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RE: disobey - 8/28/2010 6:34:08 PM

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My first instinct is to boot her ass to the curb. But after thinking about it, I'd make a present of her to him just to fuck with both of their worthless asses because it would be amusing to watch as she jerks him around too.

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RE: disobey - 8/28/2010 7:03:53 PM

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If I were a dominant, I would talk to my submissive extensively and find out the details. Circumstances, when known, sometimes change things. The most henious-looking crime is occasionally an act of great good, if done in specific circumstances, so I wouldn't want to be to quick to judgean act a lot less henious than a major crime--until I fully understood it. Then I'd decide what to do based on what I'd learned. If I were a dominant, I imagine I would be deeply committed to and responsible for my sub or slave, just as I am that way on the sub side, so I wouldn't allow any intital unruly feelings of shock or hurt influence my utimate decision--my iron mental will would hold the reins of those horses!

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RE: disobey - 8/29/2010 2:05:44 PM

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It's a sure bet that I would immediately be dumped.

This

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RE: disobey - 8/29/2010 2:32:08 PM

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The shit would really hit the fan. Daddy and I have an understanding that I will NOT play with any male Doms. So I wanted to do some special pictures for Him for His birthday, so I secretely asked a Dom FRIEND (I do NOT play with this Guy)to tie me up and take some bondage photos that I could give Daddy as a birthday surprise. He liked the photos but was very disappointed that He was not the One doing the tying. I had a lot of explaining to do and the whole thing turned out very badly...a bad idea for a surprise.

If I were to play with Someone Else, I would find my ass unowned in a heartbeat, I'm sure.

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RE: disobey - 8/31/2010 2:50:28 AM

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Dom, sub, switch...if your man does not let you socialise, i think you have a big problem
but if you 'need' to see this dom without permission for sexual purposes... i suggest you try masturbation while fantasising about him... if you must however have physical contact i suggest you make sure you keep it a secret unless you want to find your ass unowned.

unless you are as wonderfully naive as sweetsub and manage to get away with it... that's just priceless

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RE: disobey - 8/31/2010 3:45:12 PM

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unless you are as wonderfully naive as sweetsub and manage to get away with it... that's just priceless

Naive.......haha That's cute. Actually, I had hell to pay for even letting Someone Else tie me up. I actually thought it'd be some nice photos for Daddy, and they were, BUT Daddy was pissed off that I didn't get permission first. I don't see it as "getting away with it," so much as making a bad judgment call, because I had no ulterior motive and wasn't trying to "get away with anything." I did NOT want to play with this Dom friend of mine and made that perfectly clear ahead of time.

This Dom friend of mine and I did NOT "play." He just matter-of-factly tied me up, took pictures with MY camera, untied me, and then He left. It took about a 1/2 hour because the ties were involved. I even wore a teddy, so I was "decent." He did NOT get pictures for Himself from it, there was NO sex or anything of the sort. Just tying, that's it. If I had played with this friend, I would have been kicked to the curb.

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RE: disobey - 9/1/2010 1:03:43 AM

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I think it depends on what you mean by "see"-

If by "see" you mean pop round for a cuppa then that's one thing, if it means get it on that's an entirely different thing.

I've no objection whatsoever to my sub's hanging out with friends (dom, sub or nilla) - so they implicitly have my permission.

If a sub of mine went to indulge in kink with someone else, it would be over, she's essentially released herself.

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RE: disobey - 9/1/2010 9:49:37 AM

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If it's "see" as in "hang out with," I would expect any Dom of mine to be pretty reasonable about it, unless there was a prior agreement not to hang out with any other Doms.

If it's "see" as in "date/sleep with," I would dump myself. And then I'd think, "god, me, what a jerk you are."

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