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RE: Aa question for all...subs and dominants as well - 4/21/2006 7:11:43 PM

TemptingNviceSub

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I would consider it more curiosity on Dom part...eh..maybe a touch of concern, but mostly curiosity..Tempting

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RE: Aa question for all...subs and dominants as well - 4/21/2006 7:55:15 PM

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I would take it as concern for my well being.. Being that i have put not only myself but my kids in a bad situation before meeting Master ..I myself have asked girls if they are sure they have looked at every angle and asked the right questions ..Its not me trying to run a girls life or being nosey just because i have nothing better to do , its genuine concern for anither persons well being wether i know them personal or just met them..

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RE: Aa question for all...subs and dominants as well - 4/22/2006 1:35:22 AM

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Wouldn't be an issue to me as I would view someone who put a time limit on it as being rather caught up in fantasy la la land. So they have a month time limit, what happens when three of the four weeks have passed and they haven't found what they are looking for, are they going to throw themselves on their knees in front of the first person who lables themself Dom? regardless of wether they are compatable or not?

Such a girl would strike me as desprate to have anything, unrealistic and without much clue or conviction about what she realy wants. She is VERY unlikely to have anything to offer long term that I am interested in, would likely be very hard work for very little return and thus very unlikely to get contacted by me or get a positive responce should she contact me.

If it where another statement of what the person wanted that didn't red flag so clearly then there would be no insult intended but such a question would simply be looking for clarification as to the reasons behind it.

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RE: Aa question for all...subs and dominants as well - 4/22/2006 1:40:03 AM

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You could certainly take it as an insult, though it is probably meant as an expression of concern. I admit I'm exactly the sort who would send such a question, just because it seems an invitation to being taken advantage of. I can be very protective even of strangers, so I certainly would understand if someone saw it as nosy and told me to mind my own business.

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