation for both people. how long is this school? time goes quickly, be patient, stay true.

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