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What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/21/2006 2:22:28 PM

johncw1

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I have posted my ad which i carefully do, thinking and being as sincere as I could, I register in the slave register and added a pic of me, I did everything I had to do but many owners want you and then nothing. I hate that i was born in Mexico, I do, if I was an american slave I would have found my owners right away but being from mexico many owners think i am going to be a load to them when I do have a visa, a passport, insurrance and I could work in anything and the money would go to my owners hand, I am so frustrated because I dont know if I will ever get to serve and live happly and if being or wanting to be a slave is something real and that happend. Sometiimes I would like to be a girl as they have more chance but as a male, bisexual any owner can use me also and in the domestic areas, male slaves are as good as female slaves, nude or in uniform. What counts is the effort and skill you have and also how much time you are willing to put in making your tasks a success and the life of your owners a little bit easier.
After exploting from my frustration, I thank you for reading my message, I hope you have a nice day.
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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/21/2006 2:31:56 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: johncw1

I have posted my ad which i carefully do, thinking and being as sincere as I could, I register in the slave register and added a pic of me, I did everything I had to do but many owners want you and then nothing. I hate that i was born in Mexico, I do, if I was an american slave I would have found my owners right away but being from mexico many owners think i am going to be a load to them when I do have a visa, a passport, insurrance and I could work in anything and the money would go to my owners hand, I am so frustrated because I dont know if I will ever get to serve and live happly and if being or wanting to be a slave is something real and that happend. Sometiimes I would like to be a girl as they have more chance but as a male, bisexual any owner can use me also and in the domestic areas, male slaves are as good as female slaves, nude or in uniform. What counts is the effort and skill you have and also how much time you are willing to put in making your tasks a success and the life of your owners a little bit easier.
After exploting from my frustration, I thank you for reading my message, I hope you have a nice day.
juan

There are PLENTY of single, "unowned" male slaves in the USA complaining that they are available and no one wants them. Why do you think that if you put an ad up and register on a 'fantasy' site that someone will want to take you and all the responsibility that comes with you? Generally, people are looking for a relationship of some sort on top of the fantasy.

Regarding your immigration status, that's unclear and questionable. You may have a visa and passport but whether or not you can legally work in the USA isn't absolutely clear. Are you saying you have a legal employer ready to hire you in the USA?

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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/21/2006 2:44:57 PM

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Akasha, Ma'am,

The racism on this site is just unbelievable! I am a single "unowned" male slave in Canada complaining that I am available and no one wants me. Are Canadians just not to be mentioned here? Are we taboo? Are we not even deserving of the time it takes to type the word?

I am disappointed, depressed, disheartened, dejected, and probably delusional. Not because of your post though. Just in general.

Yours,

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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/21/2006 2:55:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Akasha, Ma'am,

The racism on this site is just unbelievable! I am a single "unowned" male slave in Canada complaining that I am available and no one wants me. Are Canadians just not to be mentioned here? Are we taboo? Are we not even deserving of the time it takes to type the word?

I am disappointed, depressed, disheartened, dejected, and probably delusional. Not because of your post though. Just in general.

Yours,

benji

Shame on you. I actually *imported* a Canadian-born boy and paid out the ASS to have him immigrated here. He lived here for a half a year unable to earn income. Now I fully support him. And I have a fetish site devoted to ice hockey. I love Canadians!

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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/21/2006 2:58:55 PM

gooddogbenji

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That is, actually, the reason I posted my earlier comment. I really am just jealous of him.

Yours,

benji

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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/21/2006 3:00:27 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

That is, actually, the reason I posted my earlier comment. I really am just jealous of him.

Yours,

benji

If you play ice hockey I may have a gf for you.
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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/21/2006 3:07:46 PM

Proprietrix

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umm.. I'm completely confused about your whereabouts as soon as I hit your profile. It says your a white European slave in Vancouver/Mexico Canada, from German desent. The map in my head goes "huh?" and it's difficult to read the rest of the profile because I keep saying to myself "where?"

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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/21/2006 3:09:49 PM

gooddogbenji

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Akasha,

I don't play, but I love to watch it. Well, not so much watch the game, but I love the drinking associated with it.

GO LEAFS!!!!!!! *CHUG* GO LEAFS!!!!!!!!!!! *CHUG* GO... who the hell is playing again?????

But give me her number anyway, I can always lie to her.

Yours,

benji

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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/21/2006 3:19:53 PM

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What does it take? It takes the same things any relationship takes -- time, patience, lots of looking and learning about the other person, and letting go of the victim mentality that keeps you from being positive on the journey. People want to be around others who respect themselves, who serve out of a sincere desire to serve, who live their lives completely, until they have a chance to find the right people with which to share what they have to offer.

If you are ready to relocate to be in a relationship, maybe you should consider being where you want to be on your own (ie, going ahead and relocating) and seeking out local contacts in the lifestyle once you're settled. If you're looking for someone where you are, getting out and getting involved in the local community is one of the best ways to meet people who share your ideas. Above all, the things you want in your life will come where you put the most positive energy -- so if this is what you want in your life, work on drawing it to you with sugar, rather than vinegar... being positive, upbeat, and taking honest opportunities to serve the community until you can serve your "one" will get you noticed in the -right- ways.

