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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 2:24:45 PM   
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I fully believe that polygamy is not necessary for a good relationship. I say only that a woman completely serious about belong and being owned should never try to limit her Master's enjoyment and understand that cultural biases should not stand in the way of dedication to service that is all.


A person who is completely serious about being owned should never limit their owners enjoyment.
The simple solution to this problem? If you aren't into poly, make sure you make that very clear, and make sure you make it very clear that if the D type decides they want a poly family, that you will be leaving for your own mental well being since they are obviously uninterested in taking care of you properly.


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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 2:24:49 PM   
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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 2:27:25 PM   
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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 2:35:06 PM   
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: CeriseNin

I think there's a difference between sub and slave, but I know people who don't.


I'm one of the ones who think they are relationship terms and should be selected and defined by what fulfills the people in said relationship, not another person's defination. So I don't regard there as having to be a difference but for some people there is one.

Yes, exactly. My own definition doesn't have any relevance to anyone outside my relationship. Different strokes, etc.

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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 2:38:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CeriseNin

Different strokes, etc.

[PervySnarkyVoice] Literally, in this case [/PervySnarkyVoice]

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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 2:39:28 PM   
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I am fairly sure I never used the word fake. Interesting that it should be used repeatedly in response. I fully believe that polygamy is not necessary for a good relationship. I say only that a woman completely serious about belong and being owned should never try to limit her Master's enjoyment and understand that cultural biases should not stand in the way of dedication to service that is all. I hope every young lady on here finds the Master of her dreams, but no one has addressed the substantive arguments.


FR - cos this jumped out at me and i havent read the rest of it, so appologies if this is after the event - ill post this and probably find pages of banter and itll stick out like a sore bum,  never mind, here goes anyway........,

thats all very well, but youre assuming that all men are capable of runing a poly household, it just isnt so.  my ex Master was pants at it, and he wont mind me saying that cos he readily admits it..  no matter how hard the subs/slaves try to share and pull together differences occur, its human nature, jealousy and insecurity develops if the guy isnt on top of it all.  it isnt just the rose coloured spectacled pandoras box of choccies you seem to be suggesting.

if you really are capable of runing a poly household then theres really nothing to stop you - but you have to engender faith in the sub or slave that youre up to the job first.

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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 2:50:48 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: CeriseNin

Different strokes, etc.

[PervySnarkyVoice] Literally, in this case [/PervySnarkyVoice]

Yes, I opened myself for that.

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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 2:53:45 PM   
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(Too tired to think of a catchy double entendre comeback-can we just pretend I said something sexily witty, please?)

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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 2:59:42 PM   
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Different strokes, etc.
[PervySnarkyVoice] Literally, in this case [/PervySnarkyVoice]

Yes, I opened myself for that.


She took advantage of your vulnerability.

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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 3:00:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious



(Too tired to think of a catchy double entendre comeback-can we just pretend I said something sexily witty, please?)

And it's left me tongue-tied.


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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 3:06:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CeriseNin

And it's left me tongue-tied.



Oooh, I like you. You should stick around

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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 3:12:53 PM   
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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 3:15:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: CeriseNin

And it's left me tongue-tied.



Oooh, I like you. You should stick around

I will & thank you.

:D

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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 3:18:27 PM   
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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 3:33:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Twoshoes


quote:


Different strokes, etc.
[PervySnarkyVoice] Literally, in this case [/PervySnarkyVoice]

Yes, I opened myself for that.


She took advantage of your vulnerability.

~ Always "helpful".

LOL, she should do it again.

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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 3:36:23 PM   
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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 3:41:24 PM   
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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 3:47:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

Can't I just take advantage of you even when you're *not* vulnerable?

ShamelessHussy!VC

-flutters eyelashes-

I'd be disappointed if you didn't.

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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 3:52:19 PM   
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RE: Monogamy Agonistes - 8/29/2010 3:55:11 PM   
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