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FamilyofM -> RE: Women beating men up (9/2/2010 9:58:41 AM)
I am of the "to each his own" crowd as well. Though with the risk of injury and death being so high based on the way you describe some of the beatings, I am certain that bad things are on the horizon. I do wish everyone who partakes in this fetish (if it is indeed a fetish and not just a way to make money) good luck and good health.

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Women beating men up (9/2/2010 10:16:36 AM)
I really would not consider this as part of BDSM, but there's an overlap. Some people simply get off on getting beat up or beating somebody up. The thing is that it's become Entertainment for people to post on youtube or other places on the Net. Where instead of things being stunts acted out it's for real. It's basically violence, however people beating up or being beaten up become rather celebs of sorts. In part driven by the attention they recieve. People will do all kinds of stuff for the sake of attention. It's a little difficult to peg any one specific reason why people are doing this. Just a combination of things. So how much is too much? This is a question we are faced with as a society and on the personal level. Personally I liked littlewonders response to this. I have no interest in playing God or the Police. However, if it was somebody close to me. Let's just say, I tend to keep to my own sphere of the world. I might play God or the police in certain cases, within my own corner of the world. I really don't view this a being part of BDSM but can see an overlap here.

LadyNTrainer -> RE: Women beating men up (9/2/2010 11:19:42 AM)
This sounds seriously fuckin' hot to me, and a lot like some of the rough body play scenes I enjoy, except I'm considerably more safety conscious when it comes to where and with what I will strike someone. I would certainly enjoy administering this kind of savage, brutal beatdown, but since I'm much too aware of the potential consequences and legal liability issues, I don't do this kind of play except in a safe and controlled way with trusted partners. Because I really like the fantasy, I'd like to research how to give someone a black eye with stage makeup so that I can enjoy the visuals without risking damage to my partner. The idea of him cowering and crying at my feet with his face all bruised is an incredibly hot one for me, but the mechanics of face punching are a bit too risky for me to be comfortable doing more than supported slapping or "stunt" punching with minimal actual contact. At some point it would be really fun to roleplay a domestic violence kind of scene, but the actual face impacts are going to be pretty limited for safety. Body punching in well muscled areas and controlled kicking with the top of the foot, that I can do. Yummy. BTW, if you're one of those guys trolling for women whose scene this is, please don't. The more women get hit on for speaking out about what they like, the less they want to speak out. Yes, I like to do this. A lot. No, I won't do it with you. This is something that is very passionate and primal and sexual for me, so it's reserved for my committed partners.

Charles6682 -> RE: Women beating men up (9/2/2010 12:42:21 PM)
I have now come to a point where I now only do these video's/session with mainly one girl.She is an African-Amercian Goddess who I feel isn't out to cause serious harm.I have been shooting these video's mostly with her because for her,she understand's that this isn't about actually hurting someone.Some of the other Women can be rather brutal and I simply will not shoot any video's with those Ladie's who inflict serious pain.I wouldn't consider this to be 100% BDSM.It is clearly for adult entertainment purpose's.It's basically watching a pro-session recorded on a camera.When I first started doing these video's,I didn't truly realize just how many people were seriously into this.It's not just men buying these video's either,many Women buy these video's as well.I personally myself,do not care about being "popular" for doing these kind of video's,but that's okay as well.I do not mind.My personal life does not have any barrier's from me doing these video's in public.In other word's,I am already open about who I am with people anyway's.If my face was seen on camera by my local neighbor,it wouldn't bother me.For some people though,they can't have their face in a camera because they may have important job's and don't want their face out in the public.They do private session's for those guy's,which do cost some money.

FetishHound -> RE: Women beating men up (9/21/2010 3:47:08 PM)
I enjoy having my face slapped or lightly chocked but I'm not into anything extreme.For me it's about having fun.I don't want to be in the hospital.

liks2plzlf -> RE: Women beating men up (9/21/2010 10:03:15 PM)
No body has mentioned yet that "they hit like girls"

Charles6682 -> RE: Women beating men up (9/22/2010 10:00:49 PM)
Well,your right,they do hit like girl's.Very tough girl's that can seriously hurt someone if they really wanted to.

SlaveBlutarsky -> RE: Women beating men up (9/25/2010 9:26:58 PM)
As big a fan of getting the crap beat out of me by a woman as I am, i draw the line when it comes to serious bodily harm or injuries that cause me to have the grammar of a third grader.

Charles6682 -> RE: Women beating men up (9/26/2010 12:19:58 AM)
I can certainly agree with that.There need's to be a healthy difference bewteen fantasy and reality when it come's to this stuff.I am sure even the biggest fan of women beating men up,wouldn't want to be sucking their dinner from a straw.

odysseyIndeed -> RE: Women beating men up (9/26/2010 2:01:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crazyml For example - were you able to correctly pluralise nouns in the past? LOL ~ I know, right? That's scary.

crazyml -> RE: Women beating men up (9/27/2010 5:28:27 AM)
An important lesson for us all, I think ;-)

Charles6682 -> RE: Women beating men up (10/1/2010 9:59:11 PM)
I should mention that all of this is all consensual.No one is forced to do anything they don't want to do.The guy's are well informed of their decision's before the video/session is to take place.I have yet to see anyone get truly injured from doing this.Of course,accident's can happen.Perhap's the most important thing for me is,I met my current Domme through doing this.She is a beautiful Ebony Domme and I really couldn't ask for a better Domme.I actually enjoy shooting video's with her.To be her submissive,is well worth it for me.

VampiricLust -> RE: Women beating men up (10/1/2010 11:31:32 PM)
Anything that gets the blood pumping.

Acer49 -> RE: Women beating men up (10/2/2010 12:45:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Charles6682 There is a local place in the city where I live,where Women get paid to literally beat the hell out of guy's.It's this guy,who own's a few website's,where he shoot's video's of Women beating up men.Now,the men do get serverly hurt.However,the girl's do punch and kick the men in the face,rib's and really anywhere else.This is clearly a huge fetish amongst many men,because this guy who own's these site's is weathly enough or he wouldn't be doing so well selling these video's.I have done a few of these video's myself,I even get paid to do these video's but I have paused,thinking about my long term health.I have had a few bloody nose's and my rib's have hurt because of this.I am a submissive and I enjoy Female Domination,but this is a bit extreme.I am curious from people here in the CollarMe community,how much is too much?Even though no one has gotten seriously hurt from doing this,there's alway's that "what if".I know my decision to continue to do this is clearly up to me.However,I would like to hear other people's point of view on this topic.Thank you. Legal issues aside, While it may be consensual, it has proven not to be safe, and I have reservations if this is an act of a sane individual. But each to their own. I do the see this as domination as the beatee is is simply submitting to a body part of the beater, not the beater themselves

Ambition09 -> RE: Women beating men up (10/3/2010 10:45:47 PM)
Sounds awesome, I'd pay =)

submissivemale22 -> RE: Women beating men up (10/3/2010 11:13:48 PM)
i am not into violence/pain... but just speaking from the physicality standpoint, i really dont think that many female could hurt me.

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