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quote:

ORIGINAL: johncw1

I have posted my ad which i carefully do, thinking and being as sincere as I could, I register in the slave register and added a pic of me, I did everything I had to do but many owners want you and then nothing. I hate that i was born in Mexico, I do, if I was an american slave I would have found my owners right away but being from mexico many owners think i am going to be a load to them when I do have a visa, a passport, insurrance and I could work in anything and the money would go to my owners hand, I am so frustrated because I dont know if I will ever get to serve and live happly and if being or wanting to be a slave is something real and that happend. Sometiimes I would like to be a girl as they have more chance but as a male, bisexual any owner can use me also and in the domestic areas, male slaves are as good as female slaves, nude or in uniform. What counts is the effort and skill you have and also how much time you are willing to put in making your tasks a success and the life of your owners a little bit easier.
After exploting from my frustration, I thank you for reading my message, I hope you have a nice day.
juan

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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/21/2006 3:45:35 PM

CrappyDom

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If you aren't finding what you seek, consider starting a group that is oriented closer to your vision of things Black Rose has some advice on how to do it on their website, in the days of the internet it is easier, plenty of sites to advertise on and there is always Craigslist.

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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/21/2006 4:12:44 PM

Phoenixandnika

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Unless there is now a bdsm site for mail order dominates or submissives it will simply take time and patients.IF you are not in the US and that is where you want to be I would suggest that right now perhaps that should be your focus. That does not mean take a "nice american" Domme in order to help you get there. It means to do the foot work, establish yourself with a job,place to live, ect. THEN worry about involving someone else into your life.

The United States may be the land of opportunity in alot of ways but NEVER once have I heard it is so because a submissive is gauranteed a dominate. Is that something you can sign up for when you go thorugh you citizen courses?

Nika{Phoenix}

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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/21/2006 4:23:17 PM

IronBear

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Leaving gender out, there are just so few slaves here in Aussie who are Gorean orientated or interested and yet on last count I have three girls in the US, four in Canada and one in the UK all who are willing to migrate and all of whom have the professional credentials to work here, and yet the earliest I could expect them to arrive is 5 (Five frigging) years.. Unless I can have an employer who is willing to ship one out and give a written guarantee that she will be employed under contract for five years. Even then the time before she could expect to arrive may be as long as three years.. What a clusterfuck out immigration system has become since 9/11 and the bombings in Bali... Before then Britts and US folk had an open arms welcome with few restrictions........ Another reason why I am investigating changing nationalities and location....

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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/21/2006 4:24:52 PM

Phoenixandnika

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Iron Bear,

I bet you could go to a site and still get yourself a nice mail order bride.

*winks*

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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/21/2006 4:38:08 PM

IronBear

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Ahhhhhh perhaps but I am married already and poly is not legal here as far as official multi brides go .. and strangly the only areas which it is still easier to get females in is from Oceania and SE Asia.... I'd settle for a Vietnamese, Cambodian or Thai slave girl it's just that you need to have more money that I do these days...

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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/21/2006 9:23:42 PM

akisha

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IB
even being in Canada just to imigrate to the US is a HUGE hassle. i've looked into moving to both the US and to Aussie. What a nightmare.

Where are you looking to immigrate to if you do?

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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/22/2006 4:23:15 AM

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Patients is a virtue. Not looking down at yourself is another. Everything worth while take time and a huge investment of self. Keep strong, and keep positive, and you WILL find the right person, or better yet, be found by them. I was found on-line by my submissive (now my wife), and I believe that the Internet is a wonderful place to find what you truly need. DON'T GIVE UP HOPE!!!

Good luck,
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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/22/2006 4:43:45 AM

IronBear

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Canada looks pretty darned good to me with all those Grizzlies there

Alternatively Southern Ireland is fine, have one or fifty relatives there too and of course Scotland have a family property there as well. Were it not for Neets sheesh I'd be back in SE Asia making heaps of dollars.. (Used to own a Thai lass there once, she was my property by sword rites.. Excelent sence of the way to do things over there)

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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/22/2006 5:49:04 AM

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This is just another personal ad, mixed with some whining...

Apparently, if one posts and ad and is not snapped up immediately, the sky will fall or he'll turn into a pumpkin or have puppies or something.

Have patience (not patients, btw, those are people in the hospital and such), and learn to live your life happily on your own. Your time will come, but it's the one thing you cannot make happen just because you want.

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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/22/2006 8:49:38 AM

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I don't know about other people but I'm not looking just for a slave -- I'm looking (when I'm looking) for someone to be my slave. That means I have to know if he's interesting enough on all levels to get involved in.

Sorry, I'm not a muti-millionaire who can relive the good old Roman times and keep unknown people as living tools. I live in a world where consent is the key and that means my consent too. I want the total package, not just a living tool, so I want to get to know the person before I accept their services.

I have a question though for you and anyone else looking to become a slave:

Other than being online what are you doing to actively make yourself attractive and ready to become a slave?

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RE: What does it take for a Owner to meet a slave? - 4/22/2006 9:05:03 AM

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As Roadrunner says.... *meep meep*

or is it ...*meep meep meep meep meep meeeeeeeeeeeep meep meep meep*

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