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Help - 8/28/2010 11:39:58 PM   
perfectslave09


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Status: offline 		I am having some trouble getting a real mistress online that can treat me right and I was just wondering if anybody could look at my profile and give me some pointers on how to change it to make it look better
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RE: Help - 8/28/2010 11:53:57 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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RE: Help - 8/28/2010 11:59:31 PM   
perfectslave09


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Status: offline 		thank you

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RE: Help - 8/29/2010 12:17:15 AM   
perfectslave09


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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

Please visit the link below and follow the instructions.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_3057123/tm.htm



is there any chance you could read it now and tell me what you think

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RE: Help - 8/29/2010 12:45:36 AM   
dreamerdreaming


Posts: 2839
Status: offline 		Read it. Your main profile text is mostly about your kinks. Fix that. Women want to know about the rest of you. Unless you just want a play partner. If you want a relationship, we want to know details about your vanilla life and preferences.

And don't say you're an average guy. No one wants to settle for average. We want someone special. Play up whatever is special about you.

Use specifics! Details! You've got to sell yourself, man! If you can't be bothered to get enthusiastic about yourself and put some detailed effort and time into your profile, why should we?

Edited to add: you do seem really cute and sweet and sincere, so keep that.

WELCOME! Explore, and have FUN!

< Message edited by dreamerdreaming -- 8/29/2010 12:48:38 AM >

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RE: Help - 8/29/2010 1:08:48 AM   
Twoshoes


Posts: 1218
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Status: offline 		More about you... less about what you want to do when horny. ^^

Although, I perfectly understand if you're horny 35% of the time.

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RE: Help - 8/29/2010 8:28:28 AM   
LadyHibiscus


Posts: 27124
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Status: offline 		What is he saying in that sign he is holding in his avatar? I don't have my glasses on.

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RE: Help - 8/29/2010 8:30:21 AM   
Rule


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Status: offline 		Presumably it says what he says in his opening post?

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RE: Help - 8/29/2010 8:40:49 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		It doesn't seem that way, from the shape of the words.

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RE: Help - 8/29/2010 9:04:00 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Your problem doesn't stem from your profile (though folks have helped you with that part).  The issue is that most 'real' Dominant women aren't wasting their time online and are participating in BDSM in the physical world.

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RE: Help - 8/29/2010 9:05:09 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Your problem doesn't stem from your profile (though folks have helped you with that part).  The issue is that most 'real' Dominant women aren't wasting their time online and are participating in BDSM in the physical world.


Dagnabbit there you go giving away the seeeeekrits!!! Sheesh.

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RE: Help - 8/29/2010 12:22:53 PM   
oldbabyface


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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

Please visit the link below and follow the instructions.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_3057123/tm.htm


Thanks for the wise up.


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RE: Help - 8/29/2010 12:36:27 PM   
perfectslave09


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Your problem doesn't stem from your profile (though folks have helped you with that part).  The issue is that most 'real' Dominant women aren't wasting their time online and are participating in BDSM in the physical world.


well do u know how i could get started in on the physical world side of this

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RE: Help - 8/29/2010 12:47:20 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		It seems you skipped the FAQ threads entirely.

Within the information collected there, you should find a list of groups who hold munches.  A munch is basically a get together of kinky people who have dinner together.  They are in all fifty states.  There are also other types of events, such as demos that you can attend where you can learn about different types of play.

Believe it or not, BDSM doesn't solely exist on the net.  It's been around quite a while longer.


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RE: Help - 8/29/2010 12:48:27 PM   
AAkasha


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quote:

ORIGINAL: perfectslave09

I am having some trouble getting a real mistress online that can treat me right and I was just wondering if anybody could look at my profile and give me some pointers on how to change it to make it look better


Your profile and pic state that you are owned and apparently very happy about it.  If I were the woman that you were owned by, I'd be disappointed in your advertising so aggressively for more.
If you just submitted to this woman one time or on a whim and wrote all that stuff and did that picture, I'd question how serious you are about submission if you just hand it out like that.

You're a cute guy with a lot of potential, would be a shame to blow it just by behaving that way.  Are you owned or not, and who is that woman you apparently are SO devoted to?

Akasha


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RE: Help - 8/29/2010 12:48:53 PM   
Lockit


Posts: 11292
Joined: 5/7/2007
Status: offline 		Why don't you ask Miss Lexi to help you refine yourself to search for another dominant? You have found someone who owns you and yet you seek another?

You state that you have a little cock, therefore it cannot be all the blood flow restricting the brain cells from functioning at least at half their normal level. Think about it. You must be smarter than this. To expect our assistance in refining yourself and hooking up while you have a dominant that owns everything is rather complicated and pretty much useless. Why tread into an established relationship, whether we find much worth in said relationship or not?

There are some places even dominant women dare not go.


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RE: Help - 8/29/2010 1:24:33 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Doesn't say much for Ms Lexi, does it?  You would think a Dominant might be able to answer a question such as 'where do folks go to meet kinky people'.

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RE: Help - 8/29/2010 2:00:29 PM   
Twoshoes


Posts: 1218
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Status: offline 		Oh, surely you're not implying Ms. Lexi is anything less than an actual "goddess".

Must defend her honour!


Wait, wasn't there a thread last week saying "goddesses" are fake?
Well, damn, I fail at everything.

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RE: Help - 8/29/2010 11:44:06 PM   
perfectslave09


Posts: 17
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Status: offline 		well i posted this before i met miss lexi and now i am happy with her and i dont know how to delete this post

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RE: Help - 8/29/2010 11:48:21 PM   
thishereboi


Posts: 14463
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Status: offline 		Ok, I looked. It says you are owned by someone and yet it also says you are willing to relocate and actively seeking a Domme. Which is it?

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